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When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:10pm On Apr 09, 2016
What would you do if all the feelings and affection you have for your spouse vanished?

Sometimes, you think you feel something and after few months, the whole shiit gets bored and you just wanna be out of the relationship.. (I'm sure guys will relate to this)..

What do you do when you are damn sure your feelings for your bf/gf has gone? Especially when the guy/lady has gone deep into the whole relationship thingy..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Mutuwa(m): 10:12pm On Apr 09, 2016
Move on..nothing more

Just like you send your dirty,sweaty clothes to the laundry and put on clean ones.

NB: never push your self into a loveless relationship because of pity for the other.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by halfricanadian(f): 10:13pm On Apr 09, 2016
Move on
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Danfuster(m): 10:13pm On Apr 09, 2016
you'd feel like this only cos what you felt for he/she is lust but not love

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Re: When It Is No More Working. by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:14pm On Apr 09, 2016
Danfuster:
you'd feel like this only cos what you felt for he/she is lust but not love

Gbam!....the feeling of love doesn't just vanish into thin air.

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Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:17pm On Apr 09, 2016
Mutuwa:
Move on..nothing more
Yeah.. Will you just tell her to her face?
Note: Their are some ladies that will keep disturbing even when you stop showing interest, so I believe that is outta the options..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Cutehector(m): 10:17pm On Apr 09, 2016
Just stop talking to them dats all..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by grad2012(f): 10:18pm On Apr 09, 2016
Trust me you never loved her.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by 3DCYCLOPS: 10:18pm On Apr 09, 2016
you either move on...or you continue out of pity





















NB: if you continue out of pity..you'll be the only one losing
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:19pm On Apr 09, 2016
Danfuster:
you'd feel like this only cos what you felt for he/she is lust but not love
Yeah.. I know, but sometimes you don't get it right.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Mutuwa(m): 10:20pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
Yeah.. Will you just tell her to her face?
Note: Their are some ladies that will keep disturbing even when you stop showing interest, so I believe that is outta the options..

You have to tell her of course,but with ease and sincerity.Yours is to tell and act it is over,the rest is left for her to either hang around or move on as well..
But certainly some one would be hurt and one would be emancipated,no matter how you choose to end it.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:21pm On Apr 09, 2016
grad2012:
Trust me you never loved her.
Yeah. I know.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Danfuster(m): 10:22pm On Apr 09, 2016
JeffreyJamez:


Gbam!....the feeling of love doesn't just vanish into thin air.


a lot of people have no idea what it entails to be in love or the gravity of the word "I love you".

I don't mess around with that word. You have to be sure and mean it when you say it

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Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:23pm On Apr 09, 2016
Cutehector:
Just stop talking to them dats all..
What if she doesn't get it and keeps disturbing /calling..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Cutehector(m): 10:25pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
What if she doesn't get it and keeps disturbing /calling..
she will get tired.. trust me.. cool
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:25pm On Apr 09, 2016
Mutuwa:


You have to tell her of course,but with ease and sincerity.Yours is to tell and act it is over,the rest is left for her to either hang around or move on as well..
But certainly some one would be hurt and one would be emancipated,no matter how you choose to end it.
Alright.. Cool then. Though it won't be easy..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:26pm On Apr 09, 2016
Cutehector:
she will get tired.. trust me.. cool
That's bad. Anyways, life isn't fair..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Mutuwa(m): 10:27pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
Alright.. Cool then. Though it won't be easy..

It's never gonna be o! But then all parties must move on,even though one would carry a scar of the heart.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:27pm On Apr 09, 2016
3DCYCLOPS:
you either move on...or you continue out of pity

NB: if you continue out of pity..you'll be the only one losing
True
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Danfuster(m): 10:28pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
Yeah.. I know, but sometimes you don't get it right.

Thats why you don't have to rush it, the best way to start a relationship is to be friends. That's how you know you if you have a chemistry or not.

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Re: When It Is No More Working. by Danfuster(m): 10:29pm On Apr 09, 2016
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Cutehector(m): 10:29pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
That's bad. Anyways, life isn't fair..
bad ke.. dey just deserve it
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:30pm On Apr 09, 2016
Danfuster:


Thats why you don't have to rush it, the best way to start a relationship is to be friends. That's how you know you if you have a chemistry or not.
Yeah, even at that it's not 90% guaranteed..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:31pm On Apr 09, 2016
Danfuster:



a lot of people have no idea what it entails to be in love or the gravity of the word "I love you".

I don't mess around with that word. You have to be sure and mean it when you say it

Exactly..... and in the process of trying to be "sure"..the other person might actually feel you're not taking them serious.... which is not the case.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:32pm On Apr 09, 2016
Cutehector:
bad ke.. dey just deserve it
Don't be like that man, what if you are the victim, will you appreciate it if a lady disses you like that and still try to justify her deed cos she believes "dey (guys) deserve it"?
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Danfuster(m): 10:34pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
Yeah, even at that it's not 90% guaranteed..

Well...just break the bad news to her, it's hurtful but it's the only fair thing to do.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Cutehector(m): 10:34pm On Apr 09, 2016
PureWays:
Don't be like that man, what if you are the victim, will you appreciate it if a lady disses you like that and still try to justify her deed cos she believes "dey (guys) deserve it"?
why will I be a victim? I'm so not vulnerable
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:36pm On Apr 09, 2016
JeffreyJamez:


Exactly..... and in the process of trying to be "sure"..the other person might actually feel you're not taking them serious.... which is not the case.
Yeah man, that's why one needs to act fast and that's exactly where the mistake is..
You wanna make her know that you want her without giving it much time, Bam!! you ask her out, she agrees and later the whole thing fades..

Sometimes, we just don't get it right..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 09, 2016
Cutehector:
bad ke.. dey just deserve it
who are the 'dey' that just deserve it
Re: When It Is No More Working. by PureWays(m): 10:37pm On Apr 09, 2016
Danfuster:


Well...just break the bad news to her, it's hurtful but it's the only fair thing to do.
Yeah! It is.
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Cutehector(m): 10:38pm On Apr 09, 2016
juhan:
who are the 'dey' that just deserve it
those who are so full of themselves, who lack respect..
Re: When It Is No More Working. by Nobody: 10:39pm On Apr 09, 2016
Cutehector:
those who are so full of themselves, who lack respect..
what are you saying?

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