soulpeppersoup:


I thought you say your from a Christian home? You should have said your from a religious home.

Get your bible, study it to discover what God said about your and productivity and the demon of infertility will run from you. Your under oppression

do yu know Chicken soup for the soul?

grossintel:
we bath together when we where kids. We don't have undesended testicles but my testes is smaller and my scrotum strongly holds together like it's cold or something. I wish I can really explain.

When you said "my testes is smaller" . Do you mean is one? You know it supposed to be two knots. With one slightly bigger than the other. Is your single mass or two?

cocoama:
Op your story really touched my heart. I cant possibly imagine what you going through but i know how it feels like to be down and depressed.

If you need someone to talk to you can pm me anytime.

Dont commit suicide please. You can still find someone who will accept you for you. There are ladies too who are infertile who found love and marriage and there are ladies too who dont like sex.

I will also do a bit of research myself and will let you know what i find.

u are so compassionate. I am endeared to u

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

Allah has a plan for you. Don't take your life please. Keep believing in God no matter what, he has already destined a Woman for you and by his grace you'll over come this situation.

I pray for you....very soon i will read ur testimony on nairaland.....

BiafranNigerian:
People pay for medication and still beg for their lives. How much more free knowledge that will give him wings to ride ladies up to 2 to 3 hrs with a turgid dick ? hahahahahaahahaha

You see why we are waging war against Biafra? You all are just stupiid. #fact

your lucky ,Mr Grossintel ,you suffer oligospermia, how about those with Azospermia(absence of sperm in the semen) now you know your problem your closer to discover a solution and why God Almighty allowed it.I pray for you in your faith be healed in JESUS NAME....

God's not dead

Somebody experienced d same thing in my former church(Winners' Chapel). A 40yrs old man. He was impotent from birth. He got married in d church & his penis was not functioning. His wife was patient with him. D man become potent via holy communion & prayer with my d church pastor. I was in d church when d testimony was given on sunday church service last year. Only have faith in God. With God all things are posible

BiafranNigerian:
There is no hell or heaven, except the ones we create sub-consciously. I dont remember creating hell, so there is none for me to go to.

Be nice.

then go to wherever your nasty behavior is approved

wandeykul:
Sorry o madam,i never knew dharay was fucking you,dis 1 you carry hin matter for head,his dick is indeed a miracle cos it has done wonders in ur life.

Wowwwww..... just wooowwwYour hands, your words.

I'm out.

Krisan234:
i don comment na, what will u do?

marvel at how stupid some humans can be

Who r u that he shld beg? Who u don help b4? Re u d creator of his life? U have no power over him, he ll get the help he needs from d right source. So pls keep ur help, advice, suggestions n keep waiting for his begging cos u ll NEVER GET IT!!!

BiafranNigerian:
Not sharing information because the requestor isnt humble enough to ask isnt pride, it is a cosmic law to provide solutions only when asked in humility, its called the Law of Non-Interference. Who knows he might be paying back some Karma and his stubborn ego doesnt give way. The lesson here might be humility for him and he has inadvertently refused to learn.

He is 24, may be at 25 he will be humble, may be in the next lifetime. So far, I havent seen him ask humbly for that solution from me, he will walk the surface of the earth searching for solution that is just in front of him, because he was too stubborn to beg for it. And I mean beg for it. He prefers suicide to begging. Who cares ? He will always come back, existence is eternal, so is experience.

banttieman:


You see why we are waging war against Biafra? You all are just stupiid. #fact

don't use the insensitivity of one to judge all cause that will only make you seem as insensitive as he is, think before you comment and stop allowing your myopic brain revolve about tribalism

Sorry bro. Every problem has expiry date. Don't loose faith, believe in God.

And who told u he has d solution? What if he's just one of those making fun out of other pple predicament? If he want to help someone he shld without waiting or pleading to begged. Moreover so many pple have rendered solutions, suggestions and prayers. For me Op shld n't beg him not now n never. If d begging ll add to his CV then let his CV not increase. He shld keep his solution to himself. HE IS NOT GOD N LL NEVER BE!!!! QED...

oluamid:
I went through every single comment in this thread and I came away with one thing. OP is not desperate enough for a solution.

Honestly, I don't see how a simple I'm sorry please help out any way you can to BiafranNigerian would hurt. More than 10 people have begged on his behalf but has he done the same? Even if the solution doesn't work at the end of the day. at least you would know you tried everything by just pandering to BiafranNigerian's whims.

The hand of the one who seeks something is always low while the peson giving is high. Be a man, say i'm sorry and move on. Lobatan. I don't see how that would hurt.

Their is nothing, the Lord can not do.

tunwe:


When you said "my testes is smaller" . Do you mean is one? You know it supposed to be two knots. With one slightly bigger than the other. Is your single mass or two?

no its two but smaller than normal

who u offend

BiafranNigerian

I say this on the assumption that you are a religious man. When God gives us the Grace to bless or help someone, he doesn't expect that our reward is in that person's hands. Nothing the OP gives you can match the reward that God has in stall for you for edifying His name through the OPs life.

Forget if he begs you or not, if you have the resources to help, help. After all, we do not beg God for the air we breathe, the rain that waters our crops, the sun that illuminates the world by day. He does it for His Glory, even to the benefit of the most unworthy. Think man...think!

God bless us all!

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

I no the feelings and i understand how you feel... Because i have been there.... Going from one hospital to another without solution.... But thank God its a different thing today...  ..... Send me an email .....

You have no new problem man. So long as you are still alive its possible you can still perform as a man. Don't allow scientist compound your problem. Call me and let's see how we can help each other if you still have blood runing in your joystick.08036540064! I am a living testimony.

Op have u tried God?

God is ur solution and I bet u, he never disappoint. God has handled many cases like this and u can testify.

mrmislim:


Damn!!! if I were the op I won't even beg you one bit, what sort of human being are you? so he must beg? if this is how you are in reality then I pity those that surround you.

Damn you old man.

I perfectly understand where the guy you just quoted is coming from and to be frank, OPs reply to him was rude and bad for someone who is seeking for help, you never know who has that perfect info or where that final help will be coming from, so its good to be humble in this type of situation, pick every little information, put it together and make the best use of it. @ BiafranNigeria please I beg on his behalf, help him if you could. Ka chineke gozie gi ka ina eme nkea.

BiafranNigerian:
Isnt it funny, that you are searching for expensive solutions when the solution to erectile dysfunction is almost free ?

My friend I'll be very grateful if you can give me the solution to this please. You also said it can take care of up to 90% of health issues. I won't mind please. If u don't wanna put it in the open here, u can PM me or I drop my email for you. Will be expecting, thanks.

Decker:
Wow. I am really sorry. Had it been you weren't Nigerian or you didn't live in Nigeria, I would have advised you to visit international forums where you'd find ladies who aren't interested in intercourse, and just want the fore-play and other things that don't involve intercourse. There are women like that, I don't know if there are Nigerian women like that, but there is no way to find out is there? You can't go around asking girls that sort of thing, and when you create such kind of thread on Nigeria's biggest forum, NL, all you get is all sorts of negative and discouraging responses.

I honestly don't know what advice to give. Nigerian girls want to be penetrated by an erect dick. At least that's what applies to all the ones I have come across both online and offline. Notice my emphasis on "Nigerian," that's because that's how Nigerians are wired. We always tend to fall at the tail end of the "normal spectrum," except you don't want to date and marry Nigerian women?

But with the speedy advancement in medicine and pharmacy, maybe there is a cure for you. Maybe a hormone boost or something. Just do more research and hopefully, you'd find something that's worth giving a try.

Please don't contemplate the thought of taking your life. It's not worth it. There is more to life than sex. And like I said, there could be a cure for you. There are other things that you derive joy from doing. Spend time doing those things and try to keep your mind off your predicament. I know it's hard, but you have to try. I wish you all the best.

Baba I agree with you that there is more to life that sex,Women are the salt of life...This your cross big bro...All I know is with this kind of problem,Nigeria is not the best place for you...Person wey no get problem sef, babes dey complain if you no do normal for bed not to talk of person with complications...I feel your pain bro...

grossintel:
pls read my post again, this time slowly..

I believe you opened this thread cos you're genuinely seeking for help after trying several means. Someone just said he's got a solution and you had to reply rudely that he should re-read your post slowly. What has that got to do with finding a solution for you. People sleep in churches for years, pay millions and nothing comes out of it. What you're required of is just to ask in humility and that is too much for you? Why don't you give it a shot. It might just be the miracle you need. Help can come from anywhere and anyone . I'm only giving you tough love here cos I want to see you testify, but it's all in your hands though.

Begging and an honest apology are two distinctively different things ...I think op can offer an honest apology to the biafran dude .....I would ..if I am desperate enough for a solution to a depressing problem ..when you want answers personalities should be of no concern ...the biafran dude may seem like an unpleasant character but right now he claims to have something I need ..I figure I can just ask and even if he turns out to be phony at least I'll be sure that side has been covered ...I mean ..I can eat with the devil .with a long spoon of need be ..if it gets me to a desired destination ..this is life ..God has been kind enough to let us continue to be in it ..

My brother he didnt understand at 1st dats y he said you shud it again,biko hapuzie ya

BiafranNigerian:
Isnt it funny, that you are searching for expensive solutions when the solution to erectile dysfunction is almost free ?

smileysmiley:
don't use the insensitivity of one to judge all cause that will only make you seem as insensitive as he is, think before you comment and stop allowing your myopic brain revolve about tribalism

You are not exempted. Say what you wish.

BiafranNigerian:
Devil ? Sounds like the other side of the same coin. I have solution to his problem right here, but I am not sharing until he begs for it. I need his permission, its a natural law.

crazy fella
Don't quote me again

BiafranNigerian:
Isnt it funny, that you are searching for expensive solutions when the solution to erectile dysfunction is almost free ?

I take full responsibility for my rude reply to you, I understand that my behavior was uncalled for and could send the wrong message. It was wrong of me I APOLOGIES and I AM TRULY SORRY. I only asked you to reread the post again because Ed is not the only problem I mentioned, but I maybe wrong, maybe you really have a solution and even if it doesn't work for me for educational purposes it might work for others reading this thread. BIAFRANNIGERIAN I am your brother as well (Igbo). Thank you.