Aykay::: being honest is not a sure way of making a lady gel but its one of tha criteria, i would go with desiree's option.

For real, do what you gatto do, no pimping, no forming, no fronting say what you gatto say!

You dont need Ababio to make her fall neither do you need Advanced learner t make her trip, all you need is you. Be bold and stand up right on your two feet, tell her you love her and tell her you want her and avoid empty promises.

Nothing new under the sun, those advise are kinds of intimidating you need to give a try ok. good luck and if it result to dead slap good luck again. afterall the barier betwn man and success is fear.

jandgal:

all u bois heres the best advice ull get.
u need 2 make a girl feel special like shes the only 1 for you!but don't be 2 foward!! i suld kno im a girl

you can listen to jandgal or just flash the cash and hope for the best!
ha ha ha ha ha

practice makes perfect; telling lies might not take you very far.

I believe u ve to be as polite and staright-forward as u can be. As for me i make sure i tell d babe staright after the normal greeting like hello,dt i like her and will appreciate her to be mine.The discussion abt my initial proposal may not come up btw us for the next 2-3wks.But be rest assured dt my motive has been registered.Simple and cute.

@Thread starter. It's real easy. Don't get yourself all worked up. You'd be tensed and it'd look like you're just reciting something you cram. Just be yourself. Relax and let your communication flow freely.
Next, brush up on your humor skills. Girls always like guys that'd make them laugh/smile. Then learn to flatter/compliments. Girls like to be complimented/appreciated.
Also remember, there three types of response you'd get from a girl: Yes, try harder or absolute no. Remember that commnuication/response is only 10% verbal, others is through body language. Learn to discern which is which. It's always trial and error until you hone your skills and decrease your "no" rate.

Coach

evritin skatta skatta

Just buy her a car,and ask for a ride in the car.Try it.it works like magic

In this age of over-saturation of women, you don't need to labour yourself on strategy. The best option for an average Naija guy is to play the numbers game. Go out there and toast as many women as you can, with whatever approach you have. Your problem will be keeping the ones you can handle. Don't even try to impress with material stuff especially if you're not up to it. There are simply too many fishes out in the sea that you'll get tired casting your net.

Tell the babe u would like to invite her for a drink if she says no that means she is not for you but if she says yes that means u will most likely get her in your bed simple

what is toast?Toast from what i've read is bread.
so i dont understand how it relates to a girl.you might woo a girl,she accepts, she doesnt,no biggy.
Then lets get one thing straight,and not spoil the queen's english, TOAST is bread,

listen to the don, dont attempt to toast her, just walk up to her and rain blows on her head and body for about 5mins, after the act,tell her that u love her and that you want to Bleep her,she will definitly agree because of fear of being beaten again if she reject.it works like magic.

Soyinkas and achebes in the house,
don't discourage the poor boy, to pass english hard am

i think its better you be as indirect as possible but direct at the same time. give her mixed signals. confussing to you? thats ok, it confussing to me too. lets face it, women are a rather very confusing lot. just try to be as natural as possible and if she's not in the mood or just plain chooses to act bratty and over hard to get, let her be; move on.

Hehe, don't come up to us and be all 'Ooh Baby Blah Blah Blah', the toasting tactics that some of you guys come up with sef are just poor sometimes, dry and crispy

Take her to Palms for shopping.

These steps are guaranteed to get you every woman on Earth except an absolute illiterate and Village Girl and in that case just bitc-slap her and carry her home

SECRETS TO SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

• Don't Assume A Woman's Wants And Needs Are
The Same As Your Own.

• Women Are FAR More Interested In The Way
You Make Them FEEL Rather Than Looks, Money,
Or Fame.

• Communicate That You Are The SELECTOR And
Not The SELECTEE.

• Don't Settle For Second-Class Behavior From
Women.

• Don't Try To "Buy" Her Affection With Presents,
Gifts, And Favors.

• It's OK to be a MAN.

• Make A Long-Term Commitment To Practice And
Learn This Material.

• Never Stop Improving Your Physical
Appearance.

• Talk POSITIVELY To Yourself.

• Find And Learn From Others Who Are Already
Successful With Women.

• Define The Outcome You Desire With Women.

The Six Things That Attract Women
I’ve done a lot of research on this topic, and I believe
that women are most attracted to these six things:

1) Means (Wealth, possessions, gifts to them, or
providing for them)

2) Power (Influence, leadership, ability to provide
safety)

3) Fame

4) Looks (Including height)

5) Exclusivity (Royalty, already married, hard to get,
affiliation)

6) Personality (Humor, creativity, romance,
intelligence, mystique, etc.)

• Learn To ATTRACT Women Instead Of Pursuing
Them.

• Insecurity And Neediness Are Your Two Worst
Enemies.

• Avoid “Relationship” Type Behavior.

• Go To The Type Of Places That Attract The
Women You Want.

• Focus On Developing Personality Traits That
Attract Women.

• Stay In Control By Passing Her Tests.

• Be The First To End The Interaction.

• Build Her Curiosity By Being Mysterious.

• Use Cocky & Funny Humor To Keep Her Interest
And Attention.

Never give a woman a direct answer… unless it’s no.
If a woman complains about something you do, say,
“I’m glad you like it” and keep doing it.
Deliberately misinterpret or exaggerate what a
woman says… and look for sexual innuendos in
conversation.
Don’t smile too much or laugh at your own jokes.

• Develop A Deep, Resonating Voice That Women
Are Drawn To.

• 93% Of Our Communication Comes From Body
Language And Voice Tone.

• Eye Contact Is Key.

• Don’t Waste Time Trying To ‘Read’ Women…
Just Keep Advancing.

• Learn To Talk To A Woman In A Way That
Stimulates Her Imagination.

• Plan For Success

• Be Chivalrous

• The combination of chivalry and cocky comedy is
an INCREDIBLE turn-on to women. Done right, it
has an almost magical effect.
• When you’re out with a woman you are interested
in, open the doors for her, pull out her chair and
walk on the outside of the curb when you’re
walking down the street. If you are dropping her
off at her place, be sure to walk her to the door.
• It’s not OK to be a wuss, but you should always be
a gentleman.

• What To Say… And How To Say It.

One of the best ways to approach a woman is to
ask her for a “female perspective” on something
controversial… especially something related to dating.

Another one of my favorites is to simply tell her that I
noticed her and wanted to find out what she was like.

I’ve found these two approaches to work well for me,
but the most important thing to remember is that it’s not
what you say, but how you say it.

Make sure you don’t act “too happy” or overly excited
when approaching a woman. Keep a serious look on your
face, and speak with a slow, mysterious confidence.

Your calmness and comfort will put her at ease and
make the conversation flow smoothly.

• Starting Conversations With Women Is No Big
Deal. GO FOR IT! DON'T HESITATE!

• Act ‘Uninterested’.

• Always lean away from women especially during a conversation.

• Always keep your chest raised.

10 Steps To A Guaranteed Great Date

1. Remember that YOU are qualifying HER to see if
she is someone you want to spend more time
with… and not the other way around.

2. Too many dinners and gifts early on will lead
you into ‘the friendship zone’. Impress her with
YOURSELF instead.

3. E-mail her first to build to build familiarity. Call
her on the phone to set up the date after she emails
you back.

4. On the phone, joke that SHE might turn out to
be weird. This subtlety lets her know that YOU
are normal and fun.

5. Have her meet you at your place so you don’t
end up waiting around… and so she will be
coming back to your place afterwards.

6. Use ‘The Flake Test’ – Ask her what the chances
are that she won’t show to set the tone up
front.

7. Be the first to say “friends” – let her know that
you are looking forward to making a friend if
nothing else… this lets her know you have no
expectations and aren’t needy or desperate.
Mention this during the date!

8. Show her that you aren’t overly interested by
heading to the coffee shop quickly instead of
lingering around at your place.

9. At the coffee shop, RELAX and treat her like
your best friend. Lean back, talk about
INTERESTING topics like drama, violence,
scandal, or comedy, and make cocky/funny
jokes. You can save the compliments for
another time.

10.If you want to spend more time with her, go
someplace where the conversation is built-in,
like a place with fun shops and things to do.
Wander away from her a few times to
communicate that you aren’t ‘needy’ or clingy.

this topic reminds me of a friend during my undergraduate days. do u know what this guy did, there is this lady he wanted to toast, so one day he walked up to the girl, and this is what he said guy- i have being tracing you. lady- for what reason guy- i want to tell you that i like you, i gbadun you, i love you and finally finally i want you to be me

chai.........girls don suffer. Discussing abt strategy, very soon we go hear tragedy