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| Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 12:22pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Knowing that on a designated day, you will be having sex, is a nice thing for a couple living together to practice. No one has to face the humiliation of being rejected, or the anguish or guilt of disappointing thier partner. Yes, you have to give up the notion that sex is only hot, when it's spontaneous. But a sure thing can be just satisfying. And the process of planning can build anticipation. Take pleasure in the details, from the mood music to the lingerie, and make sure there will be no interruptions for at least two hours. 1 Like |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by nairalandbuzz(m): 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
You forgot to elaborate on the fact that it makes both partners ready for the act, which makes them think about it making them fully ready and expectant thereby providing a wonderful and joyous experience... But trust 9ja ladies, they always have a means to spoil the fun and moment... They are ALWAYS not in the mood ... Only ONCE a week... Hahaha.... |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 12:29pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
nairalandbuzz:yes, of course I know that, but this is not applicable to all naija ladies. You can try it sometimes, it works well. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by cruzita(f): 12:30pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
yes u are right ,it makes the couple look forward to that day |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by ronald4lif(m): 12:37pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
If it's not spontaneous and instinctive it can't be much pleasurable. Scheduling sex divest it of it spark. The deal is to take our partner unguarded and initiate when they least expect. 1 Like |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 12:47pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
cruzita:yes dear is very good. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by lordthree(m): 12:52pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
[size=14pt]i think scheduling a day ends up making sex a chore[/size] 1 Like |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 1:00pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
ronald4lif:my dear I understand you perfectly, but sometimes when you schedule a sex date with your partner, it makes you look forward to that day, and the anticipation it gives you, just makes you feel excited prior to that day. That feeling don't just come easily. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 1:07pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
lordthree:Am not saying, it should be all the time, but planning sex sometimes, brings out a certain spark and makes each partner responsible to a course. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by nairalandbuzz(m): 2:23pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
lordthree: Who says its not a marital chore? |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by Lovelynature(m): 2:37pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Making out date for sex makes the couple ready and anticipate for the moment. Especially for the women that mostly claim not in the mood. Changing of schedule is also good so as not to bore the fun. To reschedule the date from time to time would make it great. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 2:54pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Lovelynature:yea, you are on track. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by MRBrownJ: 4:35pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: as much as being spontaneous is better, it also gives you the important clue that your partner is in the right mood... instead of preparing for sex for a few days, only to be disappointed because she isnt in the mood that day, or whatever other instance that would make sex not ideal at that particular moment... talk less of how disappointing it would be if you've really expected it. you should only have sex whenever both of you are in the mood for it No one has to face the humiliation of being rejected, or the anguish or guilt of disappointing thier partner. if turning down sex for the "right" reason is an humiliation to anyone then i am sorry to say that these guys shouldnt be together |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:Are you serious? |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by MRBrownJ: 9:23pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: absolutely |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 11:36pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:I think that's a personal opinion. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by MRBrownJ: 11:56pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: yes it is, just as much as what you wrote in your initial post. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by chriskosherbal(m): 5:29am On Apr 15, 2016 |
MRBrownJ:I wasn't generalising or enforcing, I was only suggesting to couples, something that can be of help and add the needed spark, that has eluded that home. |
| Re: Schedule Sex Dates With Your Partner. by MRBrownJ: 3:19pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: which is exactly what i was also doing, while suggesting why your points might not be so beneficial to couples. |
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