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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Ghost447(m): 10:28pm On Apr 14, 2016
No tricycle? My friend abandoned his Imo fiancee because they added tricycle to the list they gave him.

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by QueenEKAMMA(f): 10:30pm On Apr 14, 2016
Sistem007:
Hehehe...Baba is still weighing his options. Am sure he is asking himself "is she really worth it?". by the way, I tot bride price was for the ladies and dowry for guys. I stand corrected though.
my brother you are correct. Bride price is for ladies and dowry is for male and is practice in india
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by zikmarty: 10:31pm On Apr 14, 2016
grin I no wun laugh abeg
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Temmytea70(m): 10:34pm On Apr 14, 2016
The lady will eventually be placed on OLX... ..
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by 93damsel(f): 10:36pm On Apr 14, 2016
Kikikiki Olx loading.........

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Sistem007(m): 10:40pm On Apr 14, 2016
QueenEKAMMA:
my brother you are correct. Bride price is for ladies and dowry is for male and is practice in india

Thanks dear for the clarification...
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by LecciGucci: 10:54pm On Apr 14, 2016
Adaowerri111:
Been dating for years and today I decided to go through my Bf's pics/gallery...I found this, is it for real?

ada owerri i no kno say u no get sense like diz
wat do u think u are doing? undecided
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by searchng4love: 10:58pm On Apr 14, 2016
for you I will GLADLY pay.

halfricanadian:
This means d guy bought u

Chai he can do wateva he likes with u

cry cry i prefer to be seen as a companion i will b his puppet ni
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:00pm On Apr 14, 2016
searchng4love:
for you I will GLADLY pay.


Why u kno im not foreign wo i local

Locality wear me crown sef
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by searchng4love: 11:02pm On Apr 14, 2016
But Real.


halfricanadian:


Why u kno im not foreign wo i local

Locality wear me crown sef
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 14, 2016
That VIJU MILK Part got me LMAO... smiley
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by oguego(m): 11:09pm On Apr 14, 2016
DaGC:
I highly doubt any parent will issue such a list.

Probably just a comic relief to scare some peeps of Igbo girls.....and yes I know some family demands can be extreme, cause I've been to a few of the weddings.

As for me, there's always the power of negotiation. wink
oga its not funny, its real, and the family have nothing to do with the list, it is the community that prepares the list, we were given something like dis last year during my bro trad wedding
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:10pm On Apr 14, 2016
searchng4love:
But Real.



cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy just say the truth foreign girl broke ur heart abi? cry cry dat girl wicked after all ur hyping she wash ur love like hypo

angry gimme her details make i go finish am
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by YaksonFCA(m): 11:11pm On Apr 14, 2016
Hm! It is high time the National Assembly intervene in this matter.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by searchng4love: 11:12pm On Apr 14, 2016
grin Nah! my d**k is still on international assignment. cheesy cheesy wink

halfricanadian:


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy just say the truth foreign girl broke ur heart abi? cry cry dat girl wicked after all ur hyping she wash ur love like hypo

angry gimme her details make i go finish am
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:15pm On Apr 14, 2016
searchng4love:
grin Nah! my d**k is still on international assignment. cheesy cheesy wink


angry see his small nipple like bird grains

Ma foreign yansh u kno

U wan dey stain peoples yansh abi

Chai u need make dem beat u like italian puddy
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by CzarChris(m): 11:22pm On Apr 14, 2016
But seriously, this is not much nah........ Shuuuu, everything on this list is truly not up to 500k, and yes negotiations take place. He may not even pay up to 10% of what is on the list, especially if the girl's father is alive. Negotiations are more difficult if the babe's dad is late and a greedy uncle stands in his place. But either way, this list is cheap.



People always say igbo girls brideprice is huge, well, cultures differ. As I will not ask an Urhoboman why he has to bury his dead wife in her father's house, nor will I ask an hausaman why he has to furnish his married daughter's husband's house him, or a yorubaman why he loves ewedu/draw/oily soups, or even cultures that husbands give their wife to their visitors as entertainment.

You guys should just leave we igbos with our "exorbitant" brideprice.
We are not complaining.

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by searchng4love: 11:33pm On Apr 14, 2016
halfricanadian:
angry see his small nipple like bird grains Ma foreign yansh u kno U wan dey stain peoples yansh abi Chai u need make dem beat u like italian puddy

Ne'er mind...but 4 you I can make a turn around.... try local again.... wink....size is best experienced.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by gracevile: 11:33pm On Apr 14, 2016
then u people should marry ur girls because u are rich,stupid u find ibo men fighting to marry girls from other regions other than their own WHYYYY??
CzarChris:
But seriously, this is not much nah........ Shuuuu, everything on this list is truly not up to 500k, and yes negotiations take place. He may not even pay up to 10% of what is on the list, especially if the girl's father is alive. Negotiations are more difficult if the babe's dad is late and a greedy uncle stands in his place. But either way, this list is cheap.



People always say igbo girls brideprice is huge, well, cultures differ. As I will not ask an Urhoboman why he has to bury his dead wife in her father's house, nor will I ask an hausaman why he has to furnish his married daughter's husband's house him, or a yorubaman why he loves ewedu/draw/oily soups, or even cultures that husbands give their wife to their visitors as entertainment.

You guys should just leave we igbos with our "exorbitant" brideprice.
We are not complaining.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:35pm On Apr 14, 2016
searchng4love:


Ne'er mind...but 4 you I can make a turn around.... try local again.... wink....size is best experienced.


I feel on top of d world grin

Chai only me dey change guys

angry something is wrong with me niyen

Abeg wey nl pastor dey cry cry
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by AdoreKIZITO(f): 11:39pm On Apr 14, 2016
DaGC:
I highly doubt any parent will issue such a list.

Probably just a comic relief to scare some peeps of Igbo girls.....and yes I know some family demands can be extreme, cause I've been to a few of the weddings.

As for me, there's always the power of negotiation. wink
Parents don't issue list, the kinsmen do
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by CzarChris(m): 11:39pm On Apr 14, 2016
gracevile:
then u people should marry ur girls because u are rich,stupid u find ibo men fighting to marry girls from other regions other than their own WHYYYY??
Interesting, cos I don't even remember insulting you or anyone for that matter.

When you grow up, let me know, then I will oblige your question with an answer.

But for now never quote or mention me again.


Thanks
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by igwegeorgiano(m): 11:40pm On Apr 14, 2016
that is even cheap nah. come to ogoni land in rivers state or mbaise in imo state u will know that this tribe practically choose to be selling their daughters out and damn da consequences.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Wowzer(m): 11:42pm On Apr 14, 2016
Lovely list....Will gladly accept the list with alacrity. No complaints. Doesn't even add up to a million naira. Any woman with me is worth more than the list. No delay .. Approved.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Enockia(m): 11:44pm On Apr 14, 2016
HardMirror:

Please what is wrong with the list?
These things are normal and I don't think they are too much. May not even cost 500,000 naira.

na so.... u try wella carry go
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by misshoree(f): 11:44pm On Apr 14, 2016
Igbo Chai,na everything dem dey like turn to biz
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Apr 14, 2016
some of the things we practice in this Nigeria are just dumb and insensible.. this is 2016. sh!ts like this should be dumped... seriously?!

whoever introduced that unreasonable bride price thingy? what is there if two families simply come together and respectfully reach a happy agreement for their son and daughter to get married after assessment..end of story

I admire some part of the west who also have refuse the drop 'money for bride buying tradition' too, but would demand something as low as just N1000

that money part is just not okay
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by searchng4love: 11:47pm On Apr 14, 2016
halfricanadian:



I feel on top of d world grin

Chai only me dey change guys

angry something is wrong with me niyen

Abeg wey nl pastor dey cry cry

Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by zimaks: 11:54pm On Apr 14, 2016
it seems like the lady is for sale/Auction
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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Roseey0(f): 12:03am On Apr 15, 2016
Lol...It isn't cheap for a reason.
You will value marriage when you eventually remember how much it cost you to make it hAppen.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by ekensi01: 12:04am On Apr 15, 2016
is that for the whole family or the girl only?

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