cruzita:
continue head shaking and keeping quiet

Olukokosir:
Wch church u wan cum go now...

KevMitnick:
Sorry bro, the people who should have understood better are the ones hurting you. I don't know how old you are, if you are still very young, do what your dad wants until you are older, then get another church. Believe me, being around toxic people is the worst feeling ever. Here are some tips:
1. Ignore them and let them know you are ignoring them.
2. Start reading books on topics that interest you, this is to grow your mind and expand your horizon. You need to become intelligent.
3. Note how they mock you and the things they say, get a piece of paper and formulate responses for each toxic comment or insult. Eg. If they tell you: Shake shake head. respond with: this head we dey shake get better brain pass your entire family.
4. Pray and ask God to teach you courage in the face of such trials. All great men I know passed through similar circumstances.

One day they will all look for you but your level will be so high that they will not be able to reach you. Be strong.

lilzcee:
as if am the one doinhg it, thats how God created me, so people should learn to accept me like that

Michellla:
most african parents can be quite misunderstanding.

AlienStar:
¤You are shaking head because you are stammerer?Yeah? You can control that and with time you will stop shaking head totally. So I think you need to rehearse your way of talking every morning in front of a mirror, try to convince yourself you can talk better. (You developed this habit of shaking head as a result of trying to comport yourself while talking, I understand).

¤As for your family you need to be at peace with 'em no matter how hard it seems.

¤Stop staying a'home on sundays go to church preferably your dad's church till you on your own.

lilzcee:
thanks at least someone understands me, buh i don't just know how to control and stop it and am also a stammering they don't call me shake shake, they will laugh at me, when the next person is about to talk he will headshake just to mock me

KevMitnick:

What I posted was only an example. If they get as petty as that then look for something on them to mock. I remember someone once mocked me for being skinny, what I did was that anytime the person wanted to talk I quickly closed my nose and squeezed my face to show that his mouth was smelly. He got the message soon enough and stopped mocking me.
Everybody has a flaw, if they won't stop mocking you then look for their own and mock them with it.

lilzcee:
i can't he just should accept it, there are some words that are easy for me to say while some are difficult, u mean i should pick up a mirror and start talking to myself loud, lols the neighbours will say i've run mad

AlienStar:
You've already made up your mind, so I don't think you need advice! Neighbours? You guys live face-me-I-face-you? don't you have your own room? And yeah it helps.

lilzcee:
u will know someone very well before knowing his or her flaw, my flaw is just there, just a convension with me, u already know my flaw

Prevho:
Go back to church and let him call you a pastor.
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KevMitnick:

You don't need to know them. There are a thousand and one things you can see physically without knowing them

sinaj:
S

lilzcee:
i will think about it

AlienStar:
Goodluck with that.

Skryptchex:
You going to church and not interested In the church activities means only one thing...... Nothing in the church (spiritually and physically) makes a difference in your life.....
So instead of you wasting your time, i think you've done the best thing by not going again...
Try let ur p.man understand you and if he does not....bro, find yr square root away from ur father's house....in a reasonable way oo

lilzcee:
do u know how old i am?

KashyBaby:
Don't force urself to go to church if ur not happy doing it...

Skryptchex:

How old are you??

lilzcee:
18