A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes! no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex.

The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity, but because they were foolish; they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL.

Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep marriage going.

If a man ask a lady for sex she says NO, the man can walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may walk away.

Before you think men are walking away because you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag about virginity are somewhat timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners, some do not have much upstairs, some are not social, some are dull, and maybe the best thing they have is their hips, nice backside, nice breast and nice lips, and so when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else interesting about the lady.

Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discuss marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they are too naïve on bed.

However, you don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, you can know a lady who will be good at home and bed by her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by God’s leading.

Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, unless you don’t have anything else to offer in the relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith, virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; And to knowledge, temperance; and to temperance, patience; and to patience, godliness, And to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, charity.” 2Pet. 1:5-7. Virginity or no virginity..., do you have any Extra oil to sustain a relationship?

Ponder on this my distinguished ladies!!!

Nature Udoh
Supreme Leader, Ndito Boys & Girls Organization
CEO Nature Udoh & The Gang
Chief Waiter, Discovery Park Uyo

Source: http://www.wetinhappen.com.ng/virginity-without-extra-oil-gang-leader-explodes/

op u luk like my body guard from last year.


on the topic, you are very on point!
there is more to life than just d1ckks and puss puss! after you've rumbled and tumbled, what next?


and u made mentioned of the fact that some virgins lack manners and are abrasive, that comes with them been half men, half women. a virgin can talk any how sendless, that is why it is said that a guy who just disved a gurl, just made her a woman, and from then hence on , she begin to reason like one and not a tom boy

Ladies, gone are the days where all u got to offer is puss puss, we demand more now

This is "gbam". Ladies you need to read this and get knowledge.

Very correct

@op, there's a danger here. I've said it many times in so many places, so I won't say much about it. I'll just move on and do a compilation later.

Firstly, do you really understand the depth of the story of the ten virgins in the Bible? I don't think so.

You think the bridegroom was coming for non-virgins?. No! Only virgins have a place with the bridegroom. So the first qualification was, purity /the virginity. You can't be talking about extra oil, when you don't have the first qualification.

I agree, ladies need the extra oil, whatever that characteristics is, but based on the analogy, the virginity or purity is the first principle.

There are non virgins with metric tons of oil, but the bridegroom insists on virgins with extra oil.

If you get my above point, that should be what you should preach and educate people on.

We can't surreptitiously push the narrative that virginity is overrated or does not matter by saying things like this, when we are see the damage illicit Sex and sexual recklessness have done and is still doing in this generation. You must not water down the need for chastity with some very skewed analogy. We can and we should have bright, intelligent and productive human who also take chastity seriously. You can be a Virgin and have the best of character and skill. In fact, that was what you have in the parable of the ten virgins in the Bible.

I know it's difficult, but we must ask why the so much sexual recklessness these days and we want to justify it. It's a manipulation. most people do things and don't know why they do it. That's how powerful the drivers of the world order are. This issue is one of such.

I have told people that this thing is like the gay issue of these days. You see this writeup here, you are going to see more well written stuffs, justifying being gay. Or trying to make it appear okay, hence further degrading our humanity and entrenching Godlessness which is the major object.

We have to be careful.