Often times, I have seen so many posts on this forum where guys kept complaining bitterly because they were friendzoned, according to their claims, by one lady or the other. To me, all these are unnecessary; in fact, it is irrelevant!!! If you have been 'friendzoned', it could mean, either directly or indirectly, your actions caused it . Below are the reasons why you will keep complaining of being friendzoned till only-God-knows-when!!!

1. You are immature and fond of meeting immature girls: Relationships are not meant for kids or for the 'immature minds'. If you are not emotionally mature, you will keep getting friendzoned because you will keep meeting kids and emotionally immature girls like you. Most of the guys that complain of getting friendzoned on social media are mostly between the ages of 15 to 22, without much romantic experience! It would surely be difficult for you to see a guy of 28 to 35 complaining of this friendzone crap!!! Again, an emotionally mature girl knows what she wants; she is either in totally or out absolutely!

2) You always fail to define your relationships: There are different types of love...philia, eros, agape, etc. So, chose you this day, which of them you are displaying. If you kick-start an affair with a girl, you should be able to define the relationship (both content and intent). There are many guys who approach ladies as plain friends and continue like that for a long time; doing nothing special, just being plain and ordinary like a mere acquintance Bro, it is a case of gabbage in, gabbage out! What you give, you get. You don't expect her to know your intention or act like your girlfriend when you act towards her ordinarily or too plain. So, why complain?

3) Your attitude and appearance: How I wish we all could get a clear picture of the behaviours and appearance of most guys that wail bitterly about getting friendzoned! Some guys just possess this nasty attitude that makes them behave like sex freaks! Others could be very boastful or boring! Yet, there are still some that don't mind their appearance...dirty and rough clothes, hair looking bushy, bad breath, etc. All these put together can easily make any sane woman to flee away from you as if were a demon! Even guys that fit the above description would not admit it when they get friendzoned. Again, why complain?

4) You have lost touch with reality: One thing realism teaches you is the ability to accept painful truths without deceiving yourself! Different women with the different things they prefer in men. Na e make Oyibo pipu say 'Different strokes for different folks'. That you are handsome with some few change to throw about doesn't mean a girl must date you or become romantically attached to you. If you too fine, then go sample your face for show-glass na or use am go collect money for UBA!!! If you put this into consideration, you won't come to a public forum to wail like a baby how you were friendzoned! Some immature guys even go as far as posting such wailings on facebook while others do so through their status on whatsapp!

Ponder on these; especially, the first point!!! God bless!

Money first. If konji catch u, visit d nearest Kampala joint.

I never Complain. Nice one Rapmoney.

Who friend-zone epp?

ichommy:
I never Complain. Nice one Rapmoney.

Thanks ichommy!

The moment u type... 'Thank you for accepting me' on a girl's timeline on FB.

Bro... you have been friend-zoned

Correct I must object.

Cutehector:
Money first. If konji catch u, visit d nearest Kampala joint.

Na so e be for some. Personally, there's nothing like 'friendzone' in my dictionary!

SuperModz:
The moment u type... 'Thank you for accepting me' on a girl's timeline on FB.


Bro... you have been friend-zoned

Ehen! Na the guy cause am nah. Attitude contributes.

Pu§§y nigga

Rapmoney:
Na so e be for some. Personally, there's nothing like 'friendzone' in my dictionary!

well one thing I noticed is that, not every girl will like a guy intimately..

Cutehector:
well one thing I noticed is that, not every girl will like a guy intimately..

My brother, you just hit the nail on the head!

Lalasticlala, rocktation!

Ray360:
[color=purple]Spot on! Rap, you always create nice threads. I don't believe in that Crap they call "friends zone" It's all about defining the relationship from the onset. Most guys already have a girl they are dating yet still want something intimate with another girl. Those who yammer of being "friend zoned" here and there are those who always look out for intimacy in every girl they meet. must you drill the Honeywell of everything on skirt you meet? can't you just be plain friends with some girls?[color]

My brother, we need to tell ourselves the truth sometimes

IamLEGEND1:
friendzone is for sissies.
you either drop them panties for badt man or I bin ur sadistic ass.

Many guys on NL will not like this

Its my day Nlanders


wana feel the groove guys

Cutehector:
Money first. If konji catch u, visit d nearest Kampala joint.

Badt guy

wordbank:
No matter what, be flirty
It keeps things nostalgic and if it doesn't work, walk out

True, but they would prefer to wail and wine on public forums!

Rapmoney:

Na wetin??

ALKARULEZZ:

Warri boy! See ur 32!

3) Your attitude and appearance: How I wish
we all could get a clear picture of the
behaviours and appearance of most guys that wail bitterly about getting friendzoned! Some
guys just possess this nasty attitude that
makes them behave like sex freaks! Others
could be very boastful or boring! Yet, there are
still some that don't mind their
appearance...dirty and rough clothes, hair looking bushy, bad breath, etc. All these put
together can easily make any sane woman to
flee away from you

Rapmoney:
Warri boy! See ur 32!

Bros bros.. Ur write-ups jur dey gimme steady joy for dis coast

ALKARULEZZ:
Bros bros.. Ur write-ups jur dey gimme steady joy for dis coast

I salute u. U too mush!

Michellla:
some guys feel they're too fine and fly to get friendzoned.
Am always happy to surprise them

That's true and that's why we are never partial. We say it just as we see it

Chai! Lalasticlala, wetin dey happen na?