The world we live in has shoved quite a number of things about love down our throat. Some of these things we've been fed have in some ways or the other get to us positively and contrariwise. It is however disheartening that we've tend to feed our eyes and fill our minds with the numerous misconceptions about love.



"Love conquereth all things", "love can build a bridge between two hearts", "love is blind", "love is a feeling and an attitude", "just like respect, love is reciprocal", "love is a physical equation". OK, let me add one more, "love is a mirage" - all of these is what I'll describe as 'love misconceptions', well, maybe not all.


Make no mistake, love is not a panacea or a cure-all. You can have all the love in the world and still be just as broke as ever. Being in love will not fix you; after the first flush of romance, you will find out that you're in exactly the same place, except that you have to worry about dragging someone down with you. In the same vein, someone you love very much can still be careless or hurtful. Love is not a charm that protects you. Love is not magic. Let me be blunt; love is not inherently good.


That's the reason why you need to understand that loving someone else is like standing at the edge of the water; the waves that smash against the shore are mesmerizingly beautiful, but the threat of drowning is real. That, love is a slippery beast with teeth like razor blades.


Many of us have a hard time differentiating between love and habit. Most of us have lost a love we thought would last forever. Most of us have felt disillusioned and spent. Most of us reached a point where our hearts were too tired to keep going and we weren't sure what the point was in trying again. Why? Because we've always believed love does keep relationships; a very wrong thing to believe I must say.


When someone tells you they love you, that is no guarantee that your relationship will work with them - love is not a guarantee for successful relationship. Most of the people who get divorced still love one another i.e. even in marital relationships, love doesn't keep marriages together.


Take for instance, after a breakup in a relationship that was once booming in love came to an abrupt end, I was forced to go ask the guy what went wrong. And I was surprised to hear him say, "I still love her, she's just crazy". I really was shocked, seeing the manner in which they choose to 'terminate' the relationship, so he still love her afterall?. Well, I decided to ask the lady if she still love the guy to which she replied, "yes, just that he's a beast", "but you still love him" I asked, she said "yes". I finally concluded that it's not that they do not love each other, it's just that the didn't know how to live together.






The Great King Solomon said

"by wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures"



This statement made by Solomon almost 4,000 years ago now is the secret to a successful relationship, a successful marriage and a successful home. Please notice, Solomon didn't say that the secret to a successful relationship is kissing, holding hand, sex or love, matter of fact, he didn't even mention love.

The key to a success relationship is knowledge.


http://kolawolepeters..com.ng/2016/04/love-doesnt-keep-relationships.html

True.
Love isn't everything needed in a successful relationship.

I believe a relationship in which both parties have enough Endurance, Patience and Understanding is better off than a relationship which the only driving force is Love...

Op goan sitdan jor,,,,leicester city don score swansea 3 goals to nil under 61mins, and them don win the league already...you dey here dey talk love, who love epp for this life...yove ko rove ni

ummm.I'm really learning.

Love isn't enough to keep a relationship, u guyz also need to be compatible

firstking01:
Op goan sitdan jor,,,,leicester city don score swansea 3 goals to nil under 61mins, and them don win the league already...you dey here dey talk love, who love epp for this life...yove ko rove ni

u see as u dey contradict yaself my bro king...kikiki i nab u 4 dis one.

WiLdFLame:
u see as u dey contradict yaself my bro king...kikiki i nab u 4 dis one.

What's the contradiction here baba??

firstking01:
What's the contradiction here baba??

Abeg go check naughtynaughty thread, its like dem house of knight crew they frustrate her.

Shawn: Do you believe in love?

Joe: I believe in cancer

Shawn: What, they are both diseases?

Joe: Something like that




last boys scout

Craziness everywhere