naijaboiy:

i don't understand. So because I "TRUST" my girlfriend I should not be suspicious of her activities.

Does trusting someone mean you should play blind or deaf when there are signs that your woman is cheating on you?

I don't get it, or maybe I'm the one mixing things up. Probably someone will explain better.

naijaboiy:

And how will you define someone who is "MATURE ENOUGH" to handle a relationship?

You people just keep going round in circles without hitting the point. How does suspecting your partner and trying to catch her red handed less mature?

I would like to know how you would have handled yours in a mature way.

marvelck:
When a guy decide to pay his girlfriend a surprise visit in school, he should be ready to accept whatever he sees (like catching her with another guy in her room). Most campus girls don't like it whenever their city boyfriend pays them a surprise visit in school, due to obvious reasons. For your own good, its better you let her know you are coming than to surprise her. So that you don't end up getting the shock of your life. Most girls live a different life in school. No point trying to catch her or find out if she's cheating on you or not. A good girl will always be a good girl, while a bad girl will always be a bad girl. So, don't stress yourself!

datalossvictim1:
This thread is too funny

doll912:
Same goes for girls who go visiting without calling Mr Boyfriend.Oh so because I have a boyfriend , I can't talk to a man. Doesn't the said boyfriend have other female friends? Abeg, you people should grow up and think like well rounded adults.

ebusbaba10:
My dear, dere is nothing to comment abt d topic.

Mikylopez:
D guy in d picture iz hawt!

IRserveMyComent:
yes indeed you are mixing things up. my dear there is no way you can trust someone and still be suspicious of them. Immediately you saw signs of cheating the trust is gone. No one said you should play deaf or blind.

adekayo1234:
op must be high on cheap osogbo weed. Are you trying to say now that guys should not keep an eye on their investment

tpiah11:


Lord have mercy.

Trouble go dey im own jeje, na so nlers go dey look for am.

Mikylopez:
D guy in d picture iz hawt!

curiositymaster:


You sef dey do am small small. Nor lie oo

Eberex:



First thing you should learn is; if there is no proof that she is cheating on you, or maybe its heresay, then you have no reason to pay her an unexpected visit.

Secondly, she is in campus. Haven't you witnessed campus life to know that you should not tell her who to see or where to go, in order words u don't monitor her. Let her enjoy campus just like you did.

Thirdly: paying her a surprised visit would make her realize how u see her. If its not her birthday and you decide to visit in order to catch her in the act so you'll be like "I said it", my guy that's her territory, and if she starts seeing u don't trust her, that will be the beginning of distrust from her too

[b]First, sometimes you don't need proof to act. It's not as if when you just have a feeling that something is wrong you just jump on the next bus to wherever she schools and go visit her. It takes time and patience to note all these things.

Common, no matter how you trust someone when the person starts faulting you should be sharp enough to know.

Loool....this your second point is quite funny and very laughable. What in the seven rivers of Africa do you mean by she's in campus so I should let her enjoy campus like I did? Are you indirectly saying I should allow my girlfriend frolick and flirt with other guys because that's campus life?

Is that how you handle your own girlfriend?

You see how many of you guys make silly mistakes? Now I see why some of you are sissies. It's not like checking on her will stop her from doing what she wants to do but at the same time it's quite foolish to let her "enjoy campus life" at the detriment of our relationship. Don't you think?

And your third point, you think if I want to surprise her I will let her know that's the reason I came to see her? Common you should be more intelligent than that.

What is the meaning of "that's her territory"? I don't really get how some of you handle your relationships but please don't tag it as "mature", it's far from it.

Your girl will be cheating on you and you'll keep quiet because you want to be mature about it. LOL! [/b]

Mikylopez:
D guy in d picture iz hawt!

XwhY:
Girls are so powerful, they can introduce 2 boyfriends at a time. They will say my love, meet my sweetheart, and the 2 idiots will be like.... baba how far?

unapapadeycraze:
Why are you advising us?

Mikylopez:
D guy in d picture iz hawt!

Fabolousibk1:
mtchewwww....abeg who get pin mouth charger,..my ba3 don low ooo

henrydadon:
See the kind of thing dat made front page..nitori orolorun..eh..shey aye nairaland oma baje bia