More than 1,000 women took our poll and
confessed the top things they wish guys would
do in bed. Behold, the 10 most popular, ranked in
order. To make sure you satisfy her desires, we
included tips on exactly how to pull off every last
move…right down to number one.




10. Give her breasts more attention
Lots of guys pamper a woman’s breasts
during pre-intimacy but forget about them
during the main event, which is a shame
because the extra stimulation can lead to
a bigger orgasm for her. Plus, it’s
important to pay attention to more than
just her nipples, since her entire breast
is packed with nerves, especially the
underside. When she’s on top, use your
fingertips to draw wide, slow circles,
starting around the perimeter of one
breast and spiraling in until you’re just
about at her nipple. Then use your hand
to cup and lift the underside of her
breast, and lick around her nipple
before covering it entirely with your
mouth and sucking gently.
9. Give her a center of gravity orgasm
This much-talked-about area is located
about 2 inches inside her vaginal canal
on the front wall. Some docs say it’s
spongy and the size of a dime, but it can
be hard to feel, so just stimulate that
general area during sex and you may
give her a more intense orgasm. To hit it
with your penis, try modified doggie-
style. Instead of having her keep her
arms straight with her palms on the bed,
ask her to lower herself onto her elbows.
Holding her hips for balance, thrust
slowly at first and then up the intensity.
With each stroke, your penis will rub
against the front wall of her vagina,
stimulating that special spot.
8. Surprise her with a quickie
When you jump her out of the blue, it
makes her feel like she’s so irresistible
that you simply can’t wait to have her.
Right when she gets home, pull her in for
a deep kiss to get her going. Relieve her
of any bags she’s carrying and lead her
to the couch, bed, or kitchen table, where
you will have already stashed a bottle of
lube nearby. Don’t totally UnCloth her;
just lift up her skirt or pull down her
pants. Then use your lubed fingers to
massage her clitoris while whispering
how hot she is in her ear. The more
aroused you are, the faster she’ll get into
it. (Of course, there will be times when
she’s not game. If that happens, let it go
and try another night.)
7. Gently pull her hair
There are thousands of nerves in the
scalp, and when she’s aroused, they’re
more sensitive, so pulling on her tresses
feels extra stimulating. But there’s a
catch: If you do it while you’re having
sex with her from behind, it’ll make her
feel like you’re treating her like a
hooker. Instead, while she’s on top, run
your hand through her hair, grab a
handful of strands close to her scalp, and
give it a little pull. This works especially
well when you’re having intense,
passionate sex, because grabbing her
anywhere, especially somewhere
sensitive, adds to the feeling that she’s
being ravished.
6. Talk dirty to her
Women are verbal creaturesand our love
of words extends to the bedroom.
Unfortunately, most of what you may
have heard guys say in porn is all wrong
(Ask “Who’s your daddy” and you just
might get a slap across the face). What
your partner does want to hear are
phrases that let her know how turned on
you are, how much you love her body,
and how good you want to make her feel
(see this month’s CFG Sex Map for more
tips). And even more important than
what you say is the way you say it—
when she can hear the burning lust in
your voice, her thighs pretty much catch
on fire.
5. Nibble on her neck
The skin that stretches from underneath
her ear to her collarbone is very thin,
making it supersensitive to touch. Start
out by using your tongue to lick from her
ear down to where her neck and
shoulders meet. Then blow along the
trail you just left. The warmth of your
tongue coupled with the coolness of your
breath will shoot tingles all over her
body. After that, get a little more
aggressive, and lightly nip the bottom of
her neck (the skin is slightly thicker here
and can take more pressure). You should
suck on her neck too, but for just a
second and not hard enough to leave a
markhickeys are so high school.
4. Bring her to climax with oral
A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to
kick back and enjoy being spoiled.
(Sound familiar?) But different
techniques may feel more or less
pleasurable to her on different days. To
figure out what’s going to work best for
her each time, be sure to use a variety of
moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and
using a firm, pointed tongue and then a
wide, soft one, and take note of which
she responds to the most enthusiastically.
When you sense that she’s about to
orgasm—her body will tense up and
she’ll start breathing more quickly—go
back to the move that elicited the biggest
moans, and continue doing it until she
climaxes.
3. Touch her hot spot midaction
Most women can’t orgasm during
intercourse without clitoral stimulation,
which is probably why so many want
more of it! Whenever your hand can
reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and
spooning from behind are two great
positions for access), you should rub her
hot spot. Your touches should be slow
and soft in the beginning, progressing to
harder and quicker. When it comes to
technique, every woman is different, so
you have to experiment: Try one finger
pressed directly on her clitoris, three
fingers over the entire area, or the heel
of your hand on her pubic mound—her
moans will tell you when you have it
right.
2. Kiss her during sex
If you’re like most guys, once intercourse
starts, you probably stop kissing her.
That’s a bad move, since kissing makes
sex feel more intimate for her, which is
crucial to female pleasure. Pick a
position that allows you to be face-to-
face, like missionary, or have her sit on
your lap, then mix up your smooches so
they mirror the mood of the sex you’re
having. If you’re going at it like
gangbusters, pull her in for a deep,
tongue-filled kiss—try sucking on her
bottom lip and pressing your lips firmly
against hers. When things are slow and
romantic, go with a more sensual kiss.
1. Be more aggressive
The number one thing women want is
for you to be more aggressive in bed.
That means handling her body with
strength and confidence, which can be
insanely erotic for her. And it doesn’t
require a lot of work or advanced skills
on your part. In fact, doing just one take-
charge thing can spike her arousal level.
A few to try: In missionary, take her
wrists and hold them above her head,
pinned to the mattress. When she’s on
top, hold her hips and push/pull them
back and forth, so her clitoris grinds
against your pubic bone. And when you
want to change positions, don’t do it
slowly or politely—grab her and put her
where you want her.

Chai what is ROMANCELAND turning into?? why always you Op?

s ex education section I guess