Why is it that some ladies are just something else,even after having a child for someone,you still go about visiting another guy.My fiancee always check through my phone anytime she likes but she password her own phone,I didn't see that as anything because I trusted her.But yesterday she forgot her phone on the chair without locking it why she went to get somethings outside,I checked through her whatsapp msg and I saw her chat with a guy asking her to come over and she said he should send her transport fare.
This is a lady I've been giving anything she asks for,and to even think there's a child between us is the most annoying.But I think she changed because she went back to school for her HND.

Sorry, OP. BTW, 'love' is an overabused word.

God is love Love is sacrifice when there is no fear of God,there wont be sacrifice for the love to exist.

Hey @OP! that's a glimpse of the funny world we live in. A world full of ironies: a world where abnormality is the latest version of normality. A world where people give what they can't take

...but then, in this same world where love seems to be a fairy tale, there still exist oases of love...all we need do is to give our emotion the benefit of our intellect.

It doesn't mean love is overrated, it only means you have to be wise when choosing which partner's account to credit with your genuine affection.

On the other hand, probably we sometimes mistook certain expressions for love when in the real sense they are not.

I wish you an uncommon sense in handling this thought provoking issue!

Stycon:
Hey @OP! that's a glimpse of the funny world we live in. A world full of ironies: a world where abnormality is the latest version of normality. A world where people give what they can't take

...but then, in this same world where love seems to be a fairy tale, there still exist oases of love...all we need do is to give our emotion the benefit of our intellect.

It doesn't mean love is overrated, it only means you have to be wise when choosing which partner's account to credit with your genuine affection.

On the other hand, probably we sometimes mistook certain expressions for love when in the real sense they are not.

I wish you an uncommon sense in handling this thought provoking issue!

thanks bro

Hmm always love with ur brain and not heart alone..was that the only incriminating thing u found or there are more guys? Hmm God will help guys. And when a guy decides to be mean then the women start saying guys r devils etc meanwhile her actions turned him mean..monsters are not born,they are made.

Did u confront her yet?

torqque7:
Hmm always love with ur brain and not heart alone..was that the only incriminating thing u found or there are more guys? Hmm God will help guys. And when a guy decides to be mean then the women start saying guys r devils etc meanwhile her actions turned him mean..monsters are not born,they are made.

Did u confront her yet?

I didn't,I just want to change my attitude towards her,when she sees that she's gonna ask what went wrong,

I used to be deeply in love, gave the best of myself and all. Until I broke free from that illusion. Dude the world isn't a Disney cartoon. I stopped developing that useless feeling. My main guy told me "when dealing with a gal just expect her to mess up cos THAT'S WHAT THEY ALWAYS DO. It shouldn't be new to u. it feels good when Bs like love doesn't affect u.

am yet to see d woman i will ever love......probably not naija girls...






I dont know abt d rest of d world, bt over here, LOVE dont ''EXIST'' not to talk of been overated.




Facts

Holluwatarhyor:
thanks bro

Hmmm

EscobarSnipes:
I used to be deeply in love, gave the best of myself and all. Until I broke free from that illusion. Dude the world isn't a Disney cartoon. I stopped developing that useless feeling. My main guy told me "when dealing with a gal just expect her to mess up cos THAT'S WHAT THEY ALWAYS DO. It shouldn't be new to u. it feels good when Bs like love doesn't affect u.

well,it's not new to me,I just trusted her beyond limit,I know students fumble,especially if they are pretty,they mess around in school and there's no way you'll know,especially if her school is far away from where you are staying and if you are the busy type.

Well this says it all.

The only LOVE you need is SELF-LOVE and then you will KNOW who LOVES you and who LOVES the word LOVE