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Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by wristbangle: 7:04pm On May 06, 2016
Toyne2much, Lmao grin
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by tosyne2much(m): 7:29pm On May 06, 2016
Suigeneris93:
I know oga Tosyne2much dey hang out with the first and third category of girls grin grin


I agree with you op but that no 5 tho, there's nothing bad in knowing how much my boyfriend earns at least to be convinced he's someone who lives within his means and would make a responsible husband
I will think about that.. Fingers on my keypad cheesy

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Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Greenbullet(m): 8:13pm On May 06, 2016
one issue that baffles me is the inability of most Nigerian girls to engage in a meaningful discussion without trying to change the topic to gossip or ask you for money or tell you their problem,
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Ubachinwe1(m): 8:46pm On May 06, 2016
wristbangle:
An adage says that before a thunderstorm, lightening strikes. This adage is peculiar to some relationships where guys complain bitterly about ladies excessive desperation for money. And the saddening thing is that some guys are very familiar with these signs yet they still fall victim to these daughters of Jezebel that go on a date mainly for stomach infrastructure just as Tosyne2much's state governor, Ayodele Peter Fayose.

Below are categories of ladies you must avoid if you want a prosperous financial life.

1. Those that request for recharge card

Many topics have long been raised whether it's ideal for a lady to ask for recharge card barely meeting a guy for 24 hours. The bitter truth about ladies who are quick to demand for recharge card is that they are lazy, too dependent and have no atom of regard for themselves. For crying out loud, must your boyfriend bear your burden down to ridiculous thing such as N100 recharge card? When you meet a lady today and she begs for recharge card tomorrow, just know that she is nothing but a shameful poor girl.

2. Those that ring bell about their financial issues

Guys, please beware of ladies who doesn't complain about any other thing but money. Some of them automatically assume you should start taking their responsibilities which their fathers cannot take the moment you propose to them. Always try to avoid them like plague. The highest they can give you is 5minutes bleeping.

3. The hungry ladies

The fact that many Nigerian ladies see men's money as an escape route out of poverty often makes them act like they haven't been fed for months when on a date. When a white man take a white lady on a date, she might just order for coffee and that's all, but as for Nigerian ladies, many of them lack modesty that they will feed as if there's famine on the land and may even open their bags and start loading fast foods for their friends, neighbours, family members and so on and so forth. You need to avoid these kind of ladies promptly.

4. Those obsessed about gifts

During mothers' day, she will ask for gifts, during worker's day, she will ask for gifts; during Easter period, she will ask for gifts; during Independence day, she will still ask for gifts; she will even ask for gifts during your own birthday.. These ones want nothing but money.

5. Those who are too inquisitive to know about your salary

It beats my imagination when I see ladies hell bent on knowing her boyfriend's income salary.. Is it even necessary when you're not married to him?. Such ladies are nothing but thieves who do not deserve any form of respect. Guys should discard any lady who is extremely inquisitive to know your monthly take home.

6. Those who never appreciate your financial support

If you subscribe monthly data plan for some ladies, common "thank you", will not come out from them. Even when you make them realise that such attitude is bad, they will reduce you to a loaf of bread and claim that your mates buy range rover for other ladies without strings attached.

7. Those who call you "sweet names" only when you spend on them

Any lady who calls you sweet names such as sweetheart, darling, honey when only you spend on her has nothing to offer you. She's only concerned about what she wants. Such a lady will always leave you when you fail to give them money to buy what will not better their lives.

8. Those who wait for car lift

These kind of ladies should be a no-go-area for a man with brightened prospects. They always wait for guys using cars to pick them at bus terminus in order to save their money. As bitter as it may sound, you may not have a prosperous financial life if you eventually date someone like them.

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Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by ronald4ever(m): 8:49pm On May 06, 2016
So, in conclusion we should stay away from Naija babes
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 06, 2016
Why is OP's list full of "financial" issues, just say you are broke and can't take care of a girlfriend. Ladies, please beware of guys like OP. I mean, support should go both ways - but OP's list reeks of stinginess and "brokenness".

Seriously though, I think I support his arguments and reasons to a fault. But same thing could be said for guys too!

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Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by froshhomie(m): 8:51pm On May 06, 2016
Jeez imagine wia 1 lady possess all those qualities cry cry cry
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by nikkypearl(f): 8:51pm On May 06, 2016
DeeTus:
Most Nigerian girls are not romantic and is totally a big turn off.
eh
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by manutdrichie(m): 8:53pm On May 06, 2016
Oyin93:
True

Tomatoes don add money

Rice don increase by 100%

So you oyin my before before babe don increase from Oyin17 to Oyin93

Issorait all na chanji grin
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by brownlolly(m): 8:56pm On May 06, 2016
dude you're not making any sense.

Many of us are more intelligent than you think.



tosyne2much:
I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta against the kinds of ladies we should avoid...

Since the OP has started the Aluta, I don't have a choice other than support him cool

9. Those that are obsessed with Joysticks

A joystick obsessed lady is such a big off for me... In fact, I will gallantly reject such a lady even if given the change to swap her with my Blackberry Torch 1.. These ladies want men that will sexually satisfy them forcing these men to use their hard earned salary to buy buruntashi, opa eyi, viagra, yoyo bitters and the likes, all in a bid to satisfy them in bed.. Before you know it, at the end of the month, the man won't be able to boast of N5,000... As for me, if a lady is not satisfied with my 2mins bleeping, she should go and jump inside Elegushi beach cos she's not gonna get a ring from me cool


Those that are obsessed with the Romance section

Hey listen ! Before you disagree with me, kindly have patience and listen to what I want to say... Since ladies are easily influenced in nature, their orientation about relationship changes when they hear other ladies' perception about relationship... Many ladies in the romance section keep blowing trumpet on how their lives revolves around men's money, and a result of this, other ladies become influenced with this same ideology, therefore, they bash and wage war against broke men such as Vizkiz, Cutehector, STFUareyougod and so on.. I prefer ladies in the Diary section, but as for the Romance section, they are such a big turn off for me. cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Acidosis(m): 8:57pm On May 06, 2016
Number 7 is the most ridiculous.
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 8:57pm On May 06, 2016
manutdrichie:

Tomatoes don add money
Rice don increase by 100%
So you oyin my before before babe don increase from Oyin17 to Oyin93
Issorait all na chanji grin
Hello?I was never Oyin17 abeg,no confuse me with someone else
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by tosyne2much(m): 8:58pm On May 06, 2016
brownlolly:
dude you're not making any sense.
Many of us are more intelligent than you think.


Spot on !!! cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by manutdrichie(m): 9:00pm On May 06, 2016
Oyin93:

Hello?I was never Oyin17 abeg,no confuse me with someone else

Are you sure?
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 9:02pm On May 06, 2016
wristbangle:
An adage says that before a thunderstorm, lightening strikes. This adage is peculiar to some relationships where guys complain bitterly about ladies excessive desperation for money. And the saddening thing is that some guys are very familiar with these signs yet they still fall victim to these daughters of Jezebel that go on a date mainly for stomach infrastructure just as Tosyne2much's state governor, Ayodele Peter Fayose.

Below are categories of ladies you must avoid if you want a prosperous financial life.

1. Those that request for recharge card

Many topics have long been raised whether it's ideal for a lady to ask for recharge card barely meeting a guy for 24 hours. The bitter truth about ladies who are quick to demand for recharge card is that they are lazy, too dependent and have no atom of regard for themselves. For crying out loud, must your boyfriend bear your burden down to ridiculous thing such as N100 recharge card? When you meet a lady today and she begs for recharge card tomorrow, just know that she is nothing but a shameful poor girl.

2. Those that ring bell about their financial issues

Guys, please beware of ladies who doesn't complain about any other thing but money. Some of them automatically assume you should start taking their responsibilities which their fathers cannot take the moment you propose to them. Always try to avoid them like plague. The highest they can give you is 5minutes bleeping.

3. The hungry ladies

The fact that many Nigerian ladies see men's money as an escape route out of poverty often makes them act like they haven't been fed for months when on a date. When a white man take a white lady on a date, she might just order for coffee and that's all, but as for Nigerian ladies, many of them lack modesty that they will feed as if there's famine on the land and may even open their bags and start loading fast foods for their friends, neighbours, family members and so on and so forth. You need to avoid these kind of ladies promptly.

4. Those obsessed about gifts

During mothers' day, she will ask for gifts, during worker's day, she will ask for gifts; during Easter period, she will ask for gifts; during Independence day, she will still ask for gifts; she will even ask for gifts during your own birthday.. These ones want nothing but money.

5. Those who are too inquisitive to know about your salary

It beats my imagination when I see ladies hell bent on knowing her boyfriend's income salary.. Is it even necessary when you're not married to him?. Such ladies are nothing but thieves who do not deserve any form of respect. Guys should discard any lady who is extremely inquisitive to know your monthly take home.

6. Those who never appreciate your financial support

If you subscribe monthly data plan for some ladies, common "thank you", will not come out from them. Even when you make them realise that such attitude is bad, they will reduce you to a loaf of bread and claim that your mates buy range rover for other ladies without strings attached.

7. Those who call you "sweet names" only when you spend on them

Any lady who calls you sweet names such as sweetheart, darling, honey when only you spend on her has nothing to offer you. She's only concerned about what she wants. Such a lady will always leave you when you fail to give them money to buy what will not better their lives.

8. Those who wait for car lift

These kind of ladies should be a no-go-area for a man with brightened prospects. They always wait for guys using cars to pick them at bus terminus in order to save their money. As bitter as it may sound, you may not have a prosperous financial life if you eventually date someone like them.
May GOD bless u.
We now have more Julius Beggars now than before.

LADIES are fast becoming Ruminants, which possess 4 stomachs and chew cuds.
The average thing in the skull of a young Nigerian LADY is.... " Please take me out for LUNCH" .

they just added Breakfast and dinner recently
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Cavenchy(m): 9:05pm On May 06, 2016
Lol.. Taking notes.

But I think if a guy plays his part well, these wouldn't be necessary. I understand some ladies might be overzealous but perhaps you met the wrong ones.
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by BabaAgba001(m): 9:06pm On May 06, 2016
Infat. I don't know what to. Say or write cos all. We. C on daily baisess I pray dey will listen but believe u me they no go ever use thie brain to tink on thiss big Turnoff

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Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by eitsei(m): 9:09pm On May 06, 2016
Suigeneris93:


trust me dear, mine did wink
wow.... Before the end of the month there's a budget already on how to spend it
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by free2blast(m): 9:13pm On May 06, 2016
Mehn! You just killed it, in fact you are a murderer for this post. One of them just told me she had an emergency that can I loan her 15k for operation. 15k Just like that. Kwich kin operation wey no get name be that? This is a girl that I'm yet to meet o....Make she come Lagos, na lie and yet she want 15k just like that. A whole wristbangle full month salary. Girls no get chill at all.
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by PAnaceA7(m): 9:14pm On May 06, 2016
Op ur are so on point... Met a girl like that, dumbed her sorry ass after 3weeks.
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 9:16pm On May 06, 2016
AM RIGHT HERE WAITING FOR THE REMIX OF THIS TOPIC TITLED .

8 GUYS TO AVOID IF YOU WANT A PROSPEROUS FINANCIAL LIFE!

NO BE NAIRALAND AGAIN??

Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 06, 2016
I have just read through..

May GOD bless u again.
May u remain Blessed.

They now see men as poverty alleviation progrmmers.
PLEASE, don't ever settle for a LADY whose lacks
.. .. ..... .. .. FEAR OF JOBLESSNESS
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by free2blast(m): 9:19pm On May 06, 2016
Amefrica:
Why is OP's list full of "financial" issues, just say you are broke and can't take care of a girlfriend. Ladies, please beware of guys like OP. I mean, support should go both ways - but OP's list reeks of stinginess and "brokenness".

Seriously though, I think I support his arguments and reasons to a fault. But same thing could be said for guys too!

You mean guys like you? I smell a sissy here. shocked
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by tosyne2much(m): 9:20pm On May 06, 2016
free2blast:
Mehn! You just killed it, in fact you are a murderer for this post. One of them just told me she had an emergency that can I loan her 15k for operation. 15k Just like that. Kwich kin operation wey no get name be that? This is a girl that I'm yet to meet o....Make she come Lagos, na lie and yet she want 15k just like that. A whole wristbangle full month salary. Girls no get chill at all.
Bwhaahahahahahahahahahahaa cheesy Oga Wristbangle, you mean say na 15k be ur salary? cheesy
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by permanentgrace(m): 9:21pm On May 06, 2016
tosyne2much:
I kuku dey on my own when oga Wristbangle start Aluta against the kinds of ladies we should avoid...

Since the OP has started the Aluta, I don't have a choice other than support him cool


Where are my fellow alleged misogynist on nairaland?

Cc
TheSonOfMark
Vizkiz
Naijaboiy
Searching4love
Wristbangle
Etc

Before they show up lemme add mine cool


9. Those that are obsessed with Joysticks

A joystick obsessed lady is such a big off for me... In fact, I will gallantly reject such a lady even if given the change to swap her with my Blackberry Torch 1.. These ladies want men that will sexually satisfy them forcing these men to use their hard earned salary to buy buruntashi, opa eyi, viagra, yoyo bitters and the likes, all in a bid to satisfy them in bed.. Before you know it, at the end of the month, the man won't be able to boast of N5,000... As for me, if a lady is not satisfied with my 2mins bleeping, she should go and jump inside Elegushi beach cos she's not gonna get a ring from me cool


10 Those that Bash Guys In the Romance section

Hey listen ! Before you disagree with me, kindly have patience and listen to what I want to say... Since ladies are easily influenced in nature, their orientation about relationship changes when they hear other ladies' perception about relationship... Many ladies in the romance section keep blowing trumpet on how their lives revolves around men's money, and a result of this, other ladies become influenced with this same ideology, therefore, they bash and wage war against broke men such as Vizkiz, Cutehector, STFUareyougod and so on.. I prefer ladies in the Diary section, but as for the Romance section, they are such a big turn off for me. cheesy

Oh my goodness!
Tosyne2much, from which pit of hell did you emanate from? You're just too funny dude.
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 9:21pm On May 06, 2016
Be Kind but keep your eyes open as to who you're helping and whats in their other hand ...make sure its not a knife.

Could say the same for men....than be forming Football coach with so many players on the team to the extent you start treating them like rotation for bench...

Life is Short if they cant celebrate you everyday for who you are who needs them around.

Who needs lists when we have Jesus and the ignore button
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by wristbangle: 9:23pm On May 06, 2016
tosyne2much:
Bwhaahahahahahahahahahahaa cheesy Oga Wristbangle, you mean say na 15k be ur salary? cheesy


gringringrin

Bros, lwkmd here so tay eh! Some people fit make person head break 4 NL
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Ejimaa: 9:27pm On May 06, 2016
knowing much you earn is as good as knowing how much I earn too. so,since I wouldn't want my guy to know how much I earn,he should keep his to himself........not interested. till
today,he doesn't know and he doesn't mind
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by wristbangle: 9:27pm On May 06, 2016
sholikay:
hmmmmmm.. OP..no matter how this signs become so obvious to some guys/men, they wouldn't still back off..some guys/men can never learn, not until they have been totally wrecked by this gold diggers..that is when they lament like a new born baby.

chai!..the power of bo.obi and pu.ssi sha..


GOD save us guys/men from karashikas.



Amen oo. Bro, forget that thing. Booby and pussi no dey move me again. If she like make she shake her butt unclad. As long as she get all the listed points, no go area.
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by Nobody: 9:29pm On May 06, 2016
nikkypearl:
eh
Any problem with that?
Re: Guys, 8 Ladies You Should Avoid If You Want A Prosperous Financial Life by olamixx(m): 9:30pm On May 06, 2016
thank God am not into girls

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