"You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it''.

TRUTH!!

Too often,we take for granted the people who deserve our gratitude,respect and recognition.We don't even know who we should appreciate,why we should recognise and value them...We never get to realise this,until they are gone.

If you don't know the people to appreciate,never take these people for granted.

1.Those That Worry About You:Trust me,not everyone goes around looking for 'extras' to worry about.Everyone has got their own personal issues to be concerned about.When people go 'extra' to see to your wellbeing,to check on you;they surely have your best interest at heart.Such people are rare to come by-Do cherish them.

2.Those That Correct You:Taking correction is hard.Most people see correction like that bitter pill we always avoid taking,when the pill has come to make us better.Somehow,somewhere;we mess up,take correction and move on-that's life.No one is above mistake,neither is anyone beyond correction.When people correct you,they only want to see you move on to succeed-take the right path.This act is love-driven.Don't make light of corrections.We all need it in order to make progress.Respect such people.

3.Those That Are There For The Good Times And The Bad:'Success has many friends,while failure has no friend'.This popular maxim is coined from human disposition.Everybody wants the good times,nobody wants the bad times.There are people who are with you for the benefit and when the benefit stops because of circumstances:they will turn their back against you,denying ever knowing you.When you have friends/people who are ready to stick with you through thick and thin,share your happiness and sadness:never let them go!Such folks come with the tag 'priceless'.Appreciate them.

4.Those That Want To See You Do Well:Everyone wants to be an exact representation of 'I am doing well'.A successful life is not gotten by mere wishing.There must be a deliberate move and effort.Everybody is striving to beat the other person by the side at all cost.It is survival of the fittest.People are just too busy to offer a helping hand,just a very few who throw in their support.For people/friends/family whose got your back,who go out of their way to support and lend hands to your elevation and success story:always keep and appreciate them.

5.Those That Tell You The Truth: One thing people hate accepting and facing is the truth.People prefer living in deception,lies just to keep themselves from pain.As bitter as truth is.it always set minds free.Truth never damages a cause that is just.It is always fulfilling and rewarding to know that choices and decisions we make are based on the truth.While it takes courage and strenght to admit the truth:when people/friends tell and admit the truth,when they are being honest with you-never let them go.Value them.Honesty is a scarce commodity very few can pay for.

Holding people in high esteem is just one of the ways of appreciating their impact and effort towards your wellbeing.
Value What You Have,Before It Becomes What You Had.

Op you are right......


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SANDOSKI:
Op you are right......

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So is your signature.
Tankio!

People inspire or drain you:choose them well.
For those who inspire me,I hold them tight.

Very impactful.

True and worth reading.

Do you have any value attached to your person.Value beckons!

In your journey through life,don't treat people as bad as they are,treat them as good as you are.

I Don't Know If This Sounds Wierd But Janey, I Value People Who Criticise me.

I try as much as posible to establish a classified relationship with them

TechPanda:
I Don't Know If This Sounds Wierd But Janey, I Value People Who Criticise me.

I try as much as posible to establish a classified relationship with them

Now,this is the 6th classes of people to value.And that is,if the criticism serves a constructive purpose,not destructive.....I don't mind seeing myself from another persons view.They will always see what I'm not seeing,sometimes.Tnx Techpanda for that add-on and visiting my blog.

Janeyinspires:


Now,this is the 6th classes of people to value.And that is,if the criticism serves a constructive purpose,not destructive.....I don't mind seeing myself from another persons view.They will always see what I'm not seeing,sometimes.Tnx Techpanda for that add-on and visiting my blog.

It Was A Pleasure.

6. Those that are auspicious and positive about their future. Judge them at your peril.

The likes of Buhari and Liar Mohammed is not there

But I'm suppose to be in church...

Thoughtful! Happy Sunday.

Hmmm
Happy Sunday
I'm going to bed back

just cherish errbody.

I valued my ex and she summoned every courage she had, she even borrowed some from friends to leave me.















Maybe no one deserves such attention, maybe we are just who we are, maybe like dusts, we all have no values.

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Op must be an introvert(?) and must have learnt a lot from experience and probably being cerebral enough to tell what might become of an event. The truth is , in reality, these set of people are often taken for granted because they readily make themselves available. We tend to give precedence to the ones that don't give a hoot about our existence and they in return, do same for other people who also don't give a shot. It's more like a triangle[take that with a pinch of salt].
What I do is find whomever I think is compatible with me. Nobody is worth dying for because Everybody needs you somehow at any given time.

Honestly not everyone likes to be told the truth so i observe your inclination before i tell you whatever. You might make more enemies than friends if you try to be a perfect person so life is all about diplomacy. Different situations call for different aproaches.

Good enough op

For me I don't go by checklists, cos my definition of value may be at variance with checklists like the op has listed. I simply value those who add value to my life.
And I usually tell ppl this: if after a few weeks of friendship I haven't added value to your life and you to mine, then we may have to reassess the friendship in order not to waste our time

Op a bottle of woman milk for you...you are so on point..that is why I don't have many friends cos I get to understand that success get many friends,people will only come to u when u don make am but have small problem like your fake friends will just run,but only a true friend wil let you see ur wrong doing...

Nicely said

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No 1 and 2... it takes the grace of God to do them, humans generally feel offended when u try to correct them, so this days I keep my corrections to mysef

Not too far from the truth.

STFUand4kMeHARD:

Jeeeeeezzzzz why is ur user name so VAIN?