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12 Ideal First Date Conversations U Should Have. by agoadiv(m): 10:04am On May 11, 2016
Ideas for First Date Questions.
Select a few of these questions rather than attempt to ask
them all on the same first date!


- - 1 . What sort of vacations do you like to take?
Why: Different vacation preferences or amounts of vacation
time can be a major source of ongoing incompatibility. For
example, if one person likes to take very long trips and the
other person has a more standard two weeks vacation time.


-- 2 . How was your day?
Why: This question helps establish if your date has a
positive or negative attitude? If asking this question leads to
five solid minutes of them complaining you'll know the
person sees the glass as half empty.
Also, if anything out of the ordinary has happened that might
be affecting your date’s mood, it’s good to factor this in.


-- 3 . Tell me about your friends?
Why: When you enter a relationship with someone you’re
also entering a relationship with their friends. Also, it’s nice
to give your date an opportunity to answer a question that
isn't directly about them.


-- 4. Are you a dog person,
a cat person, or neither?
Why: If one of you doesn't
like pets and the other
has 3 dogs, that's likely to
be a problem.


-- 5 . What do you like to do in your free time?
Why: Helps you find out the person's preferences and also
helps you establish if the person has any free time or if
they're a workaholic.


- - 6. Is there anything you're really passionate about?
Why: Does the person have strong feelings or are they more
easygoing and with milder feelings.


-- 7 . Do you like your job?
Why: Is the person about to make any major life changes
e.g., leave their $200K/year job to go back to
school? What's their attitude to their work? Do they see it as
a job, a vocation, or are they primarily motivated by
climbing the career ladder?


- - 8 . Are you a morning or a night person?
Why: This is primarily relevant if you're either an extreme
night or an extreme morning person.


- - 9 . Would you like a bite of my dish?
Why: This question shows you’re open to sharing. On a first
date go for a friendly tone rather than an intimate tone when
asking this question.


-- 10 . Is it too noisy in here for you?
Why: This shows you're considerate of other people's
comfort. Don’t be afraid to change plans if you arrive at a
restaurant and find it’s too noisy for a good conversation.


-- 11. Who do you live with?
Why: If they still live with their Mom or they live with 10
roommates, this tells you something about how they like to
live.


-- 12 . Are you close to your family? Or, tell me who's in your
family?
Why: Are they very involved with their family of origin? Is
this something that appeals to you or not? Are their family
intrusive?

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Re: 12 Ideal First Date Conversations U Should Have. by hungryboy(m): 10:15am On May 11, 2016
All dis one na ajebutter pattern,
where i come from here is how we roll,

(Act 1 scene 1)

Hungryboy sees girl approaching.

1)hey babys come here.
2)see as you don big finish oh, na fertilizer you dey chop
3)so how e go be now, you know say i dey like you,
give me your number make i tanana you.
4)i go knack you call this evening sha,
If you see number were end with 419, na me be dat.
5)waka well eh, no talk to boys for road oh,
Make dem no spoil you for me

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Re: 12 Ideal First Date Conversations U Should Have. by Emypresh(m): 10:20am On May 11, 2016
Some girls are not matured...ask them this kind of question....All u get is YES, KK, AITE, NOPE, HMMMMMM etc.

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Re: 12 Ideal First Date Conversations U Should Have. by agoadiv(m): 4:11pm On May 11, 2016
Emypresh:
Some girls are not matured...ask them this kind of question....All u get is YES, KK, AITE, NOPE, HMMMMMM etc.

this is so true

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Re: 12 Ideal First Date Conversations U Should Have. by Nobody: 4:20pm On May 11, 2016
That is not a date. That's an interview lipsrsealed undecided

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