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Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Stanleywaxy(m): 5:10pm On May 11, 2016 |
Abroad ke ! That guy might be serving his time in prison and you're here killing yourself over nothing . Same thing happened to a family friend , since 2013 ,she's been waiting for the guy to come back ... Still till today the idiat never show , she kept on planning weddings with nothing to show for it . As for the first guy , he beats you and you're still considering him ... You're just another Ronke shode in the making ! |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Germanboi(m): 5:10pm On May 11, 2016 |
well said.... no addition or substractn.. mhizeva: |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by haywire07(m): 5:11pm On May 11, 2016 |
Marry d 7year relationship guy jor . U re convincing urself that Sammy loves u because he is going abroad . o'girl I pity u cos u will end up losing at last if u wait for 2years for one stupid Sammy . U tink its easy to come back to naija after experiencing life overseas? U will just be a WhatsApp/Facebook girlfriend for life . |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by knightsTempler: 5:15pm On May 11, 2016 |
Op, both Sammy and your on and off guy of seven years ain't the right people for you, it's so obvious. Your man you've stayed with for 7yrs doesn't know what he wants, plus he might turn out to be a "wife beater" you can see the early signs. The other Johnny traveller called Sammy has gone for greener pastures, in other words, he has gone overseas to hustle, and would you blame him for that? I think not. So don't hope on that, cuz he won't be coming soon, even from his response to you, you can tell. Just an aside, i have a lil sis who has a guy she wanted to marry to, he travelled out and promised my sis that in 2 - 3 yrs he will be back to marry her, it's now more than 8yrs he hasn't been back, his reason being that things weren't the way he thought it will be. So I'm talking from experience. Final verdict, keep looking for someone, he is out there, that someone who will love you for who you are and the parents wouldn't oppose to you marrying his son. There's that someone for everyone. Goodluck! |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Phemostiga(m): 5:18pm On May 11, 2016 |
Seek the face of God sweetheart12: |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by kvngbree01(f): 5:21pm On May 11, 2016 |
None of them dear. The Ex hits u, and the new one sounds as if his ambitions are more important than you are. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by jashar(f): 5:21pm On May 11, 2016 |
what I will say will be hard. LEAVE BOTH. Give yourself time to heal before you enter into another relationship. The fact that the 1st guy beat you and his family don't like you is an eye opener enough. A guy can love you but not be ready to marry you; like Sammy. Why should you now put your life on hold for a man? 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by ladyF(f): 5:24pm On May 11, 2016 |
The reason why a lady will want to continue with a guy who beat you black and blue is beyond me. Have you no self esteem left? What are you doing with a woman beater? All the advise on this thread will just pass through one ear and come out through the next. I really feel no pity for anyone married to a "boxer". They laid their beds, let them endure it till heaven throws a banquet for them for turning the other cheek. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by livinstone8(m): 5:31pm On May 11, 2016 |
didn't read d story but I know I'll have a clue from the comments section |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Jentilia(f): 5:35pm On May 11, 2016 |
CAPSLOCKED:not a matter of acting hard core.just telling u the fact |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Odunharry(m): 5:36pm On May 11, 2016 |
mhizeva:Really?? And many have done all those yet don't know what a genuine man is.. I hope you not mistaken a genuine man for a real man?? |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Lexusgs430: 5:37pm On May 11, 2016 |
Sweetheart12 - The physical abuser that is married, imagine the type of beating he would have been downloading on his present wife. Go back to him at your own peril, the beating baton would simply continue on your head. The other one abroad, if he is talking seriously about this relationship, lick your wounds and move on. He has probably moved on, but does not know how to officially tell you. Marry out of desperation and you go see wetin you ear, eye and body no wan see or feel!!!! |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Coolgent(m): 5:37pm On May 11, 2016 |
If not the beatingi could have shut... Marry your ex! |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by omotontolo: 5:37pm On May 11, 2016 |
my dear i wil speak to u frm experience. marriage is nt sometin to jump into. ot requires prayer. no matter aw gentle a man is during courtship, he wil stil exhibit some traits in marriage u never believed he had during courtship. there is alyws ds urge to wanna settle down quickly cos our biological clock is tickling fast bt my dear its wen u enter u wil knw dt u r at d mercy of the man. its better n safer to marry late n av peace of mind than to jump in n start telling stories that touch d heart. as for ur ex, u a. seen enof red signals. a man dt can do introduction wit anoder lady n dump him wil do worse to u as for sammy, he is jst a time waster. some guys r lyk dt. they wil hold unto u n yet they wil nt let u go. dnt fall for u. its a scam finally, none of the two options is gud for u. a word is enof for d wise. we dnt want another version of mr lekan shonde n his late wife. God help women in marriage. i rest my case. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by eyinjuege: 5:39pm On May 11, 2016 |
Please, leave bothvof them, and truly move on with your life. However, if you feel you can't move on then I'd suggest you wait for Sammy. Your first boyfriend is bad news, and I doubt if anything good can come out of your union. Let old things remain passed away |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 11, 2016 |
No matter the circumstance stick with Sammy. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Odunharry(m): 5:44pm On May 11, 2016 |
ladyF:That's how some women are you.. we call it love, lol. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Nobody: 5:46pm On May 11, 2016 |
The way women like the word marriage ehn,be like say i go add am to my chyking format |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by UyiIredia(m): 5:53pm On May 11, 2016 |
Pick Sammy. Dump the guy that used to beat you. My 2 cents. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by FxMallam: 5:54pm On May 11, 2016 |
You lost me at "beating you up". Walk away from any and all physically abusive relationship. No matter how much you "love" him. God forbid you have kids together and then they become part of this cycle of domestic violence we've turned a blind eye to in this country. SMH 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by UnaDonStart(m): 5:54pm On May 11, 2016 |
See Epistles in the name of comments!!!! Hey look here you wey create this thread,i will give you one advice PLS CHANGE YOUR JOB,AND STOP FEELING INFERIOR. To be continued....... |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Youngzedd(m): 5:55pm On May 11, 2016 |
mhizeva: Well said. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by mavinkalot: 5:57pm On May 11, 2016 |
YOU HAVE NO OPTION IN THESE TWO GUYS. IF YOU CHOOSE ONE OF THEM, SURELY YOU WOULD COME HERE ASKING FOR ADVICES FOR MORE DANGEROUS SITUATIONS. PLEASE START AFRESH!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by InvertedHammer: 5:58pm On May 11, 2016 |
sweetheart12:/ There are more than 2 men in the world. Don't be like Nigerians that were made to choose between only two bad products in 2015. One boyfriend is surrounded by uncertainty. The other is enmeshed in indecision ganished with the penchant for violence. Stay away from both of them. \ 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by 4nobody4every1: 6:00pm On May 11, 2016 |
naijaboiy: |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by oluwasegun007(m): 6:03pm On May 11, 2016 |
dont go for anyone. ...reason, dat mike tyson is totally out coupled with his dad dislike. for d oda guy, u barely know him because u hardly could say anything about him oda dan he his God fearing wich means he could b worse dan tyson. . and by d way u said u dated mike tyson for 7yrs d oda guy for 6 month, approximately 8yrs altogether. ....even if u started dating at d age of 20 u should b 28 by now... my advice for u is to find one cool guy for naija for here b4 u start grow bie bie. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by masks(m): 6:04pm On May 11, 2016 |
mhizeva:kai!i love you for this piece of advice... na platonic love o! lol! but I am impressed. nice and thoughtful words |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 11, 2016 |
naijaboiy: What's so confusing? A guy who beat her and jilted her ones? Or the one who she has plans to settle with but has no plans to settle down with her? Sweetheart12, in my opinion 7years meant nothing to him when he went off with someone else. I'm even shocked you are considering it again. It best you Don't go back to him. As for your Londoner find out his plans for you so you don't waste your precious time. Life is too short for people to play 10|10 with you. Good luck 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by bezimo(m): 6:10pm On May 11, 2016 |
sweetheart12: If you marry that your ex whose family never wanted you and who assaulted you.You are already a dead woman walking. Mark my words, you would end up like the recent case of Ronke who was just killed by her husband from assault. Your ex is not an option, discuss with your boyfriend abroad and tell him the situation or look for someone else. As a matter of fact that your ex is not Gods will for you. You've been warned. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by BabieGhagha(f): 6:12pm On May 11, 2016 |
your ex and Sammy have no better plans for you.walk away from the two of them finally and completely.change environment if possible and look for someone who have better plans for you.may Allah help you (pray) |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Ultimatesammie(m): 6:15pm On May 11, 2016 |
SirWere:A lot of things happen in this world not everything has to make sense to u. |
Re: Should I Wait For My Love Abroad Or Should I Accept My Ex Back? by Nobody: 6:16pm On May 11, 2016 |
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