She is a very friendly person no doubt but whenever I'm around her, she does things that makes me think she wants me. She once told me I was acting like a small boy! I really like her but I'm scared of telling her cos She has a boyfriend and I don't know what to expect. Please help.

Hold on, Let me consult the oracle.

What kind of help do you need, how to decipher?

_{posa
expecting. . .}

if she has a boyfriend then what do you think she wants from you?

Ask the babe now?  I weak for dis guy o!

pls note: I'm a stupidly shy person.

being shy doesnt mean you cant see what's right before your eyes.


Will your shyness prevent you being beaten up by the boyfriend, if he's the type who does that?


and besides, maybe you're mistaken about her intentions.

It's her I'm scared of not her boyfriend.
You may be right though, maybe I'm wrong about her ihtentions but what about mine?

Mr emerson ur a funny guy. It seems u already know the answers to the questions ur asking. What xactly do u need advice on??

The thing is, I like her a lot and I think she likes me too but I'm scared of letting her know for fear of being rejected because of my misjudgement. (I am Atychiphobic). How can I tell if she really likes me.

atilla:

Mr emerson ur a funny guy. It seems u already know the answers to the questions ur asking. What xactly do u need advice on??

gbam.

emorse:

The thing is, I like her a lot and I think she likes me too but I'm scared of letting her know for fear of being rejected because of my misjudgement. (I am Atychiphobic). How can I tell if she really likes me.

are you trying to steal her from her boyfriend just for the fun of it?

I don't know and don't care about him. Its her I care about. Hardly does an hour pass by without thoughts of her flashing across my mind. Its about 11pm now - see what I'm doing? So you see, I'm not trying to steal her and its not just for the fun of it. Its that uncontrolable feeling that I have for her.

Your head for money.

@ mama-gee. So you mean you'd kill me if you knew me and this story was true. Na wa 4 you o. U take style harsh small.

she has a boyfriend? very little chance then. anyway play it cool and see what happend

sexyLeamon:

she has a boyfriend? very little chance then. anyway play it cool and see what happend

so u are advising him to take sum1's gf, right? 

when did I say dat?

sexyLeamon:

when did I say dat?

--sighs-- read ur own comment!

What it is is an extreme lust attack. You are crazily attracted to this woman (and maybe she is crazily attracted to you), for the simple reason that it is wrong. It is taboo. That is why she is seeming so sweet to you, The devil is toying with you! We all know that we often want what we can't have, and we know that certain things we get in life are not worth the penalty or price that comes along with it.

So now, the real question is this: Are you a fool? Or are you a wise man? See, a wise man can abstain from foolish behavior. A wise man resists temptation! A foolish person FALLS VICTIM TO temptation. You are faced with a decision.

Now, if you want my honest opinion, I would say let her know how you feel, but be very cautious about the way that you do it (I know it seems like I am contradicting myself, but bear with me). My reasoning is that, if you are willing to step back and look at the whole thing objectively and would be willing to view the woman as a platonic friend, there may be MUCH to gain. First, by establishing a healthy friendship first, you can build up your trust and friendship to a point that will allow to express your feelings to her comfortably. At the same time, you can get to know her well by getting close to her and finding out different things about her that will aid you in building the relationship later. By willingly putting yourself in the friendzone, you could establish a basis for something more serious in the event that things don't work out with her and her lover later. Also, having female friends who pocess the qualities you seek in a lover gives you critical insight into how to interact with those types of women!! She will share secrets with you and tell you where you have advantages or where you need improvement. Perhaps she could even give you tips to help you break out of your shyness,

Tell her how you feel, But not until you have thoroughly evaluated the whole situation and come up with a plan of action that will ensure you the best possible outcome with the least negative consequence. Listen to your concious and pay attention the signs. You have alot to potentially gain or lose.

Good luck!

- Magz

This guy which kind question be this now, abi u want make i teach you how to use ur thing, soji urself before e too late oh.

@ OP

the question is, what do u want from her?

This guy which kind question be this now, abi u want make i teach you how to use ur thing, soji urself before e too late oh.

Well, my advice to you is that just continue the way you have been before now because not everything that is gliiter is a gold.

posakosa:

Hold on, Let me consult the oracle.

Hey sweetpie i like ur id, u must realy be sweet, lol

thank you

gregoro:

Hey sweetpie i like ur id, u must realy be sweet, lol

na man be dat oh!

Yea u most welcome sweetpie, so can u skool me about you, would love to get to know ya.

no1madman:

na man be dat oh!

first thing that make me laugh on here  

Hey thanks mr madman abi wetin be that ur id again sef, so how u take know say na man, which man wan use that kind id. why you no call urself number one sweetpie madman, lol

gregoro:

Yea u most welcome sweetpie, so can u skool me about you, would love to get to know ya.

if you are thinking about a relationship, no am not interested. but we can be friends

Hey sweetpie feel free to tell me about you, its a free world.