LegalBaby:


12. When you casually mention you have no weekend plans,he doesn’t jump in and suggest you hang out.Because y’know, he doesn’t
actually like you all that much.

Check my signature.

StKnight:

Women and money

ladyF:
Cont'd 11. He doesn't buy you gifts

As the popular saying goes: you can give without loving but you cannot love without giving.

Does he buy you vals gift? Birthday gift? Money to flex for the weekend? Happy new month gift? Credit to call your uncles and anties to greet them nko?

If the answer to all these questions is no, sister biko, look for someone that loves you! Love will find you...

Mediapace:
Chai Mi.mzy don Vex

ronald4lif:
Very apt points but disagree with number 3. I never display jealousy when a lady tells me she met with a male friend or hang out with him.



To me I know it's a calculated and mischievous attempt to make me feel jealous and I don't fall for petit mind games.

Not that I'm not jealous but I hardly show and make it obvious. Every reaction and thoughts is done reticently.

mimzy:
Ehm.. you got me wrong ooo.

See.. Relationship is not a necessity for survival or existence but "when there is love, there is life"

Look at Rita Dominic for instance, she lives a very comfortable life regardless of whatever, but do you think that somewhere deep down in her heart, she will not yearn for a lil tender love n care?

Smellymouth:
Nice write up mimzy..

Me likey but why u wan spoil our business na?

Chop and clean mouth is still the best

mimzy:


vex ko, vexation ni

ladyF:
Cont'd 11. He doesn't buy you gifts

As the popular saying goes: you can give without loving but you cannot love without giving.

Does he buy you vals gift? Birthday gift? Money to flex for the weekend? Happy new month gift? Credit to call your uncles and anties to greet them nko?

If the answer to all these questions is no, sister biko, look for someone that loves you! Love will find you...

Mediapace:
Make i help you add some .

But before that,warn your team mateS oO,If any one should try and bash me,they will regret it OO :

11.He doesn’t have the interest to talk to you :
This is a very straight forward sign! He is not interested to talk to you and there’s nothing else to it. He won’t ask you out on a date, won’t be around you because he no interest in you. The important thing here is to not make assumptions automatically that He is not that into you because he has a fear of making the first move, or he takes quite long to answer back to your text messages. Many guys have each and every type of odd habits of texting, but the common, lack of concern for talking to you should be noticed after some weeks or months have passed. You’ve got to check out if he really has plenty of chances to talk to you/text you, and after that, based on these things, make a decision whether or not he picks to take those chances or merely overlook them. Lastly, if you are the one talking to him and he constantly seems to be trying to finish the conversation, that is one more bad and clear sign that He is not into you and has no interest in talking to you.


He is got no time for you :
I just loathe flaky folks. Even though it happens to me very rarely, when a woman flakes, I absorb two extremely essential things. Firstly, that girl is not interested in you perhaps, and the second thing is that she is not worth your time most probably. And if a guy is flaky as well as calls off plans and doesn’t at all reschedule, clearly that guy has no interest in you at all. Frankly speaking, if he starts to miss out next two dates, you can, without a doubt, be sure about this. When he misses out one date and if he actually wants to meet you and spend time with you, trust me, he will put all his effort and time to be there with you.

juhan:
oga smelly you too follow?

repent o

Repent ke? I nor be christian na

HurricaneMIMZY:

Re: HE DOESN'T LISTEN TO YOU.


A lot of women mistake TALKING AT MEN with TALKING TO MEN. They are two different scenarios.

You can't call it a "talk" when you start lecturing him and listing his faults.

"You don't care about me! When was the last time we really bonded?! You spend hours watching TV when we should be having quality time together?
I'd like to... Yesterday I... My friend and I.. "

When everything is about you and you alone, he feels left out of your world.

How about you try something new like talking about why he felt the need to go from an Iceprince-like kind of beard to Banky's? Watch him talk. Subconsciously he knows you're paying attention to detail and he should reciprocate too.

talk2alabama:
If I like a girl, she'l definitely know it... she see it tru my actions..

Smellymouth:


Repent ke? I nor be christian na

Smellymouth:
Nice write up mimzy..

Me likey but why u wan spoil our business na?

Chop and clean mouth is still the best

mimzy:
thank you. you are on point. but if you read through my post, these two have been addressed already lolz

@the first emboldened #TheyAreLoversNotFighters

mimzy:
true cos action speaks louder than mere words

talk2alabama:
yes... the visits, the sacrifices, the calling everyday, spending time with her, letting her knw she is important to him, being there for her wen she is sick, knowing her number by heart, infact doing little thing in an extra ordinary way... (must really not be about money) ah mean.. she justs has to knw that the guy really really likes her when she sees all these things. And should reciprocate

talk2alabama:
yes... the visits, the sacrifices, the calling everyday, spending time with her, letting her knw she is important to him, being there for her wen she is sick, knowing her number by heart, infact doing little thing in an extra ordinary way... (must really not be about money) ah mean.. she justs has to knw that the guy really really likes her when she sees all these things. And should reciprocate