This may be a little hard to digest
initially but I feel it’s true to some extent. Success of a
man is in the hands of the woman associated with his life
mainly in the form of a wife. In case of single men,
mothers could also have a vital role in this regard.
However, my focus here is mainly on housewives.
This in no way means I am giving credit to women right
away for the success of a man. What I am trying to
emphasize is the fact that women play a vital role in
making it easier for them to walk up the rungs of the
success ladder.
By successful men, I do not mean CEOs of multimillion
organizations, or those gentlemen who are minting
money, or sitting at high posts. By a successful man I
mean any average gentleman who is working hard,
earning his living, providing well for his family, doing
justice to his work, and most importantly who is content
with what he is doing. A person who’s heart and mind are
at peace both at work and at home.
It does not mean that those who face stress at work are
not successful. Successful men are ready to face
challenges and handle stress with their positive energy,
the source of which may largely originate from their
homes. In essence, success is not a measure of the
designation or post or even bank balance. It is a measure
of inner satisfaction, mental peace, a happy life, and
motivation and good spirit to face challenges related to
even extremely tough situations at work.
Men apparently are a symbol of strength. They may
appear to stand up strong in times of stress and trial, but
after all they are human beings and need emotional
support. This is where a strong willed, supportive wife
may contribute, by being at his side, assuring him that he
is not alone. Words may not be necessary, but positive
energy released by positive attitude may suffice.
Here, I am compelled to mention the example of Prophet
Muhammad (saws), who although being ‘The Chosen One’
by The Divine being, was shattered and extremely
nervous when he received the first revelation. The
support and the strength that he received from his
beloved wife Hazrat Khadija was a stepping stone in his
prophet hood. She was the source of encouragement and
solace in the time when no one believed in him.
Women of today can definitely not be like such great
women as the wives of the Prophet, but they can at least
try to imitate the finer qualities that those women
possessed. In order to provide that strength and support,
women first need to be strong themselves. They then
need to learn to be tolerant and patient, and take charge
of the home situation to release that positive energy that
is so essential to tackle tough situations.
There are quite a few things that can be done to be ‘The
Woman’ behind the successful man. As I mentioned
earlier, success or contentment is a result of mental
peace which helps to focus on goals and targets in a
better way. For this, the most important thing is the home
environment. It is totally in the hands of a woman to keep
the environment at home peaceful and serene.
The house should give a welcoming feel. A neat and tidy
place with things on their proper places soothes mind
passively. On the other hand, a chaotic setup adds up to
the mental chaos.
Keep yourself and children presentable. It is always
refreshing to see smartly dressed people. Over dressing
is not suggested. Neat and tidy children and a well
composed wife, adds to the happy aura of home. It in
turn helps to relax and prepare the mind and body for
the upcoming challenges at work the next day.
Try to finish off your household work before your
husband returns home. Be there for him, sit together,
chat casually over tea, and talk on light subject.
Be receptive. It is a great attribute to be a good listener.
Sometimes, just hearing things out for someone sorts out
a lot of issues. Give solutions if you are able to come up
with any. Even if you cannot help in this regard, just
providing moral support may be enough.
There will definitely be domestic issues that you may
need help with. Do not bombard your husband with
problems as soon as he comes home. Just throwing
problems might not be of any use if he is already under
pressure. Let him relax and settle down and then discuss
your problems. It is also a good idea to have alternative
solutions to problems thought out before hand.
All of this discussion lays emphasis on women to take
charge of home. The idea is to keep husbands’ minds off
from the unimportant domestic issues that can be
handled by women alone. It does not mean that they
should stay aloof from the problems that exist at home.
Their involvement should definitely be there since a
home is created by both the husband and wife working
together. However, sharing responsibilities by taking
charge of the home and letting your husband stay
focused on his work will definitely lead to prosperity and
growth.
A woman has a major role to play towards the success of
a man, a good home environment, and eventually a
happy society.
As expressed by Rumi, “Woman is a ray of God; she is not
a mere mistress…”
Hence I believe, if you are a man, and if you are
successful, then there is definitely a woman right behind
you!


aaj.tv/2010/08/behind-every-successful-man-there-is-a-woman/

I agreeee...

So who's behind the unsuccessful man?
Get a grip of yourself and quit these unnecessary praises.

SINNXU:
So who's behind the unsuccessful man?

Get a grip of yourself and quit these unnecessary praises.

most unsuccessful men can't keep a woman,or has many women.

Lalasticlala abeg una help me ooo

Booked

Too long!

Get a grip, abeg! The other extreme mostly holds true!

When her insults gets to a point, u become desperate to succeed at all cost, and do anything to show her, yet she'll still find a way of belittling u!!

If d kind of woman u described up there was d norm, divorces won't be d fad presently!

When you know the meaning of the word "successful" please come back.

ashjay001:
Too long!

Get a grip, abeg! The other extreme mostly holds true!

When her insults gets to a point, u become desperate to succeed at all cost, and do anything to show her, yet she'll still find a way of belittling u!!

If d kind of woman u described up there was d norm, divorces won't be d fad presently!

okay,lemme rephrase it...Behind every successful man,there is a wise woman...and yes successful can be defined in various ways
depending on the goals that you have set for yourself.
not to downgrade anyone, male or female in our society

whogoscam:
When you know the meaning of the word "successful" please come back.

whogoscam:
When you know the meaning of the word "successful" please come back.

suzan404:
most unsuccessful men can't keep a woman,or has many women.

LOL. My dear, poor couples have higher tendencies of sticking together. Look at the world around you and tell me what social class has the highest rates of divorce cases.

kinglekan:



Although the title sounds more like a cliché, it is certainly true for your definition of success. As long as success is defined being fulfilled, inner satisfaction and being at peace at work and home then every successful man needs the support of a woman operating at a postive mental frequency to experience that.

yeah,Women are best at encouraging and supporting
people. They're best at helping others succeed

SINNXU:


LOL. My dear, poor couples have higher tendencies of sticking together. Look at the world around you and tell me what social class has the highest rates of divorce cases.

okay then...

That one na lie o, person wey no get mama and no get time for babe matter, shey dat one cum mean say e no go blow ni........

kingpablo:
That one na lie o, person wey no get mama and no get time for babe matter, shey dat one cum mean say e no go blow ni........

i would like to rephrase it..behind every successful man,
there has to be "somebody"..now this somebody can be
his mother,wife, sister..

here we go again. always women blowing their horn how indispensable they are. you guys should understand you are very important, but it doesn't mean that life without a woman is the end of the world.

on the matter; I want you to put at the pinnacle of your thut pattern.

BEHIND EVERY SUCCESSFUL MAN/WOMAN IS A SUCCESSFUL MIND SET.

Successful men attract women, Successful women scare men.

NOTE: most times it's AFTER you become successful that we know who is behind/beside you.

cheef,
women...

Hmmm, wish i read it

Hmmm, wish i read it....

suzan404:

Oh yea.

suzan404:
Lalasticlala abeg una help me ooo

Edit your post and arrange it properly before calling for FP.

StillBrandnew:

Edit your post and arrange it properly before calling for FP.

okay....thanks

suzan404:
okay,lemme rephrase it...Behind every successful man,there is a wise woman...and yes successful can be defined in various ways
depending on the goals that you have set for yourself.
not to downgrade anyone, male or female in our society

U could also use: behind every successful man, is a very surprised woman!

ashjay001:


U could also use: behind every successful man, is a very surprised woman!

lol,anyhow you want it.

suzan404:
most unsuccessful men can't keep a woman,or has many women.

Behind every successful man there is truly a woman because women don't go after unsuccessful men - Tallesty1

Nice one OP.

Kondomatic:
Behind every successful man there is truly a woman because women don't go after unsuccessful men - Tallesty1

i would like to rephrase it..behind every successful man,
there has to be "somebody"..now this somebody can be
his mother, father, wife, sister, or some friend...but
generally its seen that behind every successful man,
most of the time, there is a woman..I have seen many
great men giving credit for their success to their
wives.That's because behind any successful person is a
woman. Women are best at encouraging and supporting
people. They're best at helping others succeed.