ezinne1212:

@Poster, you mentioned it was the mum that settled ur last misunderstanding, did u ever consider she might have considered that a mistake after your present stunt. Your gf telling the mum what you did might have made her feel foolish for sending her daughter back to you. Personally, i don't even understand why an adult would listen to her mum tell her to go back to someone who beat her, but since thats the case, you can be very sure that if you don't apologize, then it's the end of the relationship for you two.

posakosa:

You ego is getting the best of you. Not all advice is good. When she leaves and moves on with her life, make certain to come back and date a NLder, pseeew!

,amebo no1:

good, do not apologise to the mum, you need to sit her up and make her realise that you are the man here

Does she really run to the mum anytime there is a little misunderstanding? na wa oooooo

If she continues like this, then her mum will always be a thrid party even after you lot are married

Mark my words

GEW:

this na lie. this boy no be man here. he is an insecured small boy. dont forget the girl is still at home with the mum and being a smart good mum she will know the daughter like a good mum does. she could not have been getting those obscene calls without telling the mum and it was only good she told the mum she has discovered it was master insecure behind it.

she has done no wrong telling her mum it is only nice and wise for the boy to go and say sorry mummy.

na so una be for ajegunle?

vizzy09:


RIGHT NOW, I HAVE MADE UP MA MIND ABOUT THE WHOLE THING. SHE IS THE ONE I AM DATING AND NOT THE MOM. I AM NOT MAKING ANY APOLOGY. DESPITE THE FACT THAT I DEEPLY LOVE HER, IT WILL ONLY TAKE ME SOME TIME TO GET OVER IT. I WILL GIVE HER A BREAK AND IF SHE TRULY LOVES ME, SHE WILL COME BACK

,amebo no1:

sure why not, when next the guy tells her shut up, she will run to her mum, and then demand for an apology from him abi?

Let me tell you one thingy you don't know, when a girl is inlove, she hides from her mum every bad thingies the guy does, but wastes no time in telling the mum all the good things the guy has done

In this case she'd rather tell the bad than the good, my mother has her life, i have mine, shes a good mother, but that does not mean she has the right to know what happens around my life all the time. If the girl can't keep and fight a difficult situation now that they are courting, is it when he marries her into the house she will learn?

vizzy09:


@GEW u are right. she told her mom about the messages but that does not still mean i have to apologise to the mom. the mom is a very nice woman bt i know she will not support the idea of me apologising to her. i just have this feeling and i still will not. i have made up my ming to giv her a break.

vizzy09:

I really didn't want to comment on your thread but for the afore-quoted.
If i get you right, it was the mother that you ran to for solace/help after you beat her up once, right? so why the new found ego?.
why not turn it around by soliciting her mother's help in talking to her? (after you have duly confessed your anomalies)
Infact,
Dude, if you really know what you are doing then you shouldn't be told what to do.

@ifeleke, when we had that fight in school i never called the mother and it still baffles me how she knew about it. i still recolect what she told me then that no matter what happens we shud not allow outsiders know we are quarelling. when i say outsiders, i mean fellow students in our hostel because we were staying off campus then

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,amebo no1 link=topic=310478.msg4367060#msg4367060 date=1250517357:

sure why not, when next the guy tells her shut up, she will run to her mum, and then demand for an apology from him abi?

Let me tell you one thingy you don't know, when a girl is inlove, she hides from her mum every bad thingies the guy does, but wastes no time in telling the mum all the good things the guy has done

In this case she'd rather tell the bad than the good, my mother has her life, i have mine, shes a good mother, but that does not mean she has the right to know what happens around my life all the time. If the girl can't keep and fight a difficult situation now that they are courting, is it when he marries her into the house she will learn?

i still love you very much so i will not write here what i think of this post.  i quite agree a girl in love dont tell all but a girl in love had to tell her mum some likkle boy as the english call them was calling her and now she discover it was brother insecure and you are saying a girl in love shouldnt put the mum out of her miseries.

you do know i know you are cleverer than this.  brother wonderful was out of order and need to swallow his pride.  anyway you know i wont take this against you.