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Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by Macgreat(m): 2:42pm On Aug 18, 2009
grin grin
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by candyshore: 2:44pm On Aug 18, 2009
poster-- u must be goin  thru pain but my dear live your life, try to forget him, someone better will come, life goes on suicide for wat ,he is not worth it.if he is for u he will come back but dont put ur mind there. do thing dat will make u happy, go out miss up with people, watch movies, party and be involved with church activities. with time u will feel better.
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by Macgreat(m): 2:48pm On Aug 18, 2009
OKay
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by yjay(f): 3:14pm On Aug 18, 2009
suicide ke? cos a MAN!!!!! wake up girl!
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by spikedcylinder: 3:37pm On Aug 18, 2009
You were the dude's NYSC play thing and now you want to kill yourself. Go right ahead. undecided

You should even be thankful he was creative enough to come up with a story, some dudes just blank out. . . . stop picking your calls. . . etc Be my guest and kill yourself though. That should make for some entertainment.
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by ThoniaSlim(f): 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2009
For a dude?  undecided Honestly am tryna understand you cus I dnt think anyone is worth taking your life. . .Life goes on for the dude after your gone. . .so you had better get your head back on track!
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by steve49ja(m): 3:44pm On Aug 18, 2009
Hehehehe ever heard of ''enjoy while stock last''??

''Wear ya push up bra, use colourful but matured make up, nice fragrance, sweet heels'' and get ya groove on mamacita.''
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by tRoOE(f): 4:47pm On Aug 18, 2009
@poster
u shuld count ursef lucky,at least he did u a favor.
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 18, 2009
Oh please! Quit the drama!!!
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by TheSeeker(m): 5:44pm On Aug 18, 2009
steve49ja:

Hehehehe ever heard of ''enjoy while stock last''??

''Wear ya push up bra, use colourful but matured make up, nice fragrance, sweet heels'' and get ya groove on mamacita.''
Don't crack up my breathe please!!!! ROFLMAO grin grin grin grin Na MTN sim card? grin
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by TheSeeker(m): 6:03pm On Aug 18, 2009
whitelexi:

Dreams can come true grin grin grin

Abraham loved his son but he was gonna sacrifice him to a God he was not sure of. . . Its called Faith! grin grin grin
LEXI! LEXI!! LEXI!!! LEXI!!!! How many times did I call you? You're a mad man grin grin
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by letustalk(m): 1:29pm On Aug 19, 2009
Abeni,
Pls do not commit suicide. we have all been there. as a matter of fact, i talking with you was jilted only two weeks ago by my fiancee. she woke up one morning and just said she was no longer interested. i really thought it was a joke until i saw the seriousness. the problem i had was even how to explain to my parents who were already more than eager to see her. she is from edo and my parents quite unusually liked her. i begged my sister begged no way. i dont know if it was that she got scared of marriage plans or what. in fact this thought me such a great lesson and i am praying to God to help me as i am emotionally fragile. i thank God i work so it helps me overcome it, although not easily.
Abeni, make sure you get something that occupies your spare time so you dont think. i do a lot of harmful thinking but getting busy has helped. if you pray, make sure you commit everything to God in prayer and be sure he will help you.
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by whitelexi(m): 1:36pm On Aug 19, 2009
TheSeeker:

LEXI! LEXI!! LEXI!!! LEXI!!!! How many times did I call you? You're a mad man grin grin

grin grin grin Wetin i do? grin grin
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by TheSeeker(m): 1:54pm On Aug 19, 2009
Lexi, nothing
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by steve49ja(m): 5:51pm On Aug 20, 2009
TheSeeker:

Don't crack up my breathe please!!!! ROFLMAO grin grin grin grin Na MTN sim card? grin
See this man, na the sharp man you de blame? omo na enjoy while you can oh. [size=5pt]which i'm sure she did, da thought of it (realising its ended/no more stock) might be whats makin our beloved poster mad for her to think she might turn suicidal donchu think she really enjoyed da stock/goods? cheesy. . . no be my mouth you hear oh[/size] cheesy
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by topup: 1:44am On Aug 21, 2009
Wow, firstly, that is not the full story, as in, I don't believe for one moment that it was a spur of the moment decision. I mean he even changed his number.

Is the guy really spiritual, and what does an old woman have to do with your relationship. If he is spiritual it could be a case of him believing that he has received a revelation, whilst if it's not, he probably is just using it as an excuse.

I really don't want to cheapen your memories of your relationship but maybe it wasn't everything you thought it was, he could have easily been putting on a pretence and if it fooled you, there is no reason why it could fool others too.

It's really good to listen carefully to a guy in a relationship, has he ever raised any queries, maybe about his family not accepting your relationship, or his parents being controlling, or maybe he has someone who advises him, who he really respects, who he would blindly follow.

For now, believe that he wasn't worth, honestly, no one is worth pain, isn't surviving in this world difficult enough without lies and deceit from those who are supposed to shelter you.

Seriously, you can consider it as an escape, he could have married you and then disappeared, many have had it worse, and believing that you got away easier than them could be the first step in being grateful, which can help you put things in perspective.

What he did was terrible, no doubt, but dwelling on it is unfair to yourself, if you need to dwell though, dwell, but after a while, move on, make sure you grieve him properly, don't try and pretend that everything's okay, you obviously cared for this guy. Just remember that heartbreak is a part of life, which, yes, you didn't have to experience, but its lessons are better learnt whilst you're still young and able to turn back and make changes.

All the best.
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by C2H5OH(f): 1:47am On Aug 21, 2009
MMMhhhhhhhhhM topup cry
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by chic2pimp(m): 2:13am On Aug 21, 2009
All dis yapas wey u yarn shey na true sha. Dis ya story sounds suspicious jare. I no believe am jor.
oladcity:

He probably saw that you are dull and came up with that dull story, heheheheheeheee wonders will never end. I hope you did not believe his dream. I think you just got dumped
gbam I absolutely agree with u jare
Ujujoan:

Oh please! Quit the drama!!!
no mind the girl jare. Na soso puppycocks she dey yarn.
whitelexi:

Dreams can come true grin grin grin

Abraham loved his son but he was gonna sacrifice him to a God he was not sure of. . . Its called Faith! grin grin grin. Sensible post. A* grade.grin grin grin grin.
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 25, 2009
ABEG GO JUMP IF YOU WANT, amke we rset jare, you peoplle and your worrying urself over some dumb guy, are they even worth it?, abegi, make sure say na de deepest par of the river,sea or ocean you go, or better still, make sure the electric current is on the highest level b4 u put ur wet hand inside, lets see if u will die in peace, or if he wnt even shag ur best friend after u are gone, plllsssssssss
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by naijalove(f): 11:53am On Aug 26, 2009
@olusolami: that is so cruel,
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by finemocha(f): 5:17am On Aug 28, 2009
the guy sounds like a fool. im sorry but u have to move on,
Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by 9ja4u(m): 9:14am On Aug 28, 2009
@Poster. Woman u look 2 good, were is your self worth. What is going on in that head of yours, do you think you wont be able to snag another dude?. Just move on, it is all part of life experiences. Personally i never cry over what i cant fix. And by the way do you think it easy to commit Suicide, make you tell us how the thing dey feel after u try am finish. I will b waiting ,

Re: Help! I Think I Might Turn Suicidal! by Nobody: 6:20pm On Aug 29, 2009
people, i think it was her period of 5minutes madness,

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