To the ladies, their wedding ceremony is the most exciting event in their life. They start planning for it at age 7. At 23, they have been to hundreds of wedding ceremonies, chosen a gown, a bride’s maid and a make-up artist. For the guys, black suits are always in the market, barbers litter the street and they have a dozen of friend from their drinking clubs or street stadium who they can call on a week to their wedding ceremony to best them. Remaining married after the ceremony, requires hard work.

Genotype, HIV status, Fertility are what religious groups check before joining two people together, which are very important but ask a random girl the qualities she wants in her future husband, and she will go on and on but it’s a fact that the list becomes shorter with increase in age. Proceed to ask a man, African men in particular loves great body shape among others. The truth is everyone has qualities they admire in their partner except those that are old and desperate or forcefully taken.

Since the inception of marriage, news like “Mrs. A cheats with her ex, Mrs. B is now Mrs. Chief because her husband went bankrupt, Mr. D was caught on his teenage maid”, has being flying around and will continue to just because the attributes couples admire in each other depletes over time. Even if the qualities remain the same, truth is there are people who has that qualities better. Men will always see a sexier body, better cook and for the few that value intelligence, a more intelligent woman will be met while women will always see a taller, more caring, richer and to the few, more religious man.

Taking a lifelong partner is a very hard task as none can be fully prepared for the future events. To remain married with which ever partner you find yourself with; forgive, be ignorant to the physical changes, embrace their flaws, praise their efforts and be determined to be faithful. If you cannot do these, best stay single.

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