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My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 9:22pm On May 20, 2016
I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..
1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.
2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.
3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.
4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.
5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.
6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.
6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort.
7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.
8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.
P.s: candid opinions only pls. Shove up criticisms and insults up your fingers. Thanks.
Lalastica
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by abimbawealth(f): 9:24pm On May 20, 2016
Kpele...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by iceberylin(m): 9:25pm On May 20, 2016
I don't know what you're dating o

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by donbenedict(m): 9:29pm On May 20, 2016
iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o
faints and dies grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by kossyablaze(m): 9:30pm On May 20, 2016
Give her sniper
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by donbenedict(m): 9:31pm On May 20, 2016
Babe dah cannor even hug talk less of kiss, is dah one girlfrnd? grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 9:33pm On May 20, 2016
iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o
mind your tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 9:33pm On May 20, 2016
abimbawealth:
Kpele...
not helping
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 9:35pm On May 20, 2016
kossyablaze:
Give her sniper
how many have you killed?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by richardoz(m): 9:44pm On May 20, 2016
Hmmm...the way u narrated ur story it does not look like u were dating but in a platonic relationship. I will rather advise u define the relationship as fast as possible, then try to understand her character traits.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by FlySly05: 9:52pm On May 20, 2016
The question is Are you two old enough to date ? Because it doesn't seem like you both have the capacity to be in a relationship. No offense though.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by iceberylin(m): 9:53pm On May 20, 2016
Israel5:
mind your tongue
I still don't know, bro
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by RoyalBlak007: 9:53pm On May 20, 2016
lemme call my bae... grin

kashybaby he needs ur advice
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Sunkyphil(m): 9:54pm On May 20, 2016
Best definition of friendzone cry2

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 9:57pm On May 20, 2016
richardoz:
try to understand her character traits.
ok. Thnk u.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by halfricanadian(f): 9:59pm On May 20, 2016
Awwwwwww embarassed embarassed it must av hurt
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:01pm On May 20, 2016
FlySly05:
The question is Are you two old enough to date ? Because it doesn't seem like you both have the capacity to be in a relationship. No offense though.
no offence taken. We're old enough. She's in her twenties and i'm older.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:02pm On May 20, 2016
halfricanadian:
Awwwwwww embarassed embarassed it must av hurt
what are you even doing here sef? You never help matters

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by halfricanadian(f): 10:06pm On May 20, 2016
Israel5:
what are you even doing here sef? You never help matters

Its bad to sympatise sorry i crossed my boundaries

Bye
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by CaptainEColeJnr: 10:17pm On May 20, 2016
you're not dating.. you just like me who has never had a girlfriend (cuz I don't want to)..
Girls are big distractions which I'd like to avoid at all cost..

OP quit that relationship ..you're definitely her "side guy"
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:19pm On May 20, 2016
halfricanadian:

Its bad to sympatise sorry i crossed my boundaries
Bye
Bye.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by halfricanadian(f): 10:20pm On May 20, 2016
Israel5:
Bye.

Ok

About ur signature even tho theres no revenge

Karma knows how to f*ck pple up grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:21pm On May 20, 2016
CaptainEColeJnr:
you're not dating.. you just like me who has never had a girlfriend (cuz I don't want to)..
Girls are big distractions which I'd like to avoid at all cost..

OP quit that relationship ..you're definitely her "side guy"
i know she has no other guy. I even know her period days. Pls Define dating
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:23pm On May 20, 2016
halfricanadian:


Ok

About ur signature even tho theres no revenge

Karma knows how to f*ck pple up grin grin
i'm sorry na i didn't mean to be rude. Plsss. Y are u single?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by halfricanadian(f): 10:24pm On May 20, 2016
Israel5:
i'm sorry na i didn't mean to be rude. Plsss

grin grin wats my own
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by CaptainEColeJnr: 10:24pm On May 20, 2016
Israel5:
i know she has no other guy. I even know her period days. Pls Define dating
Dating is defined as two people (a couple) having a romantic affair between them,which usually involves members of both sex (a man & woman) ...


















now underline the word "Romantic"
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:26pm On May 20, 2016
halfricanadian:

grin grin wats my own
okay. Fine
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Israel5(m): 10:28pm On May 20, 2016
CaptainEColeJnr:
Dating is defined as two people (a couple) having a romantic affair between them,which usually involves members of both sex (a man & woman) ...


















now underline the word "Romantic"
so in essence, since she resists romance, i shld look elsewhere? Say halfricanadian?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by CaptainEColeJnr: 10:33pm On May 20, 2016
Israel5:
so in essence, since she resists romance, i shld look elsewhere? Say halfricanadian?
Who's that?
Anyway if she cannot show you off in front of other people not even as a friend .. then she ain't love you no more dude!
Look elsewhere !
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by ClintonDal(m): 10:34pm On May 20, 2016
Both of y'all still kids. undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by jopretty(f): 10:35pm On May 20, 2016
You just made my evening aswearigad... grin grin
iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o
Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by halfricanadian(f): 10:35pm On May 20, 2016
CaptainEColeJnr:
Who's that?
Anyway if she cannot show you off in front of other people not even as a friend .. then she ain't love you no more dude!
Look elsewhere !

Pls sound it in his ear well

Look elsewhere op!!!!!!!

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