Do you have a young one around you who always look depressed and out of context? Or you have one who just act up always, bows head to the chest when walking or one who Just always say negative things at every slightest opportunitues?

Has it ever occurred to you that this teenager might be going through series of depression or has a very terrible low esteem problem and is only battling hard to act cool when people are around.

Some are overly too quiet and shy to the point they want to be left alone always.

To know a obvious case is when these traits displayed by these teenager doesn't occur in any other family member . Then there might be a problem that needs attention.

The cases of bullying in schools and rejection by peers do have a great influence on a teen disposition. They are cases of teenagers who have attempted suicide especially due to bullying and some actually committed suicide. Shock!! are you?

As a young teen about three to four years back at times horrible thoughts just come into my subconsciousness which I keep to myself and try to ignore and sometimes these thoughts keeps reoccurring and I would feel like taking a drastic action but I never did though maybe because I had elder siblings to always talk to apart from my mom and people around.

That's my own case,what of a teen that has no one around really to talk to,no one to notice him/her and then having fed up with depression,self deception,rejection and all sort of bullies ? Do you think it's likely for him or her to want to commit suicide?

Lalasticlala

http://naijaebiz..com.ng/2016/05/teen-talk-why-would-teenager-want-to.html?m=1

Bbsharon:
only battling hard to act cool when people are around.

Some are overly too quiet and shy to the point they want to be left alone always.

To know a obvious case is when these traits displayed by these teenager doesn't occur in any other family member . Then there might be a problem that needs attention.

The cases of bullying in schools and rejection by peers do have a great influence on a teen disposition. They are cases of teenagers who have attempted suicide especially due to bullying and some actually committed suicide. Shock!! are you?

As a young teen about three to four years back at times horrible thoughts just come into my subconsciousness which I keep to myself and try to ignore and sometimes these thoughts keeps reoccurring and I would feel like taking a drastic action but I never did though maybe because I had elder siblings to always talk to apart from my mom and people around.

That's my own case,what of a teen that has no one around really to talk to,no one to notice him/her and then having fed up with depression,self deception,rejection and all sort of bullies ? Do you think it's likely for him or her to want to commit suicide?

Lalasticlala

http://naijaebiz..com.ng/2016/05/teen-talk-why-would-teenager-want-to.html?m=1

Suicide, regardless of it coming from a teen or adult will always be an act of cowardice.
It should be very much protested,by all means.

YEAH its very true @op that is why as parents like i always tell my three kids, i always ask them their challenges in school and always give them the platform for them to be able to open up to me if they have anything bothering them, they now see me as not only their dad but also as their confider. what i am saying is that there are some challenges that the kids go through among their peer group that we their parent must be able to provide a platform and a family environment that will make them find peace and joy in opening up to we as the parent.

SAINTSAMURAI:
YEAH its very true @op that is why as parents like i always tell my three kids, i always ask them their challenges in school and always give them the platform for them to be able to open up to me if they have anything bothering them, they now see me as not only their dad but also as their confider. what i am saying is that there are some challenges that the kids go through among their peer group that we their parent must be able to provide a platform and a family environment that will make them find peace and joy in opening up to we as the parent.

That's a very good one there. Teenagers really need all love. As a matter of fact they love attention at the same love to be given space. Dealing with them take wisdom.

SAINTSAMURAI:
YEAH its very true @op that is why as parents like i always tell my three kids, i always ask them their challenges in school and always give them the platform for them to be able to open up to me if they have anything bothering them, they now see me as not only their dad but also as their confider. what i am saying is that there are some challenges that the kids go through among their peer group that we their parent must be able to provide a platform and a family environment that will make them find peace and joy in opening up to we as the parent.

You.......have 3.......kids?!

Bbsharon:


That's a very good one there. Teenagers really need all love. As a matter of fact they love attention at the same love to be given space. Dealing with them take wisdom.

EXACTLY DEAR, its so sad when i see parents ignoring the emotional needs of their children. forgeting that it is the emotion that triggers the thought of suicide.

Hhmmmm

JeffreyJamez:


You.......have 3.......kids?!

hehehehe bro by december my wife will be making it four. im a happy and a proud dad.

SAINTSAMURAI:
YEAH its very true @op that is why as parents like i always tell my three kids, i always ask them their challenges in school and always give them the platform for them to be able to open up to me if they have anything bothering them, they now see me as not only their dad but also as their confider. what i am saying is that there are some challenges that the kids go through among their peer group that we their parent must be able to provide a platform and a family environment that will make them find peace and joy in opening up to we as the parent.

u have kids?

Maxi112:
u have kids?

hehehe yeah bro, are u suprise?

SAINTSAMURAI:
YEAH its very true @op that is why as parents like i always tell my three kids, i always ask them their challenges in school and always give them the platform for them to be able to open up to me if they have anything bothering them, they now see me as not only their dad but also as their confider. what i am saying is that there are some challenges that the kids go through among their peer group that we their parent must be able to provide a platform and a family environment that will make them find peace and joy in opening up to we as the parent.

SAINTSAMURAI:
hehehehe bro by december my wife will be making it four. im a happy and a proud dad.

you have a LIFE Nawao!!

SAINTSAMURAI:
hehehehe bro by december my wife will be making it four. im a happy and a proud dad.

Oh wow!!....didn't see that coming!..... Congrats in advance bro.

at d end u wonder nd look back is dat why u wanted to die?

It never worth for u to b stressed

Reason people think sucide

It is said dat d capacity of human mind is very little compared to d problems at hand so its hard to solve them alone dats why dey say share ur problems so all who help u join deir little small mind capacity nd u see ideas bigger dan ur problems nd get solved

always share ur problems

JeffreyJamez:


Oh wow!!....didn't see that coming!..... Congrats in advance bro.

hehehe thanks bro.

SAINTSAMURAI:
hehehe yeah bro, are u suprise?

yes bruh!

halfricanadian:
at d end u wonder nd look back is dat why u wanted to die?

It never worth for u to b stressed

Reason people think sucide

Exactly

Maxi112:
yes bruh!

hehehe bro im just kidding, i dnt have kids.

JeffreyJamez:


Oh wow!!....didn't see that coming!..... Congrats in advance bro.

hehe bro im just kidding, i got no kids.

SAINTSAMURAI:
hehehe bro im just kidding, i dnt have kids.

don't worry, u will have one this year.

SAINTSAMURAI:
hehe bro im just kidding, i got no kids.

Are you old enough to even make a lady pregnant

Maxi112:


don't worry, u will have one this year.

LOL scratch head, i will have to say anti amen to that.

dollyjoy:
Are you old enough to even make a lady pregnant

LOl IF nor be condition i for don burn your age mate.

halfricanadian:
at d end u wonder nd look back is dat why u wanted to die?

It never worth for u to b stressed

Reason people think sucide

It is said dat d capacity of human mind is very little compared to d problems at hand so its hard to solve them alone dats why dey say share ur problems so all who help u join deir little small mind capacity nd u see ideas bigger dan ur problems nd get solved

always share ur problems

talking to yourself nd U knw it. As if u do share'em

Bbsharon:


Exactly

Yes o

Israel5:
talking to yourself nd U knw it. As if u do share'em

Cant u see cos i kno dat now dats why i posted it

SAINTSAMURAI:
LOL scratch head, i will have to say anti amen to that.

D

U shouldn't be against it, is a good feeling to be the youngest dad.

halfricanadian:


Cant u see cos i kno dat now dats why i posted it

jst turn a new leaf sha. Thts my own.

Maxi112:
D

U shouldn't be against it, is a good feeling to be the youngest dad.

LOL well if it happens then im going to take responsibily, love my child more than life itself and work hard more in order to give him or her and the girl that got pregnant for me a better life.

because life have taya it!

Israel5:
jst turn a new leaf sha. Thts my own.

Yup

Wat kind of leaf shd i turn okro? Vegetable? Ewedu? Ugu? Tel me telme

halfricanadian:


Yup

Wat kind of leaf shd i turn okro? Vegetable? Ewedu? Ugu? Tel me telme

hehe.., If i flip u eh? U nid cane

Israel5:
hehe.., If i flip u eh? U nid cane

Make sure d cane is koboko

Cos cane can break me

Koboko makes me stronger