Most guys are usually 'disgusted' when their wives start changing (shape or character wise) before their eyes. Especially if she start getting fatter immediately after their wedding and also when she start having kids. Guess while dating, she used to be a sweet sixteen with her lovely shape and curves. But presently looks the opposite of all that, due to having some kind of fulfillment and a peace of mind. A lot of guys find it difficult dealing with such a situation. Failing to realize that women age faster (including physically) than men. So, you shouldn't blame her. Try to motivate her to watch her weight. Cos, if na you too, you must surely add weight when you start spending lot of time in the kitchen cooking and tasting enough delicious meals all the time, getting pregnant and having kids. All these, no be child's play. So learn to deal with it. Rather than be grumbling or complaining, help her to become fitter and slimmer. Even all those young slim girls you dey eye for outside, will also get to that stage when they get married. So, guy take care of your woman/wife and help her get back to shape.

Can men ever stop looking outside?

talktonase:
Can men ever stop looking outside?

Sure they can.
Self discipline.

Laveda:


Sure they can.
Self discipline.

No be only discipline nah discipleship....Its not easy oh with all this young tomatoe jos springing up, It is only the grace of God that will Epp.Even them david and king solo could not survive it talk less of them oyakilome them.Nah God hand Men dey oh.

all women expected to end up in dur kitchen... if my wife slack ahw marry another one.... all this one iz story

finalboss1:
all women expected to end up in dur kitchen... if my wife slack ahw marry another one.... all this one iz story

You see ursef

Nd u will av daughters

Ow wud u feel if their husband marries anoda wife after dem

Nd u constantly watch dem in pains cos u cant do nything cos u did same to their mothers

halfricanadian:


You see ursef

Nd u will av daughters

Ow wud u feel if their husband marries anoda wife after dem

Nd u constantly watch dem in pains cos u cant do nything cos u did same to their mothers

swerry i was just joking

finalboss1:
swerry i was just joking

u better b dont want our daughters to b suffering in anoda mans hand just cos of wat u av done to oda ladies ok

halfricanadian:


u better b dont want our daughters to b suffering in anoda mans hand just cos of wat u av done to oda ladies ok

i understand baby

marvelck:
Most guys are usually 'disgusted' when their wives start changing (shape or character wise) before their eyes. Especially if she start getting fatter immediately after their wedding and also when she start having kids. Guess while dating, she used to be a sweet sixteen with her lovely shape and curves. But presently looks the opposite of all that, due to having some kind of fulfillment and a peace of mind. A lot of guys find it difficult dealing with such a situation. Failing to realize that women age faster (including physically) than men. So, you shouldn't blame her. Try to motivate her to watch her weight. Cos, if na you too, you must surely add weight when you start spending lot of time in the kitchen cooking and tasting enough delicious meals all the time, getting pregnant and having kids. All these, no be child's play. So learn to deal with it. Rather than be grumbling or complaining, help her to become fitter and slimmer. Even all those young slim girls you dey eye for outside, will also get to that stage when they get married. So, guy take care of your woman/wife and help her get back to shape.

nonsense... all what you wrote above cannot be solved by us men, if these women are not willing to change themselves. it must be a decision taken by these women and NOT enforced by their men. yes, men must let these (now) baby whales know what time it is but since these women are home alone, they are the only one that can fix themselves.

should this be a reason for men to accept these "new" women? HELL NO!