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I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 8:46am On May 24, 2016
Hello guys I need sincere response esp from matured minds,
I am in a fix right now, and it's about a girl I meet when I went to buy some drugs, I saw her and was dazzled by her Chocolate skin, I immediately ask for her number she gave me, The Girl is beautiful, sexy, and funny too, and I actually wanted just some romance and everyone moves on but as it seems now I am kinda 35% trapped, out of my own kind heart I don't want to hurt her, and I don't want to remain in a relationship out of pity I don't really love her but she loves me to bits,
Last two Sundays ago after our X and outing people were commenting that we kinda gels together and even suggested a photo shot,
she made one comment that hit my heart hard, She said if I don't marry her God will judge I have never promised to marry her and I wondered where is this statement coming from? , that made me very angry I refused her calls of up to 30 times till she texted I had to reply because it was getting serious,
Fast forward this sunday after the deed wink
She said that she loves me and don't want to miss me that alot of guys are wanting her but she choose me that I should not disappoint her
shocked another shocker
I had to confront her and ask her why she said so she said nothing
I want to cut out, but guys I am the type that hate breaking people's heart, because I know how it feels, I have loved and had my heart shattered to bits,
This girl always want me to talk to her relations everytime, meet her anty, see her brother, talk to her mother and so on, guys I am kind 35% stuck I want out help suggest the easiest breakup method my badt Nl guys cry
Some peeps been getting judgmental on me, must one marry everyone he or she dates?
PunkyV is just too negatively judgemental for my liking.
Should I marry her then start cheating, people will still talk how wicked I am, it's better I avoid that from happening.
I don't want to be like Tiwa and Tblizz. embarassed
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by missmary(f): 8:49am On May 24, 2016
There's no shortcut... cry
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by NiRfreak(m): 8:51am On May 24, 2016
God don catch you....you one chop and run ba.......U don't know gals are aware of scarcity of husband....God go truly judge you if you break her heart after deceiving her with your 'i love you'

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by vizkiz: 8:52am On May 24, 2016
just tell her you have received a call to become a pastor in church... Then you start going to mountain for the next one month.

Make God wan come punish you make the girl talk say "No problem I will be a pastor's wife" grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by jonaifame22(m): 8:53am On May 24, 2016
every guy has had dis kind of gal once,so it's no big deal,do what you have to do
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by mariosam(m): 8:54am On May 24, 2016
Lol......your in,no way out...........
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 8:56am On May 24, 2016
NiRfreak:
God don catch you....you one chop and run ba.......U don't know gals are aware of scarcity of husband....God go truly judge you if you break her heart after deceiving her with your 'i love you'
Guy oh I have never said I love u, it's a word if I say it I mean it, so spare me that God will judge me shii
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by Smellymouth: 8:56am On May 24, 2016
After you don't kpansh her punna, u wan run abi? undecided


You are going nowhere grin cheesy




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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 8:58am On May 24, 2016
vizkiz:
just tell her you have received a call to become a pastor in church... Then you start going to mountain for the next one month.

Make God wan come punish you make the girl talk say "No problem I will be a pastor's wife" grin

Guy ur plans no work, I get business to hand over how do I explain that too?
Gimme something better
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by firstking01(m): 8:58am On May 24, 2016
No advice for you....you asked her out, she accepted...you better stay and love her as you vowed to or else, if you break her heart and she swears for you, my brother e must affect you anywhere you go for the rest of your life, especially for the singular fact that you 've lured her into sex.
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 8:58am On May 24, 2016
missmary:
There's no shortcut... cry
So what do u say, longcut?
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by PunkyV(f): 8:59am On May 24, 2016
Honestly, you make me sick. I don't even know what to say to this type of cruelty. How could you continue to lead someone on when you knew from the start you werent looking for anything serious? Why didnt you lay out all your cards from the beginning so she knew exactly what she was getting herself into? Some girls dont mind casual relationships. But in your case, this is just terrible. Your type deserves to be lined up & shot at the back of the head. I dislike users & those who toy with other people's emotions for shìts & giggles. It's sick.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:03am On May 24, 2016
firstking01:
No advice for you....you asked her out, she accepted...you better stay and love her as you vowed to or else, if you break her heart and she swears for you, my brother e must affect you anywhere you go for the rest of your life, especially for the singular fact that you 've lured her into sex.
You see, judgemental people abound everywhere, I never took a vow, and I have never hurt her, I made sure I am good to her and help her financially so the area of curse can never function because despite I don't love her I made her feel loved. I never lured her to have sex mind, I toasted her and the sex thing happened without luring, coercion or force, when you love someone you give them your deepest part of love, so bounce out guy u are biased.
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by calliope(f): 9:06am On May 24, 2016
Op, tell her you're fvcking coward and you're too immature to deal with her kinda rperson .. *whispers* wear helmet incase shit happens grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:07am On May 24, 2016
PunkyV:
Honestly, you make me sick. I don't even know what to say to this type of cruelty. How could you continue to lead someone on when you knew from the start you werent looking for anything serious? Why didnt you lay out all your cards from the beginning so she knew exactly what she was getting herself into? Some girls dont mind casual relationships. But in your case, this is just terrible. Your type deserves to be lined up & shot at the back of the head. I dislike users & those who toy with other people's emotions for shìts & giggles. It's sick.
Like I know I expect judgementally sick people like u, when my heart was broken did I kill or harm anyone? Do u think I didn't made it clear that I don't want something serious with her, she see pix, calls, text on my phone which I deliberately left so she knows, and I do voice out that me getting married is next 5 yrs, I dislike hypocrites like you, who reason with the A**, I want a less hurting way to tell her, the relationship is not more than 4 months we are not that deep to start all this marriage crap,
Miss holier than Thou, cast a stone if u have not done same or worst. Gerrahere
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by Nobody: 9:08am On May 24, 2016
vizkiz:
just tell her you have received a call to become a pastor in church... Then you start going to mountain for the next one month.

Make God wan come punish you make the girl talk say "No problem I will be a pastor's wife" grin





*gringringringrin

*Falls from Afang tree.....

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by valdes00(m): 9:08am On May 24, 2016
vizkiz:
just tell her you have received a call to become a pastor in church... Then you start going to mountain for the next one month.

Make God wan come punish you make the girl talk say "No problem I will be a pastor's wife" grin

Lolzz... am beginning to like u... No homo

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:10am On May 24, 2016
Smellymouth:
After you don't kpansh her punna, u wan run abi? undecided


You are going nowhere grin cheesy




You smelly mouth, guy it was mutual, wtf is wrong with u guys self, this is a woman's world oh, u didn't even consi consider, my juice wink, my money, my time and energy, my house, oh gawd get a life and say something better
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by Nobody: 9:11am On May 24, 2016
NiRfreak:
God don catch you....you one chop and run ba.......U don't know gals are aware of scarcity of husband....God go truly judge you if you break her heart after deceiving her with your 'i love you'



gringrin

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:13am On May 24, 2016
jonaifame22:
every guy has had dis kind of gal once,so it's no big deal,do what you have to do
Thanks bro, you got the gist,
I have to take the hard way out,
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by Smellymouth: 9:15am On May 24, 2016
hopeforcharles:

You smelly mouth, guy it was mutual, wtf is wrong with u guys self, this is a woman's world oh, u didn't even consi consider, my juice wink, my money, my time and energy, my house, oh gawd get a life and say something better


grin cheesy grin grin nor mind me oo,

On a serious Note :::::::

Stand in front of mirror.
Ask that guy how he'd prefer to learn that someone has decided she's not interested.
Listen carefully to answer.
Do that.

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by firstking01(m): 9:15am On May 24, 2016
hopeforcharles:

You see, judgemental people abound everywhere, I never took a vow, and I have never hurt her, I made sure I am good to her and help her financially so the area of curse can never function because despite I don't love her I made her feel loved. I never lured her to have sex mind, I toasted her and the sex thing happened without luring, coercion or force, when you love someone you give them your deepest part of love, so bounce out guy u are biased.
See your lifeundecided...how would you feel if this was to be the case with your sisterundecided?...i'm sure you would 've been looking for the guy with one red matched on your handundecided....sorry to say but i detest guys like youundecided...now, look @the poor innocent girl, you might just 've have been her first and trueloveundecided...why did you go to ask her out when your intentions were not genuineundecided?...and you expect me to advice you abiundecided?...Ok na.
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by NiRfreak(m): 9:18am On May 24, 2016
hopeforcharles:

Guy oh I have never said I love u, it's a word if I say it I mean it, so spare me that God will judge me shii
smile...seems the word 'judge' is really getting at you.

The issue here is, the girl was probably desperate to meet Mr right and u popped into the scene, and she liked you, though you only want the cookies. So , as the bad nigga and heartbreaker you are....Please your heart....or Am i suppose to teach you how to watch your hand after licking the plate?
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by PunkyV(f): 9:20am On May 24, 2016
hopeforcharles:

Like I know I expect judgementally sick people like u, when my heart was broken did I kill or harm anyone? Do u think I didn't made it clear that I don't want something serious with her, she see pix, calls, text on my phone which I deliberately left so she knows, and I do voice out that me getting married is next 5 yrs, I dislike hypocrites like you, who reason with the A**, I want a less hurting way to tell her, the relationship is not more than 4 months we are not that deep to start all this marriage crap,
Miss holier than Thou, cast a stone if u have not done same or worst. Gerrahere

Woe, woe, woe. Cry me the fùcking Nile! The sick one here is YOU, brosephine. You must have encouraged her behaviour somehow, unless she's a psycho that still fell for you even after all the evidence you now claim she saw. In that case, I think you deserve each other since you're both psychos. You say you've been heartbroken before, a sane healthy person would know better than to inflict pain on another by playing charades. I dont believe one bit that you were honest with her all this time because you wanted to have your cake & eat it too. Now you' ve had your fill & you're on the discard, planning an exit from the prison of your own doing. I hope she bashes your skull in grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:23am On May 24, 2016
firstking01:
See your lifeundecided...how would you feel if this was to be the case with your sisterundecided?...i'm sure you would 've been looking for the guy with one red matched on your handundecided....sorry to say but i detest guys like youundecided...now, look @the poor innocent girl, you might just 've have been her first and trueloveundecided...why did you go to ask her out when your intentions were not genuineundecided?...and you expect me to advice you abiundecided?...Ok na.
You have a dark soul, people makes choices, bringing my sister into the pix is just to be judgemental and attract support from like minded folks,
Don't be too sure of what u said, might have been her love, so because she loves me and I don't I should marry her out of pity shey? So that tommorow u will hear a Nl killed his wife, or cheats serially on his wife, or a Nl absconded and left his family, I truly won't say I hate u, Never I have a good spirit I will only pray u marry someone u don't love then that feeling of been trapped will be yours forever.
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:26am On May 24, 2016
PunkyV:


Woe, woe, woe. Cry me the fùcking Nile! The sick one here is YOU, brosephine. You must have encouraged her behaviour somehow, unless she's a psycho that still fell for you even after all the evidence you now claim she saw. In that case, I think you deserve each other since you're both psychos. You say you've been heartbroken before, a sane healthy person would know better than to inflict pain on another by playing charades. I dont believe one bit that you were honest with her all this time because you wanted to have your cake & eat it too. Now you' ve had your fill & you're on the discard, planning an exit from the prison of your own doing. I hope she bashes your skull in grin
Wicked oyinbo geh, bad girls,
I must not marry every one I date tongue
I am to strong for someone to bash me,
When I breakup I will call u to witness the emancipation,
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by Rukkydelta(f): 9:29am On May 24, 2016
This is one of that reasons why I prefer to remain single cos 99.9% of men are like the op

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Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by Nobody: 9:31am On May 24, 2016
After you guys will be saying girls are evil. Now what do you call this? Anyway its happened already. Just tell her the truth. It'll hurt but its better than her wasting her time thinking about a future with you where there is none. Immediately you tell her this, stay far away from her even if she begs you, dont take her back. She'll cry, curse you, hate you and i hope she takes her revenge grin grin
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by PunkyV(f): 9:31am On May 24, 2016
hopeforcharles:

Wicked oyinbo geh, bad girls,
I must not marry every one I date tongue
I am to strong for someone to bash me,
When I breakup I will call u to witness the emancipation,

It's not about marrying anyone, but to make your intentions known early on so things dont get twisted. You did this girl wrong. Full stop. But dont worry, Karma is only a bìtch if you are wink
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:35am On May 24, 2016
Rukkydelta:
This is one of that reasons why I prefer to remain single cos 99.9% of men are like the op
See this one dey enter defence why she never marry, who cares, so because I come ask for help you dey talk trash, go on, ur life ur choice
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by firstking01(m): 9:39am On May 24, 2016
hopeforcharles:

You have a dark soul, people makes choices, bringing my sister into the pix is just to be judgemental and attract support from like minded folks,
Don't be too sure of what u said, might have been her love, so because she loves me and I don't I should marry her out of pity shey? So that tommorow u will hear a Nl killed his wife, or cheats serially on his wife, or a Nl absconded and left his family, I truly won't say I hate u, Never I have a good spirit I will only pray u marry someone u don't love then that feeling of been trapped will be yours forever.
You are so wrong for tagging me a dark soul...i hate prejudice and decietfulnessundecided, seems you are just getting to know me on here, check my threads, you 'll see the correlation with my mentions...i rep equity...i rep justice...i believe in treating people the way you want to be treated....i'm allergic to anything evil or corrruption, and thats why our dear country is in the state were it is right now cos of injustices everywhere...so, treat her the way you want your sister to be treated when she's with another manundecided
Re: I Want To Breakup With Her But I Don't Know How. by hopeforcharles(m): 9:39am On May 24, 2016
PunkyV:


It's not about marrying anyone, but to make your intentions known early on so things dont get twisted. You did this girl wrong. Full stop. But dont worry, Karma is only a bìtch if you are wink
You know u girls sometimes have this slow booting reasoning, why must a girl start talking about marriage the first time you guys meet, marriage like flavour says is like an entrapment that will interfere with ones life, so please spare me these ur words, suggest a better way to tell her it's over or gerrahere u white geh

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