My cousin saw the message the guy sent to her. She told the guy she's pregnant and the guy replied she can't be pregnant that he used protection.

My cousin called yesterday telling me what happened that Ella is seeing a guy older than him. I couldn't believe what I heard cos Ella is just 17 and she's too young for all this not to talk of a guy far older than her elder brother. They took her for pregnancy test and its negative.


What would you do if she's your sister?

Lalasticala biko help a sister

Derailers pls stay away

AngelAhnie:
My cousin saw the message the guy sent to her. She told the guy she's pregnant and the guy replied she can't be pregnant that he used protection.

My cousin called yesterday telling me what happened that Ella is seeing a guy older than him. I couldn't believe what I heard cos Ella is just 17 and she's too young for all this not to talk of a guy far older than her elder brother. They took her for pregnancy test and its negative.


What would you do if she's your sister?

Lalasticala biko help a sister

After shouting ND slaps and probably discipline or seizing her fone... I would sit her down while she is crying and explain to her implications of early introduction to sex.

I would explain to her and teach her how to control herself when she is Hot

I would also give her assignments to study books of relationships and what to expect from a guy and when she can be fully ready to date.

I would allow her totally open up to me and show me what is going on I their relationship.

Then take time to pray with her so that any negative thing transferred to her during intercourse can be destroyed

Finally I would get to meet the guy and either beat him up, or arrange for him to be beaten Orrrrrrrr Warn him severly.

Lots of folks underestimate the power of teenage love... You can't just whip a Teen and tell her to stop seeing a guy.... It won't work... Your just creating a romeo and juliet circumstance for them......
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Some times tis waywardness in younger siblings is not as a result of family upbringing... Mostimes they are just too eager to see the world, to grow up.....
Making you,as their elder or parent,Feel you havnt done a good job of proper training....

I tire o....

Estharfabian:
17 Ain't that young tho...
She's Old enough to Know what's good and what's not.




So...Plain old heartfelt talk should knock some sense into her.
PS----is she In college?

Not yet

tripplephi:


After shouting ND slaps and probably discipline or seizing her fone... I would sit her down while she is crying and explain to her implications of early introduction to sex.

I would explain to her and teach her how to control herself when she is Hot

I would also give her assignments to study books of relationships and what to expect from a guy and when she can be fully ready to date.

I would allow her totally open up to me and show me what is going on I their relationship.

Then take time to pray with her so that any negative thing transferred to her during intercourse can be destroyed

Finally I would get to meet the guy and either beat him up, or arrange for him to be beaten Orrrrrrrr Warn him severly.

@ bolded, got me laughing, just pray it doesn't happen to u, the only thing u could do is to get him arrested, that's the only legal way to handle it..



btw, beating, slapping seizing her phone won't help issues, for me, I will approach the guy, have a face to face conversation with him, after my conversation with him determine my next action

dis is a normal nature in girls

nnamdiokere45:
dis is a normal nature in girls

its not normal joor I cried when I was told..she's too young

AngelAhnie:
My cousin saw the message the guy sent to her. She told the guy she's pregnant and the guy replied she can't be pregnant that he used protection.

My cousin called yesterday telling me what happened that Ella is seeing a guy older than him. I couldn't believe what I heard cos Ella is just 17 and she's too young for all this not to talk of a guy far older than her elder brother. They took her for pregnancy test and its negative.


What would you do if she's your sister?

biko help a sister

the Human brain is amazing
a girl is always twice matured than her age
a girl at 17 is more matured than a guy of her age or 20

but to the topic
I think she needs to concentrate on her studies too young for that
may be from year 3 ok....

robosky02:


the Human brain is amazing
a girl is always twice matured than her age
a girl at 17 is more matured than a guy of her age or 20

but to the topic
I think she needs to concentrate on her studies too young for that
may be from year 3 ok....

That guy is wicked, there are lots of matured girls out there for him to date.

AngelAhnie:
its not normal joor I cried when I was told..she's too young

girls go for more matured guys. u could use urself as an example.are u dating sumone within ur age range?
if its abt her age, she don even mature. u c sum gals of 13 already avin sex

nnamdiokere45:
girls go for more matured guys. u could use urself as an example.are u dating sumone within ur age range?
if its abt her age, she don even mature. u c sum gals of 13 already avin sex

I don't date older guys, in some family its allowed but not mine. She chop beating yesterday sef

AngelAhnie:
That guy is wicked, there lot of matured girls out there for him to date.

that's it he is taking undue advantage

remember it must always be two consenting ADULT

robosky02:


that's it he is taking undue advantage

remember it must always be two consenting ADULT

She's not up to 18, can you date a girl that young


Robosky02 you didn't answer me

nnamdiokere45:
girls go for more matured guys. u could use urself as an example.are u dating sumone within ur age range?
if its abt her age, she don even mature. u c sum gals of 13 already avin sex

TAAA

wating this one dey write sef

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AngelAhnie:
She's not up to 18, can you date a girl that young

I just said its he is taking undue advantage

AngelAhnie:
I don't date older guys, in some family its allowed but not mine. She chop beating yesterday sef

lol...she deserve am sha

AngelAhnie:
I don't date older guys, in some family its allowed but not mine. She chop beating yesterday sef

who beat am, and why them beat am? u guys are just saying it as if getting a 17yrs old girl pregnant is evil, the guy might not even know how old ur cousin is.. u guys should handle the issue diplomatically




nobody knows tomorrow

senibo1:



who beat am, and why them beat am? u guys are just saying it as if getting a 17yrs old girl pregnant is evil, the guy might not even know how old ur cousin is.. u guys should handle the issue diplomatically




nobody knows tomorrow

I'm not in support of beating tho, I was telling my cousin beating her will make matters worst as she may want someone to console or talk to. She may go back to the old fool who is taking advantage of her innocency

AngelAhnie:
I'm not in support of beating tho, I was telling my cousin beating her will make matters worst as she may want someone to console or talk to. She may go back to the old fool who is taking advantage of her innocency

the best advice to give her right now, is show her much love right now



beating her won't solve anything, love concrete all things

Where is Mr Lalasticlala... the man of wisdom...
This one pass me...

AngelAhnie:
Derailers pls stay away

This is corruption ooo...

you are Op and still FTC...

Warris all this?

BiafraBushBoy:
This is corruption ooo...

you are Op and still FTC...

Warris all this?

Pls don't ley e derail this thread I need your advice

AngelAhnie:
Pls don't ley e derail this thread I need your advice

I have called Lalasticlala, he will soon answer us...

Older viewers can advice you...

Eleyi gidi gan....

get an ounce of weed for me and my niggaz


the rest will be history

Hian!!!!! Free the bae jare.......

SirWere:
Hian!!!!! Free the bae jare.......

Are you serious

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