,amebo no1:

Thats why i asked, has he tried being harsh? walking her out of his life, publicly telling her off, when she comes to declare the loff infront of his guest

is he emotionally strict with her, or is he just a beans guy? has he taked her down in public? has he asked her publicly to stop stalking him, has he left her standing outside both in public and when she comes knocking at his place?

You could get arrested for being cruel to animals, let alone women too

tboy1:

i.e she doesnt want to leave him because his dad is rich?

God bless u!

whitelexi:

You could get arrested for being cruel to animals, let alone women too

naaa, we all have a right to choice

He has the right to lock his door when she comes to his house

he has the right to tell her off, in public when she comes calling

Your friend, MR man is enjoying the attention

Well if all Lexi said is true, then the girl's not serious. She should stop acting like a bi**ch!!

She probably thinks that he will marry her because they're not having sex, some women have that illusions

For her, No sex= marriage.


Let him propose to her and after fcking the syht outta of her, dump her, her eye go don open well, well that she's living a lie.

posakosa:

She probably thinks that he will marry her because they're not having sex, some women have that illusions

For her, No sex= marriage.


Let him propose to her and after fcking the syht outta of her, dump her, her eye go don open well, well that she's living a lie.

Brethren u r so cold.

follypimpi:

Mathematically

From the dude's point of view

Spending £ + Being Romantic + Longing for a Relationship + 6 months = No Sex

From the Girls view

No sex + Freedom (No Relationship) + Stalking + Prophecing publicly undying Love = More £/Spending

What a Irony !!

Is this further maths or advanced algebra?

follypimpi:

Brethren u r so cold.

Really some women like it that way.

So how else will he get rid of her, ooh yea, he should ask for his goddamn ring back when he's done with her.

@whitelexi,
with all this things u state that ur friend does for this girl,
if u was her, no lie u for gree go?

she is just plain using ur friend to satisfy her material wants and wud definately be getting her watever shined by someone else.


but really sha, iwonder which kain babe go put me for that kind steeze.
she has to be using jazz men cos i dont see me spending and not reaping. lol

izeek:

@whitelexi,
with all this things u state that your friend does for this girl,
if u was her, no lie u for gree go?

she is just plain using your friend to satisfy her material wants and wud definately be getting her watever shined by someone else.


but really sha, iwonder which kain babe go put me for that kind steeze.
she has to be using jazz men cos i dont see me spending and not reaping. lol

Thats why am doubting the story  

Ujujoan:

Thats why am doubting the story

For this dude, it was nearly love at first site, na him use him hand go buy wahala keep for him house. He saw her and immediately liked her, prior to this i didnt even know he could talk to a woman at random. From what i know, the girl even gave him a tough time when he was toasting her. . . She kept delaying until he decided to show her that if she's doubting his ability to take care of her, then she would have to think again. . . so he started spending like a mad man.

The girl saw that the money was readily available so she too started chopping and demanding, i think she went too far without giving an answer sha and he woke up from his slumber and was now wondering when she would make up her mind. . . That was what led to the conversation about when she would say yes. that was how he realised she didnt even have plans to date him until about 4yrs from now when she would be sure the pressure would be there to settle down.

Not a fake story oh, i would gladly give names but its not right.

follypimpi:

Tell the DUDE to kick her sorry ass to the curb

no pls kick her ass to my curb,
i'll teach ur friend how to sow and reap @the same time.

@poster,
ur friend shld giv her tym,but incase he has done dat, then they both should hav a frank,serious round-table discussion(it's nt like she's a virgin so why d long thing)
2. u mentiond dat ur frnd has bn romantic/spendin
i hope he knows DAT LOVE/ROMANCE R DIFFERENT, its nt buyn spendn alone,,
ur frnd shld also let her knw dat he truly loves her(so she ll knw dat he's nt just a moneybag) maybe she dsnt really know,

i dont blame her - when girl is getting free gifts without droppin anything ,

whitelexi:

For this dude, it was nearly love at first site, na him use him hand go buy wahala keep for him house. He saw her and immediately liked her, prior to this i didnt even know he could talk to a woman at random. From what i know, the girl even gave him a tough time when he was toasting her. . . She kept delaying until he decided to show her that if she's doubting his ability to take care of her, then she would have to think again. . . so he started spending like a mad man.

The girl saw that the money was readily available so she too started chopping and demanding, i think she went too far without giving an answer sha and he woke up from his slumber and was now wondering when she would make up her mind. . . That was what led to the conversation about when she would say yes. that was how he realised she didnt even have plans to date him until about 4yrs from now when she would be sure the pressure would be there to settle down.

Not a fake story oh, i would gladly give names but its not right.

No need The girl mean oh!

@uju
u mean the guy dumb. cos i sure say the girl no mean!

Ujujoan:

No need The girl mean oh!

Very harsh!  She's been stringing him on, he's been the fool in love and acted it clearly. I spoke with him at lunch time and he was like that he always knew what he was doing when he was spending cash, he doesn't feel she used his head, he was even gonna do a lot more if only she had made up her mind. . .  He said he kept telling her he was different but she has to come real close to him to understand he had a very nice personality, she was always keeping a distance at first, and giving him the impression she wasnt interested at all, but when he starts breaking away, she would start chasing him again - she would tell him that her decision is very close and so he'd hang on in there only to get disappointed again. . .  

I just think its not right for a girl to behave that way.

izeek:

@uju
u mean the guy dumb. cos i sure say the girl no mean!

I think the girl lost out here, cos she would've gained even more if she didnt do what she did.

@ Izeek

The guy's not dumb, he's just in looooove . . .  

@ Lexi

you are right, its not right for a girl to behave that way, but thats's life . . . .  s**t happens!

Very sad.

lol! Oh well, good thinz alwayz come to an end.

Druss:

i dont blame her - when girl is getting free gifts without droppin anything ,

You call something free and you expect something in return? When I say Naija dudes attach 'free' gifts to sex, hence a reason not to collect anything from them, they will say I'm on a male bashing trail.

@poster

You, your friend, his girl, all are drama kings and queens. Chineke me, why should relationships come with so much wahala from your angle? Hmmm. . .

Just had to say that, if you like insult me.

calmly tell her if she isnt down for the relationship, she should move on
if she continues stalking,
tell her in clear terms to move on or get the cops coming after her
if she continues,
notify the cops and her friends

solution, he should ask her to marry him n he is serious (even do demo by taking her to meet popc), then she would open abi, firreeeee her tight,
then a month to d day (b4 the spending on the weddin day starts), leave her, thats letting her taste her own medicine,

ha ha @kpolli dts not nice
anyway i like dis girl o

candyshore:

ha ha @kpolli dts not nice
anyway i like dis girl o

thats the point, she wants to be smart, but he needs to show her where her smartness stops, his own starts,

stillwater:

You call something free and you expect something in return? When I say Naija dudes attach 'free' gifts to sex, hence a reason not to collect anything from them, they will say I'm on a male bashing trail.

@poster

You, your friend, his girl, all are drama kings and queens. Chineke me, why should relationships come with so much wahala from your angle? Hmmm. . .

Just had to say that, if you like insult me.

Well, i dunno why but i always mixed u up with bluespice. . . Today sha, from your posts i can now make a distinct difference