I'v learnt a lesson pertaining to marital life.

I'l never blame the man.

The woman pretended because of the strangers in the vehicle, Her own level of madness might be grade one.

In public So many women would pretend to be what they are not.

Try to live with the wife for a month and you'l surely come back to modify your post.

laikas:

i why cos u've xperienced it b4, 4rm some1 cloz to u.

lmao, experienced what exactly?

Dear OP, never judge the case of a married couple until you understand what really happened. As much as I condemn public disgrace of ones spouse, i ll like you to remember that there is no flame without a fire, some women can frustrate life out of you and still make d whole world see you as guilty...you don't know what the man has bn coping with at home, in marriage, sometimes you can say yes but act no, it takes a close companion to understand your intentions, all I can tell you is, don't judge them cos u have no idea what is happening. Open this post again once you celebrate your 1 year wedding anniversary and you ll understand better.

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (passenger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another passenger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

even if you are at home you aren't supposed to be barking and yelling especially in front of the kids, abusive men are cowards outside thats why they prey on thier wife at home, she was married not bought so men has no moral justification to hit thier wives, it has bad psychological effects on the wife talk more of the kids, illiteracy is also the cause of this outburst. the woman I'll marry will be a lucky woman because my idea of marriage is soo western.

A straw is a very light thing but accumulation of straws become a heavy load for the camel such that just one more of it breaks the camels back. The moi moi thing might just be that last straw for the man and the man is no angel either.... judge only when you have heard the whole story.

MoltenMagma:

No he doesn't.

Thought as much

Pdizzle:


Leave him, when he gets kidnapped, his people will cry fowl.

The only reason anyone should get married is love, damn the society.

then no one should get married

How on earth can some men disgrace their wives in public?

sexfabregas:
lmao, experienced what exactly?

some1 abusing his car, regrets buying it. na lie?

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (passenger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another passenger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

For this kind wicked economy, you still dey enta Akanelu ?

dat is man for you

Poster your write up is so on point infact I have fallen in love with you

Every Conflict has a 3D View. You've only seen the Side View. So it remains the Plan and the End View before you can judge. There is underground beef going on, but you failed us by putting your mouth@non of your business. JUST BECAUSE I GAVE YOU LIFT.

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (passenger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another passenger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

laikas:

some1 abusing his car, regrets buying it. na lie?

lol, youre very correct oh
how did you know?

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (passenger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another passenger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence. He went as far as saying making signs to us "you see the kind of wife I married"? He said it repeatedly and I had to calm him down.

After some time, he came up with same rubbish and that was when the woman said she didn't hear him say "if you want...".

The most painful part of it was the hating face he put up while insulting his wife in the public as if they were sworn enemies.

I respected the maturity in the woman as she never uttered a word while the man was fuming over a non-issue.

For me, There's no perfect wife and we have to learn how to manage our wives in the public. If you insult her in the public, you hurt her ergo and reduce her respect for you.

Take it or leave, rebuking your spouse in the public is a bad gesture. Even if you must react, it has to be friendly. When you get to your house, shout off your roof.

Our wives are our lovers, our mothers, our soul mates, our friends, our managers, our pride, our joy and our life partners.

Don't embarrass her in the Public. She's a human, not an angel.

Which part of Ihiala are you from bro?

MoltenMagma:

It seems like you join blindness to stoopidity. Do I look like a woman? Idiatu

Dump bass . Ewu.

Every Conflict has a 3D View. You've only seen the Side View. So it remains the Plan and the End View before you can judge. There is underground beef going on, but you failed us by putting your mouth@non of your business. JUST BECAUSE I GAVE YOU LIFT.

VISTIN:

This is how it just happened and I wonder why a man should be that mean to his own wife.

I was coming from East to Lagos (Ihiala to Lagos) this morning and decided to stay at my Junction to wait for a cheaper vehicle going to Lagos, instead of going to the park and pay more ( I didn't have much left).

Luckily, I got a private vehicle and the occupants were the man, his wife (and baby) and another woman (passenger) they picked along the road.

When we got to Orifite, we picked another passenger and we set out for the journey.

Along the road, the man (driver) gave the wife a wrap of Moi-Moi they bought earlier to open it (if she wanted to eat). But the woman didn't hear the "if you want to eat".

She thought the husband wanted to eat the stuff and she opened it and gave to the man.

Immediately, the man started shouting at the woman in our presence...

Funny enough, that is the kind of men most Nigerian women love and are loyal to. Be all gentle and nice and watch them treat you as shyte.

Women can be bastards most times, so i dont blame d man, i av seen women break up wit men because they are nice and caring, so na to they Bleep dem up steady

That's what happens when u don use all your money go marry wife on top say u wan impress your in-laws.

As business fall, you go take out frustration for the woman head.

Blame those giving those long list for marriage.

Just curious...people still dey marry for this Buhari hard times? As things expensive reach, e go be marry one, get one free.
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OgidiOlu3:
What women need most is respect, not just love, but even they don't know it.

Says who?dats d for the woman who doesn't knw wat she wants.All we women ever crave for is love,respect and appreciation.Nothing more.When we are given all dat,sitback and watch d home turn to paradise.

So painful. most men with low self esteem do that.

jamex93:
Some men sha

So so annoying

Op you Bleep up

Why you no even slap the man self

And forfeit his almost free ride?

nenade:
A straw is a very light thing but accumulation of straws become a heavy load for the camel such that just one more of it breaks the camels back. The moi moi thing might just be that last straw for the man and the man is no angel either.... judge only when you have heard the whole story.

But was the moimoi episode really an issue?

Take moimoi, eat if you want, wife opens moimoi and gives hubby to eat instead. What happens to no, I don't want to eat and I asked you to eat it instead .

Why make an issue of no issue?

Some people take life too hard !!

Plenty shoutout to the bobos and men out there that respect and treat women right.

OP, your life no be moi moi....please this your cost saving strategy no make sense. Lag no be here from east!

jamex93:
Some men sha


So so annoying


Op you Bleep up


Why you no even slap the man self

i thought so too. He should have chasticed the man after he got down. Sometimes we heed advices from strangers quicker than people we know.

egobetatoday:


i thought so too. He should have chasticed the man after he got down. Sometimes we heed advices from strangers quicker than people we know.

Yes na

lagosrd:

Dump bass . Ewu.

'dumb', not 'dump'. You can't even spell well but u know how to open your gutter mouth to abuse. Bro, go and steal brain if you can't afford to buy or borrow one. Or better still get off the fvcking internet and go get yourself a proper education

STENON:
I'v learnt a lesson pertaining to marital life.

I'l never blame the man.

The woman pretended because of the strangers in the vehicle, Her own level of madness might be grade one.

In public So many women would pretend to be what they are not.

Try to live with the wife for a month and you'l surely come back to modify your post.

Her pretending shows she has respect for her husband, so she honours him by not publicly embarrassing him, but the husband has no respect for her so he doesn't mind stripping her of her dignity before strangers. Besides if she is indeed a 'mad' person as u say, the man will be cautious on how he treats her outside so that she will not show him hell later.

No sis, the man is a terrible person who has no respect for his wife. I reject such a man for my sisters