Just in my bed this morning surfing the internet as usual.
I have been seeing many guys that have done surprise birthday party for their girl friends in which the lady would not know the plan on ground. i saw one online again that the lady fainted at the event base on the surprise package. I have been thinking of doing such for my girl that's when i meet good one though.

What if u plan a surprise party already (maybe you borrow the money or saved about 4 monthly salary to make her happy) for a lady that both of you have been singing marriage to each other.
Normally, people are there waiting for you to bring her along for the normal surprise and you ask her out on her birthday and she says know. later you found out that she actually went to meet another guy else where.
what would you do as an hustling guy??

painful but need to move on...I'll binge on that cake...

Why would you even borrow money from other people just for that? That's a chump move & you still wonder why you guys get treated like cash cows. If your girl doesn't understand or sympathize with the fact that you don't have the money to throw her a belle's ball, then maybe you shouldn't be with her.

To answer your question, if she chose to spend her birthday with another man & humiliated you by standing you up after you went through all that trouble, that's your answer right there. She doesn't consider you a real
boyfriend, but another chump. You drop her. Full stop.

hmmmm!!!

Na u b d real Aja 2..... Aja nsare, owo jona. Or kilojoule per Mol, owo jona per second.