It will be difficult but you can save your relationship after cheating. The pain of discovering that your partner has been unfaithful is immense and needs to be addressed. But you can recover and move on to have a stronger partnership than before.

You need to examine if both of you should be together in the first place. You may have spent years just drifting along but are you really happy? Why not make a list of all the things you love about your partner and then all the things that make you mad. The first should obviously be longer.

Do you enjoy being with your other half? Does he make you laugh? Do you share the same values, goals, views on child saving your relationship after getting caught