zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?

SAINTSAMURAII:
LADIES do u know that the sperm from a guy's big penis can be used to cure pimples, black spots and all facial problems? ladies have u tried applying semen on your faces? cc twaci, ivyy, mimzy and others

Cutehector:
Sixth question


Why do ladies naturally despise nice guys?

Or better still why do they friendzone them?

RexKexMilann:
Do ladies desire sex as much as men do? & even more?

much123456:
Oga u left ur topic and come to do gbeborun Here. Abeg we dey wait oo

Deejavuu:




Naah, getting your brows done is easier. Plus you can always use a concealer to even out your arch as against a messy eyeliner.

To get you brows right, try to get your natural hair shaped properly first.

RexKexMilann:
Do ladies desire sex as much as men do? & even more?

ivyy:


Friendship in it's ideal sense is a basic human necessity. Some find it in the opposite sex and others find it in the same sex. The problem however, is that so many who claim to find it in the opposite sex lie to themselves as most times they want something deeper.

As a girl, I think it's wrong for any lady who's in a serious relationship to go about flaunting another man has a bestie. The point is, her man should her bestie.

Cool!

Hope you tow that path too.

SAINTSAMURAII:
LADIES do u know that the sperm from a guy's big penis can be used to cure pimples, black spots and all facial problems? ladies have u tried applying semen on your faces? cc twaci, ivyy, mimzy and others

naijaboiy:

I respect your opinion. But are you trying to say you can't make mature relationship decisions without involving a 3rd party?

If I check very well most of the so called problems are just petty quarrels that will naturally fizzle out when you are both settled.

Why do you feel there is a need to let someone else know? Why do you feel you must have an emotional trash can?

Lastly, I don't think it's balanced to compare having a female bestie with a male bestie. First of all most guys in serious relationship don't do female besties, I guess you know what having a female friend means to most guys.

Secondly, female besties don't always do the "job" male besties do for you girls so more often than not they are hardly threats to girls.

I can make a mature decision without involving a 3rd party, but there's no harm in asking for help once in a while.

Not all problems are "petty quarrels", it depends on how serious the relationship is...some problems requires a lot of maturity, experience and patience to solve, and its good to ask for help from your bestie.

There are some things I can't handle alone in a relationship, of which i can't sort out with my boyfriend, I have to know if I'm making the right decision or not, and my bestie is the right person to turn to...

Emotional trash can?

Well, for me, a male bestie is better than a female bestie , it all depends...just like most guys can't do female besties, there are some ladies out there that don't do too, besides, guys can't handle it as well as a lady can.


I don't know what you mean by " the job", would you like to elaborate?

Laveda:


Yes, we do!
But some are just too shy to admit that.

And some,due to the fact that they've choose to abstain.

safarigirl:
I barely have natural hair on my brows

mimzy:


Yes I have heard this severally but there has really been little or no need for me to experiment it

naijaboiy:
Every girl at one point in time or the other becomes dramatic in a relationship. They know it's not fair to the guy but they still do it. Though some are major drama queens but others show it albeit minimally.

Now to my question...

What is the importance of being dramatic sometimes in a relationship?

Is it necessary?

What point are you, as a girl, trying to prove by being unnecessarily dramatic to your partner?

Who drama epp?



N:B By dramatic I mean being "bïtchy" once in a while.

cc: Every girl on this thread.

SAINTSAMURAII:
dnt you know it cost nothing and that its more effective than the ordinary artificial facial creams?

Smh

adeh39:

Smh

tk4rd:
Thanks Safarigirl.
Now, let me ask...
1. If a lady notices a guy looking in her direction, and she had caught his eyes looking at her for like 5 times (both smiling sheepishly each time), then in the end, the guy left the scene without even say Hello to the lady; what exactly would this lady conclude about the guy.? (shy? Insensitive? Unromantic? What?) ladyf.
2. Do ladies really prefer guys who walk up to them, tease them about their beauty, say some other funny things, and cap it up with the "I like you, and would love to be in touch" lines...

naijaboiy:

[b]Yea, it's always easy for them to tell you that they have drawn the line.

But when things happen they always can never explain. I'm not saying she's wrong but there are very few girls who are mature enough to keep a bestie and a boyfriend without causing complications.

You have a male bestie who just wants to "talk". To the girl it's normal.

He is lonely and just wants her to accompany him to the movies. To the girl it's normal.

She has a problem and she runs to him. To her she is just seeking advise.

Do you know that when girls share emotional troubles with a guy often, she gradually becomes attached to him. It may be subtle and she won't even notice it, most times all it takes is for her main guy to fück up as usual and she will run into her bestie's shoulders again and if he is the type who has ulterior motives, (which most times is always the case), he would take advantage of her vulnerability.

Other times it could be that she will end up dating that her friend when the relationship with her boyfriend is over.

It's not just advisable at all. If she needs any advise from anybody it should be someone whom she's not really close to and is neutrally attached to the both parties.[/b]

optional1:



We are not asking to b equal with d responsbilities of marriage we are only asking for equal right in d society, we should b given respect in d society, give us d same right u give to men cos without women i dont think there wil b men.

And you even had to say that? You just planned your own burial yourself!

You want equal rights...but you don't want equal responsibilities? What a joke!

Twaci:
No I am not.

Deejavuu:


Me too, get a specialist to handle them.

Omotayor123:
Oh Twaci this is good. Nice thread
It's a pity i came late

naijaboiy:

Cool!

Hope you tow that path too.

Twaci:
I can't say, but who knows? Just because our genitals do not visibly show it do not mean we should write it off like that....

But this I know, girls with great sexual history really do find it fascinating

RexKexMilann:
Alright. Thank you.


A guy asks you out, deep down you know he's just after the cookie but you yield to his pressure all the same. What stops you from resisting? What makes you think he's going to treat you better than the rest? Or is it just a trial and error thingy?.

RexKexMilann:
Alright. Thank you.



Why are most girls insecure?

naijaboiy:
Every girl at one point in time or the other becomes dramatic in a relationship. They know it's not fair to the guy but they still do it. Though some are major drama queens but others show it albeit minimally.

Now to my question...

What is the importance of being dramatic sometimes in a relationship?

Is it necessary?

What point are you, as a girl, trying to prove by being unnecessarily dramatic to your partner?

Who drama epp?



N:B By dramatic I mean being "bïtchy" once in a while.

cc: Every girl on this thread.

safarigirl:
what kind of husband are we talking about?

Women work with their emotions. They love being complimented, they want their man to think of them as sexy, spontaneous, breath-taking. They want heat, passion, they need to feel wanted, appreciated, loved.

Where a husband is cold and unwelcoming, rarely compliments his wife and is generally sour toward her, she looks outside to the man who compliments her, the man who notices her new hairstyle and tells her she looks good with it, the man who tells her she has a beautiful smile. The man who looks at her like he would give an arm and a leg to be with her....the man with passion in his eyes.

That's what makes a wife stray, that coldness and lack of fire in a relationship