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My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by ponana(m): 7:13am On Aug 25, 2009 |
I just got to find out from my girlfriend that the only thing we seem to do is talk,have sex and argue over issues.We left out the "fun" part and she blames me for that.Can anybody help me, cos i have ran out ideas here. |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Gabry(f): 7:30am On Aug 25, 2009 |
Awwww. . . . U poor thing. Well, what I can tell u is that its not your fault and its not her fault. It both of you guy's fault and one shouldnt take all the blame! Both of you should take the blame! Anyways, u both could start off with activities like 1) Wrestling with each other (U might get surprise to find out that wrestling with your partner actually is a turn on and it might lead to sexual activities ) 2) Face painting each other 3) Picnic together at a park or at a beach 4) Go out for movies 5) Listen to music and sing together. If she have teddy's, you could even make all the teddy's as your fans 6) Play board games or video games together 7) Massage each other hug and kiss each other all day long till u both doze off to sleep 9) Play hide and seek or Tag 10) Do housework or cook together 11) etc etc. . . Be creative |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by AIRMARSHA: 8:21am On Aug 25, 2009 |
wellcome to the club. |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Aug 25, 2009 |
dump her and go about wooing her again. . . . . . . . . . and do that on and on for the rest of your relationship. its all the common sign of being comfortable in dating and stopping doing all the stuff that you did when conquering her (now that she is yours) |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Godmother(f): 1:27pm On Aug 25, 2009 |
MRbrownJAY: Creative though. Gabry: Gabry, this is so cool. I am actually going to copy and save these tips on my system for use later on. Thumps-up |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Gabry(f): 1:33pm On Aug 25, 2009 |
Thanks naa. Do tell us how it goes |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Ben13: 1:51pm On Aug 25, 2009 |
lol 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by iz2much: 2:03pm On Aug 25, 2009 |
Gabry: I repect u alot and wish u can be my personal friend, thatz if you dont mind? |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by galatico(m): 2:05pm On Aug 25, 2009 |
Gabry: Those are nice tips to spice up a boring relationship!! |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Gabry(f): 1:33am On Aug 26, 2009 |
Ben20001: Ben, so u flew all the way here just to post that abi? Yeye boy. CHei! iz2much: Personal friend? Personal like how? galatico: Abi ooo. Thank you jare |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by 190: 2:01am On Aug 26, 2009 |
MRbrownJAY: and what abt if u dumb her only 2 reask her out again and she refuses what happens silly idea just like gaby;s puss.ie |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Atreus(f): 2:08am On Aug 26, 2009 |
Well,face painting seems childish,i almost always whup her ass at vid games but in the spirit of generosity i let her win sometimes. Hide and seek. . Hmmn. We can cook together,just as long as she slices the onions |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Gabry(f): 3:32am On Aug 26, 2009 |
190: EXCUSE ME? Atreus: When you are with someone you love, sillyness are always in place. Its all about having fun and sharing your sillyness. Dont tell me all you ever do on a date is try to be the sexiest guy and girl alive? Guy. . . U need to learn more than that in a relationship |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Atreus(f): 10:59am On Aug 26, 2009 |
when we're together we dont always try be to be the sexiest couple alive;we'd burn each other out. Face painting seems childish. There are other ways to have fun in a r/ship. |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Gabry(f): 11:12am On Aug 26, 2009 |
like what? U say this and that but no examples |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by chiejik(f): 11:37am On Aug 26, 2009 |
gabry said it all. gabby are you the same gabby that is from asia?the name is confusing |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by candyshore: 11:37am On Aug 26, 2009 |
gabry -- i like ur suggesttions |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Gabry(f): 12:13am On Aug 27, 2009 |
Thanks guys yes chiejik, am Gabby, Gabry, gabrywyl from Asia Atreus, u got no imagiation. Let me tell you sumthin about face painting! Face painting will lead to body painting, , , Ifshe ask why u say yiour art is bigger than her face shape and u need to do body painting. From body painting will lead oshowering together and from there. . . you guess what happen. . , |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by achinu(m): 1:48am On Aug 27, 2009 |
I think the best thing to do is to simply ask her what she likes to get into, fellow NL members are giving you some ideas but it ultimately depends on what the individual likes to do or would like to do. Personally I'm a believer in simplicity, that why I said ask and let her give you some hints & then build from there. Good luck!! |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Atreus(f): 5:04am On Aug 27, 2009 |
Different things are appealing to diff people,so what appeals to and works for us might not work for the op. For example,if i suggest taking a boat out for a weekend,what if the op/his girl hate water? Or if i say go explore somewhere,if you're in benin try the moat,what if she's not into adventure? Try strip cards,that should be easy;everybody knows how to play cards,and strip cards is pretty much the same,it just follows the same principles of strip poker. But some girls might be insulted if you suggest something like that. I might say,share novels,but some people dont like to read. My point is,it depends on the individuals involved,so op,ask her what she thinks will make your relationship more fun and LISTEN to her! |
Re: My Girl Says Am Boring,nairalanders Help Me? by Nobody: 7:48am On Aug 27, 2009 |
190: if you are that insecure in your relationshp then i dont think you will ever go far with a woman. be confident with yourself and IF she refuses to get back with you then it means that you were not meant for each other. would you rather be with someone even thou that person didnt want to be with you any longer? there is nothing rewarding being in a relationship that went flat and the more you stay in that position the worst you will feel for each other. |
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