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True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 5:37pm On Jun 03, 2016

O ye Boyfriends and Girlfriends hear me out this day. Quit claiming what doesnt even exist in the first place. I am tired of hearing unmarried boys and girls claiming to have been cheated by their bae or boo. For christ sake you owe each other nothing till you tie the knot. Even engagement ring doesnt give any boy or girl exclusivity to your body. Unmarried boys and girls, no matter their age should go out and play freely without burden of faithfullness. Thats the exclusive reserve of the married. Go out and play. Make many more friends today cause that your fiancee is not yet your husband or wife.

Only legally married men and women like us can be cheated by their spouse. I.e when husband sleeps with another woman or when a wife sleeps with another man. This is because they have consummated and completely met the contract terms of marriage till death do them part.

Share your own Opinion.

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Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by AlexCk: 5:42pm On Jun 03, 2016

I think it's all about being responsible,
If u are with someone, then be with the person, whether na boy/girlfriend or spouse ish. Respect dat commitment.

And If u wan dey slp arnd, then dont b in a commitment. dey hv a name for that too. fwb i think.

Its all abt choices.

My thoughts shaa

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Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by cruzita(f): 5:45pm On Jun 03, 2016

YOUR OPINION THOUGH

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by sinaj(f): 5:47pm On Jun 03, 2016

The herbalist above me tho grin

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Ejemehn(m): 5:50pm On Jun 03, 2016

@OP.......This is an ignorant opinion.

So because you think they owe nobody their body they should start sleeping around. It's people like you that will first call such ladies names like "waste pipe"

You're entitled to your informed opinion not your ignorant opinion.

And..........

You can only make perfect the things you practice.

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Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Smellymouth: 5:51pm On Jun 03, 2016

If you are unable to "practice" being married by being faithful to someone then you're not ready to be married.

One does not go from being a player all their life to being a committed married FAITHFUL person. They need to gain experience in intimate romantic relationships before they take the big step to marriage. Serious dating isn't a mockery of marriage its a stepping stone needed to begin a successful partnership.

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Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by histemple: 5:56pm On Jun 03, 2016

How exactly do we even define "cheating"? Is it only when there is s3x or when attention is divided?

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 5:59pm On Jun 03, 2016

AlexCk:
I think it's all about being responsible,
If u are with someone, then be with the person, whether na boy/girlfriend or spouse ish. Respect dat commitment.

And If u wan dey slp arnd, then dont b in a commitment. dey hv a name for that too. fwb i think.

Its all abt choices.

My thoughts shaa

Unmarried boys should stop claiming right on top girl wey dem never pay bride price for. Same goes to all the unmarried girls going around saying "men are all the same" and that cheating inborn in them. Truth is no man can cheat on an unmarried girl. cool

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 6:00pm On Jun 03, 2016

histemple:
How exactly do we even define "cheating"?
Is it only when there is s3x or when attention is divided?

It means the two for us married men wink

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by BrideOfDracula(f): 6:02pm On Jun 03, 2016

Well, that's your personal opinion, but bear in mind that there're others out there who rank loyalty above all else & live by a different moral code of conduct.

If you're the type that thinks you don't owe anybody any loyalty/faithfulness by virtue of not being married to them, then I think it'd be most kind to inform the other person of your intentions from the get go.

I'm one of those people that is very loyal in a relationship & I expect it back. Anything less in my mind, means the person has the morals of a sewer rat & I will not mind setting them free to go sleep with anything that has a pulse...on their time. But definitely not on my watch!

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by STFUand4kMeHARD(m): 6:03pm On Jun 03, 2016

Hmmmm

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 6:08pm On Jun 03, 2016

BrideOfDracula:
Well, that's your personal opinion, but bear in mind that there're others out there who rank loyalty above all else & live by a different moral code of conduct.

If you're the type that thinks you don't owe anybody any loyalty/faithfulness by virtue of not being married to them, then I think it'd be most kind to inform the other person of your intentions from the get go.

I'm one of those people that is very loyal in a relationship & I expect it back. Anything less in my mind, means the person has the morals of a sewer rat & I will not mind setting them free to go sleep with anything that has a pulse...on their time. But definitely not on my watch!

Truth is that you are under no obligation as far as you are unmarried. Its your choice to start "forming" faithful wife before marriage to some boy that hasnt paid your parents a dime cool

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by BrideOfDracula(f): 6:14pm On Jun 03, 2016

DickDastardly:
Truth is that you are under no obligation as far as you are unmarried. Its your choice to start "forming" faithful wife before marriage to some boy that hasnt paid your parents a dime

It's not "forming" or choosing to be that way. It just is what it is. Like I said, some of us live by a different set of standards & would prefer to deal with people who share the same values. Hence I mentioned that if see he is not on the same page, then I'll freely let him go. Less headache for me. No problem at all taking out the trash grin

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by UyiIredia(m): 6:17pm On Jun 03, 2016

You have a point. But I think one reason why have other affairs before marriage is looked down on is because it could be a pointer to what could happen during marriage.

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jun 03, 2016

Why will I even cheat on him if am getting all the love ., care , attention etc from him

Will I share myself into two?
Then at d end of d day u will want to satisfy both of them . It's just stressful ders nothing as good as being in a happy relationship and not doing ojukokoro.

If u don't farabale as a lady how wil u even finally get someone to settle down with?
Hateu2 comman c

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Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 6:27pm On Jun 03, 2016

naughtynaughty:
Why will I even cheat on him if am getting all the love ., care , attention etc from him

Will I share myself into two?
Then at d end of d day u will want to satisfy both of them . It's just stressful ders nothing as good as being in a happy relationship and not doing ojukokoro.

If u don't farabale as a lady how wil u even finally get someone to settle down with?
Hateu2 comman c

Cheating exists only in married peoples dictionary. Unmarried boys and girls like you should quit wearing that unnecessary illusionary garb of "faithfulness" that has no bases cool

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jun 03, 2016

DickDastardly:

Cheating exists only in married peoples dictionary. Unmarried boys and girls like you should quit wearing that unnecessary illusionary garb of "faithfulness" that has no bases

my dear there's something called self discipline

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Kaycee7(m): 6:37pm On Jun 03, 2016

All these trolls sef. And they are not even creative. OP go and learn how to troll

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 6:38pm On Jun 03, 2016

Kaycee7:
All these trolls sef. And they are not even creative. OP go and learn how to troll

U not serious mehn! cool

Na this type dey fight over girl wey im no marry. Ok, will u grow up quick? tongue

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by vchykp(m): 7:00pm On Jun 03, 2016

this is exactly what makes you loose good pple in the name of flirting and later you start going from church to herbalist looking for happy home... may we never replace our husband wit bf nd our bf with husband,

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Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by theEYe21(f): 7:06pm On Jun 03, 2016

There is something called respect

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jun 03, 2016

naughtynaughty:
Why will I even cheat on him if am getting all the love ., care , attention etc from him

Will I share myself into two?
Then at d end of d day u will want to satisfy both of them . It's just stressful ders nothing as good as being in a happy relationship and not doing ojukokoro.

If u don't farabale as a lady how wil u even finally get someone to settle down with?
Hate.u2 comman c

Oremi, I call it 'searching' not 'cheating'. We are both singles and dating still searching 4 , right one ni. Wats cheating in a relationship undecided

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by DickDastardly(m): 7:44pm On Jun 03, 2016

HateU2:
Oremi, I call it 'searching' not 'cheating'. We are both singles and dating still searching 4 , right one ni. Wats cheating in a relationship

I think u should be the most sensible girl on Nairaland. Apt wisdom wink

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jun 03, 2016

HateU2:
Oremi, I call it 'searching' not 'cheating'. We are both singles and dating still searching 4 , right one ni. Wats cheating in a relationship

hope d searching dosnt include gbenshin shaa grin

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Smellymouth: 7:49pm On Jun 03, 2016

naughtynaughty:
hope d searching dosnt include gbenshin shaa

If I hear say I nor Gbensh you and Hateu2 when I see una

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jun 03, 2016

naughtynaughty:
hope d searching dosnt include gbenshin shaa

Me don't knw ooo

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 03, 2016

Smellymouth:

If I hear say I nor Gbensh you and Hateu2 when I see una

Receive sense smelly

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Smellymouth: 7:58pm On Jun 03, 2016

HateU2:
Receive sense smelly

Get well soon Hateu10 undecided

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jun 03, 2016

Smellymouth:

If I hear say I nor Gbensh you and Hateu2 when I see una

igi cashew loma yalu enu e cheesy

Re: True Or False? There Is Nothing Like "Cheating" Before Or Outside Marriage. by Smellymouth: 9:18pm On Jun 03, 2016

naughtynaughty:
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Kilo ndamu e?

Kantan Kantan leyi?

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