oh God help me to keep myself till marriage.
i'm a young dedicated christian.i'v been in some not serious relationship.but i'm done with that.i don't do sex,it's against my new life in christ.
It happened like this:.
Was chating with a girl,we touched almost every matter that arose except buharis political failure and sexuality.
Before i cont.She's a benenois.(our conversation was both in french and english). young just like me has been in some relationships too.and judging by her looks and attitude i'm sure she's engaged in some act of immorality.
So I was like tryna tell her some issues of life,how she should be serious with christ not to miss church services.Be careful with guys.
And so on..then she droped a bomb shell.
Are you a virgin...it went ((((gbooooomm)))) on my ear drums.
And i replied''please Don't ever ask me such craz y questions''.
Make she no come spoil me.nairaland sef i dey run from am.

It could have been an innocent question. She may not mean it the way you are thinking.

What is wrong with that question OP? Sex is not a bad thing. Sex is beautiful and Gods gift to humanity. So why does it scare you so? She is not inviting you to her bed. She did not suggest you have Sex.

delishpot:
What is wrong with that question OP? Sex is not a bad thing. Sex is beautiful and Gods gift to humanity. So why does it scare you so? She is not inviting you to her bed. She did not suggest you have Sex.

well my bible tells me to flee every presence of evil.

Lol...
Answer the question na...

BiafraBushBoy:
Lol...

Answer the question na...

delishpot:
What is wrong with that question OP? Sex is not a bad thing. Sex is beautiful and Gods gift to humanity. So why does it scare you so? She is not inviting you to her bed. She did not suggest you have Sex.

BiafraBushBoy:
Lol...

Answer the question na...

lol.the anser is that:i'm human and it should scare me cos i'm christian.i wouldn't joke with my purity.chess

Cus of ur new lif in christ now, u shld'nt talk abt sexuality again? Make u dey deceive urslf. People lik u falls easily whn tempted. So far dat u talk abt it or lecture girls on it doesn't corrupt ur mind unless u ar bad urslf. U need d Grace of God. U can likewise says it s now a sin to sit near or touch a girl. Work on ur heart op.

tee59:
Cus of ur new lif in christ now, u shld'nt talk abt sexuality again? Make u dey deceive urslf. People lik u falls easily whn tempted. So far dat u talk abt it or lecture girls on it doesn't corrupt ur mind unless u ar bad urslf. U need d Grace of God. U can likewise says it s now a sin to sit near or touch a girl. Work on ur heart op.

After changing from your old self,there are somethings u av to avoid(like talking abt sexuality nd d rest)bcoz there is no way u won't sin wen t comes to dat and d bible make me to understand dat wen there r many words,sin z nt absent.

teeewhy2:
After changing from your old self,there are somethings u av to avoid(like talking abt sexuality nd d rest)bcoz there is no way u won't sin wen t comes to dat and d bible make me to understand dat wen there r many words,sin z nt absent.

thanks alot man,didn't just know how to reply her,thank God u did.even watching some movies is an offence to me.so i stay away from movies sometimes if not always.

pacretus:
thanks alot man,didn't just know how to reply her,thank God u did.even watching some movies is an offence to me.so i stay away from movies sometimes if not always.

may GOD help us all

pacretus:
thanks alot man,didn't just know how to reply her,thank God u did.even watching some movies is an offence to me.so i stay away from movies sometimes if not always.

D bible says we are in d world but not 4 d world. Wat im tryn 2 tell u is dat, dre are som temptatn in ds world dat u need d grace of God to overcome. Running alone without d power of God in u to fight it, s just a waste of tim. D devil wil always use ur weakness against u and he nos whn to strike. Pray for more power and more grace frm God. Do u want 2 b closn ur eyes while walkn on d street to avoid dose dat dresses seductively and provocatively? Or u wont av anything to do again with opposite sex? Evn d anointed men of God always pray to God for more grace to overcome temptation.

Nor vex, I just want to ask a funny question, have u wanked b4? I hope u know wat I mean...
But sex is not d worst sin #justsaying

Wat is dis one saying? Na yes, no or I don't know question na bring all dis talk

What a caveman! 0_o

tee59:
Cus of ur new lif in christ now, u shld'nt talk abt sexuality again? Make u dey deceive urslf. People lik u falls easily whn tempted. So far dat u talk abt it or lecture girls on it doesn't corrupt ur mind unless u ar bad urslf. U need d Grace of God. U can likewise says it s now a sin to sit near or touch a girl. Work on ur heart op.

Well said

evegran:
What a caveman! 0_o

Really? Cavemen fukc fukcables I was made to believe...

Oga virgin abeg answer me , have u ever masturbat*ed b4? #justwonder[color=#000099][/color]

IG264:
Oga virgin abeg answer me , have u ever masturbat*ed b4? #justwonder[color=#000099][/color]

yes i've done it.now itsn't about that cos when you know the truth u get somethings outa your life,i did it.,men!! I mean most guys did that rubbish when they were young.

U r not matuted


She asked a question wc u might decide to answer or not and asking if sumone is a virgin doesnt mk her corrupt



She just needed to know

evegran:

Well said

evegran:
What a caveman! 0_o

ahh!!! Aunty you called me a ''CAVEMAN.'' but i call you blessed.
I'd rather be in a cave than allow a woman push me into sexual sin.
Her question was uncalled for since we are not so familiar with each other.i don't and wouldn't joke with virginity.

mzhorlah:
U r not matuted
She asked a question wc u might decide to answer or not and asking if sumone is a virgin doesnt mk her corrupt
She just needed to know

aunty if you were an accountant and a guy on dreadlock walk to your desk in a bank and asked you ''do you know the security code to your bank safe'' what will be ur reply.now both the guy and his question might seem innocent ,but might still posse the greatest treat to your bank.i'd rather be immature than let my maturity lead me to funny thoughts and to sin.

pacretus:
aunty if you were an accountant and a guy on dreadlock walk to your desk in a bank and asked you ''do you know the security code to your bank safe'' what will be ur reply.now both the guy and his question might seem innocent ,but might still posse the greatest treat to your bank.i'd rather be immature than let my maturity lead me to funny thoughts and to sin.

thatsnot wat m saying, u should not bcuz of that call her corrupt ...thatz d point m making

And ur reply waa kinda to harsh for someone u trying to preach salvation too



U coulda just said i cnt answer that

mzhorlah:
U r not matuted


She asked a question wc u might decide to answer or not and asking if sumone is a virgin doesnt mk her corrupt



She just needed to know

yeah she "just needed to know". Talk about hypocrisy! If he had opened a thread about how he asked her of her sexual status, you girls will spend the whole night spitting fire at him saying it's not proper or that he deserves silence or it was rude of him. But here it's no big deal since it's coming from a girl, that's insinuation that he's bound to reply her. What do you girls really want



Watching...........

EscobarSnipes:
yeah she "just needed to know". Talk about hypocrisy! If he had opened a thread about how he asked her of her sexual status, you girls will spend the whole night spitting fire at him saying it's not proper or that he deserves silence or it was rude of him. But here it's no big deal since it's coming from a girl, that's insinuation that he's bound to reply her. What do you girls really want



Watching...........

i try as much as possible to be plain...i dont involve gender whenever i judge cases



And mind u,m ola,m not all ladies