my elder brother is a graduate waiting for youth service, but he is falling in love with a primary school dropout, pls should advice him,
i don't want to get him upset.
thanks in advance

"Upsetted"? What grade did YOU drop out of?

What's ur problem, is she too young for him from your perspective or her educational background is too poor....?

If it's her educational background that is ur problem.....then you are not serious!

Can't he send her to school...?

Ab025:
What's ur problem, is she too young for him from your perspective or her educational background is too poor....?

If it's her educational background that is ur problem.....then you are not serious!

Can't he send her to school...?

she is not too young

Face your front young woman. What's your business with who he intends to love, date or marry?

Sasuwa:
she is not too young

Then what's ur issue with ur Bro loving her...??

Let him follow his heart.

Sasuwa:
my elder brother is a graduate waiting for youth service, but he is falling in love with a primary school dropout, pls should advice him,
i don't want to get him upset.
thanks in advance

You need

1) Repentance

2) Hot slap.. lol

Ab025:


Then what's ur issue with ur Bro loving her...??

level of eduation

Flexherbal:
Let him follow his heart.

i want him to think of his kids, the kind of training an almost illiterate mother will give them

If by advice you mean nagging him then stay off. No wise person will get upset when offered a piece of advice that is borne out of goodwill, but will weigh it instead and try to make sense of it. What I'm saying in essence is, mind your tone and the words you use.

I understand your concern for him.. The pros and the cons involved in dating a semi-literate. To him he's in love and may not consider any of it. So you must step in, you have to make him understand what he getting into... Sometimes love isn't enough.

iPrevail:
If by advice you mean nagging him then stay off. No wise person will get upset when offered a piece of advice that is borne out of goodwill, but will weigh it instead and try to make sense of it. What I'm saying in essence is, mind your tone and the words you use.

I understand your concern for him.. The pros and the cons involved in dating a semi-literate. To him he's in love and may not consider any of it. So you must step in, you have to make him understand what he getting into... Sometimes love isn't enough.

thank you

Sasuwa:
thank you

You are welcome Sasuwa.

Hey, has anyone ever told you you have such a lovely smile?

Stop worrying yourself, baba won chop clean mouth.

Sasuwa:
my elder brother is a graduate waiting for youth service, but he is falling in love with a primary school dropout, pls should advice him,
i don't want to get him upset.
thanks in advance

Dearest Sasuwa,

If your brother is truly in love and not under jazz command, I'm afraid there's very little you can do to change his mind sweetie. What you should be concerned about is whether this girl is gentle, humble and of good behaviour. If she is then maybe you'll get to like her eventually given time.

BTW, is she as fine as you?

TruthHurts1:


Dearest Sasuwa,

If your brother is truly in love and not under jazz command, I'm afraid there's very little you can do to change his mind sweetie. What you should be concerned about is whether this girl is gentle, humble and of good behaviour. If she is then maybe you'll get to like her eventually given time.

BTW, is she as fine as you?

she is pretty

Sasuwa:


she is pretty

That means you already have something in common with each other. You can start building your friendship with your future sister-in-law from there

Sasuwa:

level of eduation

Western education is not everything and why can't ur Bro send her to further her studies?

Allow them both to be op. @least one of them is a graduate.

Sasuwa:

i want him to think of his kids, the kind of training an almost illiterate mother will give them

wat r u sayin nitori olorun? ahn ahn so an illiterate lady cnt raise a child naw? Dnt say dis aniwere n its ur brodas lyf nt urs. He cn stil train her if dats ur problem,no1 is too young to go to skul

Mind ur business

You just gato know education ain't intelligence. Its his life, decision making, choice making inclusive. Kill yourself!

BrideOfDracula:
"Upsetted"? What grade did YOU drop out of?

Did you attend at all-upsetted?

Babe,you are right.Advice ya bros-I made that same mistake and am facing real difficulties because I can't turn back the hands of the clock.
I hide her from serious academic and intellectual discussions with friend and family(my family is highly cerebral)
I keep on thinking who can train my children and had a problem with her when I told her I will take my kids to my mum to train.
Take into cognisance the social status of your bros.

buksaylor001:


Did you attend at all-upsetted?

No.

buksaylor001:
Babe,you are right.Advice ya bros-I made that same mistake and am facing real difficulties because I can't turn back the hands of the clock.
I hide her from serious academic and intellectual discussions with friend and family(my family is highly cerebral)
I keep on thinking who can train my children and had a problem with her when I told her I will take my kids to my mum to train.
Take into cognisance the social status of your bros.

pls explain more

Sasuwa:
my elder brother is a graduate waiting for youth service, but he is falling in love with a primary school dropout, pls should advice him,
i don't want to get him upset.
thanks in advance

Advice your bro, because it's a waste of time UNLESS the babe has prospects.

I.e is she now a tailor, hairdresser or has any form of handwork? If yes then is she a strategic thinker?? If No then he needs to change her mentality by planning with her and opening her eyes to possibilities around her.

If NO on the handwork ish and he's just in love with a girl with nothing to offer but sex then give him a hot slap.

Sasuwa:

level of eduation

See your mouth like level of education.
Graduate I sight you
Mecheww

my dad married my mum.... and sponsored her education,2day she is a graduate, and prior 2 her going 2d university she gave us d best training one could ever imagine... I believe people telling ur parents about hw their children rocks is a compliment my dear... does education equate 2 a happy marriage?? y dont u advise ur brother 2help train her 2 his taste!! u r a graduate abi?? wait till ur lover's sister advice him 2 dump u on d basis that u haven't gone 4 ur msc... then u know how it hurts!!! on a final note.. focus on her good attributes, and see how u create that lasting positive impact or impression on her. i understand ur fears though!!!! but try and banish it.

buksaylor001:
Babe,you are right.Advice ya bros-I made that same mistake and am facing real difficulties because I can't turn back the hands of the clock.
I hide her from serious academic and intellectual discussions with friend and family(my family is highly cerebral)
I keep on thinking who can train my children and had a problem with her when I told her I will take my kids to my mum to train.
Take into cognisance the social status of your bros.

u are a boy ...in a man's body..... why did u rush in2 marriage? poor girl!!! if only she knows d zombie she is married 2!!I bet u.. ur wife is intellectually sound than u.... Just a Lil polishing is what she needs. that u can afford 2 say such about ur wife in a public forum... summarized d type of person u are.. Bleep OFF.

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