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Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by OlaoChi: 10:17pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
ChikaSunday:what has graduate got to do with the issue of polygamy? |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by doveda: 10:21pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
The value is wife's lack abi? ![]() The rich man stood be ready to tell the world how perfect he is? ![]() I don't have a problem with her. She is the type that doesnt give two hoots about a man. Once he fulfils his fatherly role, she is good to go however that attitude would be detrimental to others. That is my problem. She is the type that would cheat without a second thought. Yes, quote me anywhere. ![]() OlaoChi: |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
![]() doveda: One will just know, u are a guy. And a struggling one for that matter.. Why do people like you, prefer to delude yurself ![]() Am dating rich guy!!!! ![]() He even placed a ring on it.......ntorrrrrr! Suffocate and high bp, mtcheeeewww |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
doveda: U see your life? I really shed tears for u... So u want to say all rich men are mean and wicked to their wives and are terrible cheats...? Because they are rich? While the comfortable and average men treat their wives like angels.. Really ![]() U honestly make me laugh with your myopic thinking. While all rich men wives cheats on their husbands... Because u are the one who created them abi? And know how their genes are wired abi? And they cheat on their husband because hes mean wicked and rich....smhhhhh.. Why do u hate success and wealth like this? Sometimes just try and read what uv typed.. If u r destined to be poor and to remain poor , then thats yur fucvking destiny.. Then dont rub it off on others.. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Sigo86(m): 11:01pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Joygalore: As @last 2years, 16 of dem were Graduates.... D remaining 2were undergraduates. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by honeyhoney(m): 11:01pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Amelian:correct brutality ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by tunjilana: 11:03pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
I think men of this generation really have a lot of work to do in preparing our daughters for genuine partnership with their men the 21st century way...So many appalling thought pattern. Everyone should get into a union with the basic understanding that if they are gonna make babies and raise a home, they have to both work hard towards ensuring the kids have the best. And yes it is a two people thing (finance inclusive). How does a woman say a man has no right to ask how and to what degree she's gonna contribute to the family they are about to start...even terming that gold-digging ![]() With all it takes to put a single child ahead these days!....You wan born am for better country, you wan send am go schools wey get class, you wan dey carry go vacation at will, you wan raise them for the best neighborhoods yet as a woman you feel all you have to do is lay down, make babies and watch all your dreams come true!... My honest advise to every young lady out there, including my relatives and daughter....Before you get married, envision the kinda life you want for your kids, ensure you are empowered enough to make 30 - 40 percent of such a dream come true or you are on a sure path to such an empowerment that can make it possible for you to provide up to 30-40 percent support towards the realization of such dream. Then find a man who is 60-70 percent prepared and want same things. That way, you both achieve your dreams and the man still sees you as a strong pillar of support without whose input he would have raised a mediocre family!!!...And not some liability he had to cope with all his life 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by doveda: 11:05pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Where did I clam that all rich men are mean and wicked? ![]() Like I said earlier, the fact that your father provided for you does not nullify the reality that you grew up without enough. You are simply the type that doesn't care. Nothing wrong with that except that it can be detrimental to some. However you and I both know that you would definitely cheat on your husband of and when you desire to. Darling, I am relatively comfortable. Please do not compare yourself to me AT ALL. Amelian: |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by doveda: 11:08pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
I am not a guy. You can ask around ![]() No one is stopping you from aiming high but I hate the way you regard men who aren't up to your expectations. Amelian: |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by doveda: 11:13pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
There is nothing wrong with gold digging ![]() tunjilana: |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by perfectgen(m): 11:16pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Amelian: If you are truly the way you described yourself, blessed and lucky is the man who marries you. Keep up the good work and stop being bothered if men ask what you are bringing to the table; your values are sufficient to encourage the man. Have a pleasant night. 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
tunjilana: Good advice sir, but the irony of it all is that most men these days want the woman to provide 80 -90 percent... While they provide 10 or 0%... No young lady is just sitting down doing nothing and waiting for one man to come and make her a baby machine.. Thats why there are lots of divorces cases and killings in marriage.. Parents should strive and teach their sons to be a leader and there are so many things that makes up a leader, while parents should also teach girls on how to be self dependent and self sufficient Any lady that depends on a man for survival? OYO I have good job , and am not expecting my husband to start spending frivolously on me.... He should provide the basic things, then i support in other areas... But asking me what am i bringing to the table is gold digging mehn... Possibly i will buy u a car,i will get a two bedroom flat for us and i will stock up the store room with foods abi ![]() Make he come carry nah. As a lady, i live in a comfortable flat, i drive a car , i eat good foods, i dont joke with homemade meals and i have a good buisness.. Just imagine if i were a guy? Will i.meet up a lady i love and ask her what is she bringing to the table? Whatelse will she bring ? Money for food? Or money to fuel my car? When babies comes , it will be a joint effort.. Thats all. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
doveda: God forbid, i can never ever compare myself to you... I like the way i am. . I haveno.apologises for that.... U only assume i will cheat on my man... Na only u waka come for that theory... My man knows me so well... So need arguing with u on that fallacy of yours... How u wish i would cheat.. Lol.. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
perfectgen: Am.just reminiscing in the past, am no longer borthered.. Uv now reminded me what my pastor mentor always says: Blessed is that man , who will marry me.. The man will be very lucky to have me as his wife..thank God, my man sees such traits in me. 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by tunjilana: 11:39pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
Amelian: Well I don't know the kind of man who will sit down and expect his wife to pick 80/90 percent of family bills, that is quite rare except he is going through a phase. What is common these days is a collection of women who have no serious empowerment and don't even plan to get one, targeting well-to-do men or average hardworking men who end up paying all the bills from rent to school fees to feeding to everything. You even have some empowered ones who deliberately hold back and intentionally put the average man under undue pressure except he makes demands. The downside of it all is that the little addition from the woman can shoot up the average things provided by the man thus the kids end up attending much better schools, they end up staying in a nicer neighborhood, they end up giving them the right exposure just because the woman decided not to be lazy and add somethings to what the man can do.... When most men talk about what a woman brings to the table, it is not about what she gives the man!..It is about how she fits into the future the man is trying to build...How she can help the man achieve his life long dream regarding the family!. except of course the man isn't in the marriage for the right reasons or just wants to collect her money and bail but I'm talking about a man who is totally in and futuristic. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by pussyeater(m): 12:32am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Oga Bello is a learner where KWAM 1. dey |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by obontami: 1:38am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Perfecttouch: What about wasiu ayinde marshal that has 32 children and pasuma that has 10 children 2baba na learner naw, na wa for you Ooooo |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by ikupakuti(m): 4:34am On Jun 06, 2016 |
mexxyaaron: She has the right to choose whoever she deems fit for her and you cant knock her for it! The same way you‘ll choose a beautiful girl of your choice over a plain one Ladies consider comfortability when choosing a spouse...men consider beauty Everyone should stick to their level A strugling man should look for a strugling lady...marry your type...and there wont be issues of incompatability Poor dudes always looking for ladies way above their capacity...claiming love...the love they‘ll never have for a poor girl like them 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by October1960: 6:00am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Most men of these days cannot afford so many children even with a very good job. Unless the "man" is a politician or government official that is stealing money. Amelian: |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Sike(m): 6:08am On Jun 06, 2016 |
The real oga is here |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 6:45am On Jun 06, 2016 |
ikupakuti: God bless you Sir! Don't mind all these fake men looking for Beyoncé yet they can't be Jay-Z enough. 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by decub: 7:06am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Amelian:Baby girl, things have changed, times are hard and you can't compare then and now. In as much as I wouldn't take a woman as my partner in responsibility, I wouldn't also entertain laziness in the part of the woman I wanna marry cos there are ladies who are bent on folding their arms to receive whatever the man puts on the table. I wouldn't mind emptying my b/account to make u an entrepreneur and the proposed mother of my tata should be industrious enough to take up that responsibility when I'm no more. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by sinceraconcept(m): 7:36am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Amelian:aunty,talk is cheap. It's easier said than done. You think many of those beautiful girls married to poor men never wished to marry rich men? Beautiful women are too much and there is a time your parents will pressurize you to get married and you wouldn't have anu choice than to pick that poor guy. Women are more than men,have you thought about that? What if rich good men don't come to you and you're running out of time? Will you use jazz to attract them? |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by opribo(m): 7:42am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Truly Oga as in Oga Bello |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by jahsharon: 7:44am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Amelian: Shame, shame, shame. You want an ATM for a husband and you are ready to shout equal rights for husband and wife. You life ambition is to be a baby making machine after your parents have spent lots of money training you through University; what a wasted investment. So, the only thing you are bringing to the table is your pussssy. Anyway, it's still good for you. Kindly migrate to Saudi Arabia, that is where women do not work; but mind you, you have no single right as a full house wife. Ask Janet Jackson what her ATM husband is making her go through. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Alani86: 8:05am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Amelian: You didn't make sense sorry! Were you their house help (maid)? Or how did you get your facts? He could have been a very irresponsible man from the beginning and later helped some or all of them. Do you know if the wives fought tirelessly for their own children's success? Secondly, what do you expect? I should marry a liability? A clueless woman? Don't you get motivated and inspired when you see people like late Dora and several other great women of virtue? Wake up from your delusion and add value/worth to yourself abeg! 1 Like |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by femolala001(m): 8:50am On Jun 06, 2016 |
MKO Abiola had more than 18children before he died o.. Confirm it urself. |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Codes151(m): 9:45am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Wickedness! Having much children I wickedness to humanity! Nigerian economy as well |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Nobody: 10:03am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Men who understands what am talking about and concur with me, God bless u guyz... Simple let the like minds interact, o tan..! Is it so hard for other men against what i desire be ranting like mad dogs, i dont have the rest of una time today. So u all expect me tostart another round of arguements today,abi? Think again.. I have clients and jobs waiting for me in.my office.. Sighs duty calls... I dont have time today... Keep ranting guys against me.. While i make my money. Byee. Lol.. I go leave work begin argue? Early monday morning? If na swear i dodge am pass... Amen |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by Evalily(f): 10:04am On Jun 06, 2016 |
My dear the greatest mistake any lady would ever make in her life is to marry someone you truly know is not right for you or you see the red signals like him putting out attitude that you know will result into problems after marriage but you still choose to go ahead with him probably out of desperation or pressure from family and friends because you are hitting your 30s, most time it doesn't work out happily ever after, as dem take rush in na so dem dey take rush out, thats why divorce cases is now a common news this days. Am certain Tiwa savage saw the signs that teebillz was going to be a leech on her while they were dating yet she made the mistake of going ahead with marriage because she was after 30, we all saw how the so called love story ended at the last chapter. Everybody is not destined to get married to a rich man, if every lady begins to go after rich men (how many rich men dey sef, the few ones available are most certainly already taken) who go marry the average and poor ones More over the ratio of ladies to guys is imbalance already we have more ladies ready for marriage than bachelors. You as a lady should know the qualities you want in the man you hope to get married to and if the next brother that comes your way posses those qualities, my sister settle with him. For me I value qualities like maturity, responsibility, ( a man who will make effort to cater for the needs of his family not the one that will be waiting for his wife to be the bread winner) ambitiousness ( he must aim high, make plans to move forward in life) and be decent. sinceraconcept: 2 Likes |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by danny56: 10:28am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Amelian: Stop deceiving your self babe! Go and ask your mum well...she'll tell u how she may have supported u guys without d consent of ur dad somehow. And who told u Oga Bello did all d work on those children u see?? Huh? U only saw photos and concluded. Go to FBook and see a lot of happy profile pics people with miserable life. How would u know if a guy is rich? If its just money and material things u believe in, then am sorry babe because u may tread d wrong path. A true wife seek to build her own home with d man she believes in, not bunch of gold digging ladies pursuing wealth they don't know d source. No offense!! |
Re: Adebayo Salami "Oga-Bello" And His 18 Children by danny56: 10:37am On Jun 06, 2016 |
Evalily: Now I believe some ladies also read and think right..... My crush spotted right here! 1 Like |
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