missyge:
Oh! pls, dont gimnmi dat bullshit. Dat u cannot sponsor a girls education dosnt mean u suld talk anyhow....
And who told u no lady has eva seen a man sponsoring her edu. as anythg worthwhile....
I pity the lady that will call u her husband....


Pls chnge ur thinking bfre it changes u, Ohan!!!

Can you put up your points and arguments without insults? I'm not saying you can't badmouth me but try and be reasonable. It'll help you in future endeavours.

Just pay her an unexpected visit

Anyways... the truths is that. she has some body around her, mostly at nights ok?. something more serious than just dating.

Kai u no no say ya iyariya dey wit sooombooody foo dia,your cow dey chop grass yafuyafu foo school.
Whatever she tells you are all flimsy excuses, you re suppose to know with out been told,runs girls always switch off their phones at night take note.

Maybe her phones all had a meeting and they all agree to go off every evening.

Bro, go look for her one evening unannounced.

Maga don pay shout hallelujah
Mugu don pay shout hallelujah
Hallelujah 7x
Too much money


Op she Don use ya head fry dodo
I Don land.
You be 35 almost as old as my immediate elder brother but sorry to say this
Is it until when u are 70 that's when u will attend ur 1st born graduation?
BTW. I'm married.

dante300:

I wasn't drunk when I clearly wrote every evening....when she is with me in her 4lines are consistently active like cr7 but when she returns to school her line is inconsistent like memphis depay.

But isn't the fact she has 4 good active phone lines suspicious? She may probably be into 'kerewawa runs'

dante300:

What do u advice....@35do I actually stop and solve my problem or I should walk away and start a whole new relationship that could be worse?

guy e be like cotton bud dey ur ear,if at 35 u ve not settled down and she at 32 she is not bothered then it's either she has got concrete plans that excludes you and u re so blind to see the signs she is giving u.u go still buy her dam wey go dey generate light for her rubbish. I love her ko,I love her in after 5 years.

dante300:

Whenever I ask why she will turn the issue upside down...she will start saying I am a complain box...it is out of respect that I haven't fixed a hidden camera in her crib or pay someone to study her movement. Don't just know what to do.

Guy, forget about respect. This is ur fiance we are talking about.
Someone who may be ur wife and future mother of ur kids.
Don't gamble with your future.
Do everything u can to find out the truth.

The vast majority of us who hav responded believe ur gf is up to something fishy so do something about it.

If after over 360+ responses u are still sitting there undecided, i don't know what to say to u.

I rest my case.

Life drama!

Hi, you dated this girl for FIVE years. She's given suitors for you I am sure of that. Why haven't you married her yet? Are you giving her excuses when she ask about the wedding date? She is 32 and you sound like you comfortable enough to pay for a wedding now. Please be careful. Do not let people who know nothing about your history together, nothing about the sacrifices you both have made, nothing about how much she has endured with you influence your decision.

I respect her foot dating you for five years. I won't.

Hi, you dated this girl for FIVE years. She's given suitors for you I am sure of that. Why haven't you married her yet? Are you giving her excuses when she ask about the wedding date? She is 32 and you sound like you comfortable enough to pay for a wedding now. Please be careful. Do not let people who know nothing about your history together, nothing about the sacrifices you both have made, nothing about how much she has endured with you influence your decision.

I respect her for dating you for five years. I won't.

A responsible girl will call her man even like about 8pm before doing her studies not even picking quarrels wen he asked y


To me i dey suspect sometin o


Bros do u visit her in her school?

oglalasioux:


Can you put up your points and arguments without insults? I'm not saying you can't badmouth me but try and be reasonable. It'll help you in future endeavours.

Its ur nature, i blive

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Are u held at kirikiri maximum prison? We like complaining sha, my brother face your fears, pay her surprise visit in the evening but find out about location before the phones go off. You must have checked into a hotel, wait until her phones go off. Them go look for her, don't tell me you don't know where she lives in school except you are not serious yourself and don't tell me you have tight work schedule cos that will be a suicide mission if she marries you as one can never be too busy to attend to important issues. It doesn't take me 2 months to identify a trustworthy girl, trust is earned and it's not blind, what blind us is our fear, wake up bros, do the needful and stop complaining.

pcguru1:
Could be the stress of PHD or she might just want personal time, during my time in school , I switched off my devices because I really wanted no calls and just alone time, maybe you need to take your attention, at 32 I sincerely doubt she's gonna start playing games.

Then why the quarrel esteed Of explanation?

ireneony:
I doubt if she is cheating on you considering her age. If she were to be in her early twenties or mid twenties, I would say she is cheating on you.

Well you can't trust anyone. .maybe you have not told her you want to marry her...because age is not on her side, she might be cheating on you.

Tell her your plans towards her..maybe her character will change.

abegi...she devils of nowadays don't care about age...my friend got engaged to a 31 years Old after intro and every every, she still opt out big the relationship, just because she can't say sorry for. ....

devigblegble:
If you got a girl problem , I feel bad for you son

av got 99 problems but this bit..ch ain't one!!!

PaulkillermanAg:
you ugly, that's why you haven't seen one..... not trying to be rude , just thought i should air my honest opinion about your predicament.... no insult meant...

I'm not ugly dear. I'm brainy n beautiful. Hv met numerous guys but they'v all been d same. I've got no predicaments cause I'm blessed, I don't need to prove that to anyone though. Thanks.

that girl is far far smarter than u,let me have her please.she doesnt want distractions like u in her evenings.dont u get?

OhMyG0d:
I know of a girl that did something similar to this, but she would inform her boy prior to it. So what happens to communication?? "If you got nothing to hide, why are you putting your hands at the back"?
That girl is either playing "Ludo" or "Pick Two, Pick Three, General market" game with OP's life and destiny. .

she could be playing ludo.......its better.

but playing her inner cards..... like pick two-some........general market......haba especially general market........that's the worst .......no more redemption after that.

Lalaity:
Hi, you dated this girl for FIVE years. She's given suitors for you I am sure of that. Why haven't you married her yet? Are you giving her excuses when she ask about the wedding date? She is 32 and you sound like you comfortable enough to pay for a wedding now. Please be careful. Do not let people who know nothing about your history together, nothing about the sacrifices you both have made, nothing about how much she has endured with you influence your decision.

I respect her for dating you for five years. I won't.

Them dey marry woman free for una village? All is about moni. Before man can embark on marriage now he MUST budget atleast N600k and how many ppl have that?

I passed through a replica case with a girl whom i intented to marry some years backs,she was a student of college of education,ekiadolor,edo state. By 7pm, her 3 phones will be switched off and she was given me flimsy excuses. It was later thru her best friend that i discovered that she had another phone and was going out with her coursemate which she had earlier introduced to me as her classrep who was assisting her in acada works. The most painful part was that many times i can recalled that i bought food and drinks for this assistant boyfriend for helping my bae. Though i was 31 years i stopped the relationship there and then,went thru the pain of heartbrake for month and today i am happily married to the best woman in the world. The bottom line is dump her sorry ass,God will give a woman worthy of ur love.

dante300:
Dating her for 5years now..contemplating marrying her..currently doing her phd..she's just 32yrs ,am 35 .I love her so much....no longer sure if all this will work out....she schools in a neighboring state and every God given evening her cell is swicthed off.

Wenever I ask why, we end up quarelling. I don't know how long all this will end. Almost thinking of joining that school of thought where I will just have children and forget marriage. I haven't made up my mind though. Just thinking.

Trust issue is choking me. I don't care if people think am insecure but I have bought her 3 different phones, powerbank etc just so I can get her on atleast one of her 4lines....all switched off....maybe I am crazy....I don't know I need advice....castigate me or abuse me nairalanders I don't care...coz trolls nogo do me anything....n my relationship matter to me now but I know better people go answer me wisely...sorry for the typing error...I dey vex.

P.s_ I am using a friends nairaland acc in my quaters...call me....nanle.

The babe dey stay and FLEX with her long distance and neighbouring state DUDE” You dey pay for her Cabban she stays ~ they are just helping you out, So that bills will not be 2 much

it has been her way for a very long time, o suggest that you talk to her, let her know that even if she has friends there is nothing wrong, we're not married yet but as you're using many lines, dedicate one for me.

MemphisDepay:
am here baby. Hope you won't cheat on me? My whatsapp number is 07068526727. Holla @ me. (Summon Courage)

Lol @ hope I won't cheat on you. Wz not expecting to see any number though, only made a wish to God.

Joice21:
I'm not ugly dear. I'm brainy n beautiful. Hv met numerous guys but they'v all been d same. I've got no predicaments cause I'm blessed, I don't need to prove that to anyone though. Thanks.

If all the guys are the same yet Tonto Dike, Mercy J etc got married to them

Don't you think ur the one that has problem dear (no insult meant)

"Brainy and beauty" is not the solution dear, something is lacking in YOU.

this man is worrying too much about whether somebody is eating that to to. Somebody will always cut small of that to to ,even after you marry her.so don't worry too much about to to, there will always be to to .

PaulkillermanAg:
you ugly, that's why you haven't seen one..... not trying to be rude , just thought i should air my honest opinion about your predicament.... no insult meant...

Just checked your moniker,I don't have any problem with your quote, your moniker said it all. Have a good day.

victorazy:


If all the guys are the same yet Tonto Dike, Mercy J etc got married to them

Don't you think ur the one that has problem dear (no insult meant)

"Brainy and beauty" is not the solution dear, something is lacking in YOU.

Lol..bros..it's not like there are no good guys out there,I'v met someone exceptional before but got d same end result @ d long run..

georgementday:
I passed through a replica case with a girl whom i intented to marry some years backs,she was a student of college of education,ekiadolor,edo state. By 7pm, her 3 phones will be switched off and she was given me flimsy excuses. It was later thru her best friend that i discovered that she had another phone and was going out with her coursemate which she had earlier introduced to me as her classrep who was assisting her in acada works. The most painful part was that many times i can recalled that i bought food and drinks for this assistant boyfriend for helping my bae. Though i was 31 years i stopped the relationship there and then,went thru the pain of heartbrake for month and today i am happily married to the best woman in the world. The bottom line is dump her sorry ass,God will give a woman worthy of ur love.

Same with me, but mine is now has learn her lesson and begging to come back because she is about to graduate and ready for marriage. The problem now is that I don find REAL woman but still love this old player of a girl who has repented. Am deep confused.