am a 21yrs old gal dating a 23yrs old guy who cares about me very much, though we have been dating for 4yrs now and i got into it without knowing what relationship is al about(no regrets)but the problem is i would like to settle down in 4yrs time.would he be ready?and we are both finalists in the university,

are u okay.Wat d hell will u be waiting for after ur final year. You don't dictate your future, Thta is left for God to decide, You should be thinking of marrying after ur finals.
You are a gurl and u arre talking about marriage in 5 years.I don't think u know what u want.

Ur a woman so dnt bother abt dat, just b polite to any suitor that is serious for u. Ur guy might change his mind abt u later and it wl b a heartbrake.

I think the first thing question would have been, hw commited is your guy to the relationship.
Left for me, its a guy that defines a relationship n nt u, a lady.
Does he have  any plans 4 u or are u into school runns?    .
I knw your a lady n tym is no longer on your side bt dont rush into something u will later regret 4 the rest of your life.
Ur both in your finals nw. Concentrate on your studies n when u come out, get a job first.
Then every other thing shall be added unto u.
Trust me, before then, u will knw if this guy is really serious or not.
That is if u shine your eyes well well.  

tanx,i think hes the guy 4 me, but age,time.,gosh am a mess

You're confused girl.

@poster, would be ready?, u'r askn d wrongest set of ppl.(NL), hav u talked to him about it?? wot makes u thnk he wnt be ready in 4yrs tym??
,afta u marry wot happens,u make babies n life gz on!!, my dear wake up,talk about it wit hm and work sumthn out.,in 4yrs tym u'll b 25,y d hurry??, just be patient with him especially if he has good intentions/plans 4 you, takia

@likky,tanx u rock!!!

@All guess 25yrs is not bad.tanx all.

@All guess 25yrs is not bad.tanx all.

you said you have been dating now for 4yrs and that you love each other very well,secondly both of you are rounding off from school.i dont see why you should'nt settle down if actually love each other.

hmmmmmmmmmm.

creamyy:

am a 21yrs old gal dating a 23yrs old guy who cares about me very much, though we have been dating for 4yrs now and i got into it without knowing what relationship is al about(no regrets)but the problem is i would like to settle down in 4yrs time.would he be ready?and we are both finalists in the university,

Alot of problems would be sorted out if bfs and gfs talk to each other. you are here on nairaland wondering if or not your bf will be ready to marry you in 4 years time when you can simply put an end to the wondering by simply asking him
Na wa o!

@poster. My dear do not be discouraged by what people say. Both of u can make plans for each other. He loves u and u love him. Dont let ur desperation for marriage make u marry who u dont love. Slow down destiny is not denied.

Marriage is not all about love,u have to consider the financial aspect of it,gdluck

girls an marriage sha. na waooo

its not like i dont love my boyfriend.just dat naija lifestyle is different(age stuff).a gal of 25 ends up wit a guy of 32,

naija lifestyle n ur own r 2 diif tins,
except u r ffg d crowd!