This story is fake, she wants to see ppl reaction, this is the reaction she's looking for she has succeeded in her agenda

Strahovski1:
You are a shameless fuckery of a prostitute! I don't need to read your lame story. A wh0re is a wh0re!

Sleeping with your ex while you are engage with someone else is simply WH0RE! And you know it. That makes you a WH0RE!

Thanks.

P.s I didn't even read the thread. Saw the title and decided to comment. Title is enough

What of if she has his phone number and other of his contacts off head

VictorRomanov:



Typical Nigerian response. Does all these solve the problem? No! You think she doesn't know what she's doing is wrong? That's why most advance countries think we are mentally unstable!



Back to the issue! Folu should take practical steps to stop this problem:
1.She should talk to a counselor. Some she trust and can talk to. But the fear is that they may react like the person I quoted, which wouldn't solve the problem!
2. She should avoid all forms of contact with Steve; delete his number, block his number, unfriendly, unfollow and disconnect any connection with Steve on social network/media. In fact she should see Steve as an enemy and not an ally.
3. She should avoid situations and surrounding that reminds her of Steve. It's not easy but it's more like the biblical cutting off of the right hand and tearing off of the right eye.
4. She need to pray for strength to control herself.
5. She should constantly remind herself why her would be husband is better off than some intimacy gadget boy.

It's not easy dealing with addictions, but with conscious efforts and self control and help from God we can succeed.

This is just one of the many examples that illustrations the dangers of premarital sex: having sex way way before one decides to get married.

theEYe21:
What of if she has his phone number and other of his contacts off head

She'll need to cut off the head then.

Seriously, that's where praying for self controls comes in! Taking conscious effort.

BrideOfDracula:
Fool! No self respect whatsover.

are you not bird of the same feather

I think you're possessed with the spirit of an EX and you need a serious deliverance session, pls kindly visit the Synagogue Church Of All Nations.



ur case no b for nairaland

STFUand4kMeHARD:
This is the woman kano people should have beheaded and not bridget

in your mind you've made sense

It's simple when she's made up her mind to grow up and move forward then she wouldn't need anybody to advice her or tell her what to do.

Look for JeSus!ur even going to get married soon nd ur still in. The web of lust,my sister you honestly need to seek for Jesus

Sorry your entire comment made no sense. Did you look at my profile before quoting me? I am Indian not Nigerian and I have expressed my views on the subject matter.

Deal with it

VictorRomanov:



Typical Nigerian response. Does all these solve the problem? No! You think she doesn't know what she's doing is wrong? That's why most advance countries think we are mentally unstable!



Back to the issue! Folu should take practical steps to stop this problem:
1.She should talk to a counselor. Some she trust and can talk to. But the fear is that they may react like the person I quoted, which wouldn't solve the problem!
2. She should avoid all forms of contact with Steve; delete his number, block his number, unfriendly, unfollow and disconnect any connection with Steve on social network/media. In fact she should see Steve as an enemy and not an ally.
3. She should avoid situations and surrounding that reminds her of Steve. It's not easy but it's more like the biblical cutting off of the right hand and tearing off of the right eye.
4. She need to pray for strength to control herself.
5. She should constantly remind herself why her would be husband is better off than some intimacy gadget boy.

It's not easy dealing with addictions, but with conscious efforts and self control and help from God we can succeed.

This is just one of the many examples that illustrations the dangers of premarital sex: having sex way way before one decides to get married.

Strahovski1:

Sorry your entire comment made no sense. Did you look at my profile before quoting me? I am Indian not Nigerian and I have expressed my views on the subject matter.

Deal with it

An Indian with a Nigerian mentality; that's a bad combination! I never expected it to make sense to you. When someones passes judgement without even hearing a case, what in the world would make sense to him.


By the way, I won't dignify with another mention. Bask in the euphoria of this one for it shall be the last.

That Steve guy wants to ruin your life. He knows you will be getting married soon yet bleeping you. Some guys gat no conscience. You need counselling and spiritual healing.

steppin:
Sadly, I understand a little of what that lady is going through.
After a prolonged relationship, most people find it difficult to completely get over their partner, no matter how hard they try.
The moment they see each other, those feelings come back and they end up jumping into bed together. If this lady is still in the same state or area with this man, it will hard for her to stop.
For people who tagged her a ho, don't be surprised your sister or someone you know, is going through the same ordeal.

Thanks a lot ...

Every other person here is just saying rubbish ...

They haven't had a long relationship ,they are the REAL 'WH0RE ,because they are incapable of keeping a relationship ....
6months is all they can go ...mtcheeeeew






The situation isn't strange but the OP can stop .


You have to learn to be satisfied

Think of:


the STD u might be at risk of, knowing that your EX is
douking 'some other girls ...(U get mind sha).

what would your husband to be' do when he finds out


How would you feel ,if you find out he is doing same


How would your parents feel if they hear about this




Op you need to Reason ,Think

You can stop if you want to

You have to

These things would catch up with you soon


so...BE WISE

The Dangers of pre-marital sex

@OP RE-READ OKAFOR'S LAW

Dre is no different betw u and a whoree or ashawoo...

This may sound crazy, but The best thing for Fola to do is to report herself to Joey with total remorsefulness. This is when his strength of character and maturity would be tested.
She needs his help to completely break up with Steve. she can't do it all alone. 6years of devoted-relationship would get anyone quite addicted.
What she needs is help.
Joey could help her put a closure on anything concerning Steve. If joey is smart, he could also steal some tricks from Joey's playbook in order to get her addicted to him.

in as much as we guys don't like hearing any thing concerning the ex's of our girlfriend's due to our egos, it really helps to know some vital information's. it works for me better than Jamb-expos.

One question:
If you're told that the next time you sleep with Steve u'd die right there under him, would u go on ahead and continue?
If your answer is "no", then it means you have simply refused to do the right thing simply because you are weak in mind, morals and character.

And if your answer is "yes", then it means you are ready to die for ur sensual addictions, not your ideals.

Break up with Joey, if you can't stop sleeping with Steve, else you will be less than a dog, not because you can't control your sexual urges, but because you are violating a man's love and trust in you, and trust me even a dog will never ever do that!

Naija responses, som1 tells u she has a problem, she knows wat she's doing is bad and dats y she's seeking ways on how she can desist from such act, instead of u to give ur opinions on how u think she can quit best, ur here raining abuses. Naija ppl, english na prob? lecturer ask A, u dey ansa B. If she had asked u to name this her act, calling her slut is cool, but she asked how she could possibly quit, u calling her slut or names, in exam condition, it's called OP(out of point). My dear, its I know its hard, but first if u can't tell ur finance, then severe all ties wit steve by;
1)Delete his Contact(steve), and all social networking
2)Try reading a novel or books once u tink abt steve.
3) Xplain to J how u want him to play with u sexually, tell J same tin steve is doen that makes u wanna always sex him, if na hmm dick size or PE, plz I advise u talk to him, afterall its not hard cure these 2 probs and b a h married woman.
I hope it helps, but ansa wit honesty, do u love J?