A "fool for love" is a phrase used to describe a seemingly willing party who is ready to go all the way to please the other party to the very best of his or her ability.

We all know that love is a figment of imagination and no matter how you profess love to another person,that same person can turn around and rub it on your face and this is why many people are extremely careful in the way they express their affection towards whoever they claim to love just to avoid being called a fool for love.

But the bigger problem lies in trying to be too careful as many people have lost potentially wonderful affairs just because they preempt the motive of the other person who might just be very sincere with them thereby losing that person to another who is ready to be a fool for that same man or woman regardless of the expectations.

I have come to realize that the best way you can have peace in any affair is to risk it all...in other words, become a fool for that man or woman you truly desire..

If you feel like helping your bae through school,business or just buying him or her an expensive gift as well as going an extra mile please go ahead without second guessing or thinking negatively that the person could leave you someday for another.


How many of us have felt like getting an expensive gift for our bae or going the extra mile but have stopped to think "Is he/she really worth it?,what if he/she leaves me eventually?,what if he/she is cheating on me?" and we just change our mind.

If we must have a great affair and a peaceful one at that,we must learn to follow our heart and act towards our bae as if such person will never leave but at the same time, expect them to leave even if you give same the whole world.

The truth is that you don't go into any investment with mediocrity and expect a favourable outcome.

Every love affair is like a profit or loss business investment with an element of risk but deserves our "best" input to succeed and whether it works out or not is a different ball game.

Just follow your heart.

Wrong!! Wrong!!! and all shades of wrong!!!...... Your definition of love itself is grossly flawed which thus invalidates your advice. For if a parent loved their children even they wouldn't allow them do all in utmost surrender.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
Wrong!! Wrong!!! and all shades of wrong!!!...... Your definition of love itself is grossly flawed which thus invalidates your advice. For if a parent loved their children even they wouldn't allow them do all in utmost surrender.

Kilagbe kileju?

There's no love without risk, and, worse, there's no love without loss.


In romance,in friendship, in parenting—in every kind of love that matters—it's just one risk after another.

We have to love and know that loss hovers nearby.There are some of us: lucky and scared, hating to be disappointed, sorry to be disappointing, but unwilling to do without. For all the ants at the picnic and the jellyfish in the ocean, for all the love we have that goes astray or is never returned or is shared until old age, only to have our hearts broken by a parting no less painful, we clamor for that chance and we wouldn't have it any other way.

If you love, there is no other way.

Negative mindsets shouldn't deter us from showing good affection to the people in our lives. Abi?

I've learnt the hard way. These days, it's all about reciprocality. If I show bae adequate affection, and she doesn't reciprocate well, I begin to have second thoughts. I slow down on whatever it is I am doing.

You can't tell me to keep doing good to bae, when I know that bae is taking the good for granted and giving the goods to someone else.

I can't risk it all for any bae that's not going to risk it all for me.

So, OP, being careful matters alot.

I can't just be doing mumu all the time, and in the end, get heartbroken. I need to be careful this time around.

Toks2008:

Kilagbe kileju?

I don't understand these.

I didn't read, too lengthy...

Meanwhile help me with my signature...

BiafraBushBoy:
I didn't read, too lengthy...

Meanwhile help me with my signature...

6 paragraphs...too lengthy?

GOD have mercy

obiorathesubtle:
how can you say the devil is an asshole.. But still tell us to suck his dick?


Mentally unstable being detected..

Like seriously?

Did i just read this? It is well.

Lalasticlala

Toks2008:

6 paragraphs...too lengthy?
GOD have mercy

Toks , I promise to read it 10 timez, just endorse my friend as miss Nland...

Ask and it shall be given unto you...

Who shat this OP into this earth?


**modified**


After reading the entire article, I think the OP made some really valid points.

Mr. Toks, been watching too many movies lately? This only happens in the soaps, where they paint a picture of love being blind. In the real world, love isn't only stark-nakéd but pellucid and should be played with the brains not heart.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
Wrong!! Wrong!!! and all shades of wrong!!!...... Your definition of love itself is grossly flawed which thus invalidates your advice. For if a parent loved their children even they wouldn't allow them do all in utmost surrender.

Tell him. Rubbish.

The last sentence made me fall off my mat . Like seriously? You mean we should be unreasonable when in love? Okay.... Kontinuuu

Tryn too hard to make front page..... Tryn too hard to make common sense.

Hmmmm...

refiner:
...hmmmmm...*in m.imzy's voice!


I'm not good in relationships....but I think we call that kinda person a mugu.....


meanwhile,toks2008 longest time!...were have u been and what about ur wife jadekitana...missing her....!

Ha lolz... I "hmmmm" a lot and I don't even know why

Jadekitana come out of your hiding ooooo..

Good morning Refiner, hope u slept well.

refiner:
...hmmmmm...*in mimzy's voice!


I'm not good in relationships....but I think we call that kinda person a mugu.....


meanwhile,toks2008 longest time!...were have u been and what about ur wife jadekitana...missing her....!

I'm good my lady..thanks.

Cutehector:
Tryn too hard to make front page..... Tryn too hard to make common sense.

Just calm down to understand the message and you will see great sense in it.

mimet:

Ha lolz... I "hmmmm" a lot and I don't even know why
Jadekitana come out of your hiding ooooo..
Good morning Refiner, hope u slept well.

lol abeg make una leave my jade alone o.

Lalasticlala and mynd44 what do you guys think?

LOL!

Toks2008:
Lalasticlala and mynd44 what do you guys think?

I think FP

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
I don't understand these.

Kilagbe Kileju... meaning wetin we carry, wetin you throw. In simple terms; its a surprise comment people use when you are coming too strong on them.

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Lmao

Booked!