Is it a must to have honeymoon outside Nigeria? I need the opinion of the married ones more.

My opinion is that if it can be afforded why not but if you have to struggle to pay for it then you could as well just cut your coat according to the size of your cloth and not your size. I don't know if am wrong but i don't think an expensive and grand honeymoon paves the way for a good marriage.

Please your comments.

You have said it all. I would love to av mine outside Nigeria because i have been to all the nice places here but if one cant really afford smthg, then dont do it. It is not a must and it has nothing to do with making ur marriage good or bad.

It's cool to travel outside Naija for honeymoon but the pocket has to be considered SERIOUSLY cos after the honeymoon, it's just husband and wife to start their journey properly.A big YES though if someone else is paying for it sha cos you can't ask for the dough.

It isn't a must but, u might have a hard time explaining it to your spouse

It is not a must.
I heard Obudu ranch is a great place.

it's not a must. some wouldnt like the idea while others cant afford it. moreover there are plenty of nice places in naija to honeymoonize

it is not a must, just do things according to what you can avoid. we have so many fine places inside nigeria where you can really enjoy your honeymoon, it depend on where you are residing in nigeria, marriage is life time biz not short time o, all the glamour of wedding ceremony is just the starting of the whole show, so plan with money you have for better future, [table]best wishes [/table]

Thanks a lot for the responses so far, however one thing common is that most of the respondents are guys and av given the same opinion that most guys would give. In short I would really love to know what the ladies think (especially the married ones).

Its not compulsory but its okay, cos am on honeymoon with my husband now, guess where Accra Ghana its cool and great not too expensive and you catch a lot of fun, just you and your spouse no disturbance, yeah its good to be away sometimes.

you guys watch out for a programme on this issue Mr. & Mrs. its gonna be a bomb you learn a lot

Not a must poster,save your money jor, but if pepper rest for ur pockect, na must oo.

nah

If you have the money you can have your honeymoon outside Nigeria but if you don't have it, there are many nice places in Nigeria that you can go to.

ayomidej:

If you have the money you can have your honeymoon outside Nigeria but if you don't have it, there are many nice places in Nigeria that you can go to.

well said

Honeymoon itself is not even a must. Do it whenever time permits and it's convenient. We did not have a honeymoon when I got married due to time constraints, etc. We understood what our goals are However, I must say we have been to so many countries as a couple and with the kids (Mostly in the Caribbean) and had pleasurable moments that I do not think a honeymoon would have even come close. In my opinion, this honeymoon thing right after getting married is completely blown out of proportion!

Bottom line, do the honeymoon thing whenever it's convenient for you both logistically and financially.

honeymoon is compulsory o, all these our stingy men who don't want to spend.

ladies if u don't do it after ur wedding u will never do it again especially after kids, u don't av to go to some expensive place or outside the country but u need some alone time away from your normal environment after the wedding stress, so guys if u don't have honeymoon money then maybe u arent financially ready to get married but don't deprive us of the fun

Nothing in life is compulsory. Its all about choice!

But wait, what is HoneyMOON? Lol