Met dis guy approximately 18mnths now nd in doz months av known d greatest heartache of my life.I moved in2 d compound he stayed offcampus nd dat was how we met,we gradually became close there was dis chemistry nd i started liking him.as at den he jst ended a relaionship due 2 change of environment.he slept in my room one night it was cold nd we ended up having Bleep.we started an affair dat he always avoided disscussing,cos he neva took it serious. barely 2 mnths in2 d affair he slept wit a frnd i was squating nd still denies it till date.i cooked 4 him,gave him money nd did stuffs av neva done 4 anyone 4 him.i gave him my BEST.next he goes off with my frnd nd neighbour they were 2geda till d end of last year wen they brokeup.he comes bk nd i accept him nd now he's left me 4 anoda supposed frnd of mine.nd i know he'll soon be back, he knows i'llm always be there so he keeps going nd comming.All dis has left me emotionaly shattered,i know i have 2 get ova it b4 i start dating again but i dnt know HOW.

So much drama. How do u have time for all this?!

thats why i tell evrybody dt cares 2 listen dat luv is pure insanity.

I wouldn't be able to love someone like that, knowing he doesnt feel the same way about me.

And I will feel stupid for letting him walk all over me over and over again.

You need to make up your mind that u want him out of your life. You should learn to enjoy being single! Afterall, your not gaining anything from being in a relationship with him. If anything your losing [in terms of finance, time, effort, love/emotions]. He is clearly a waste of space; u should delete his number and avoid him at all costs!

Or get urself a new man. Someone who will help take your mind of this dude [cos boredome/loneliness is one of the reasons why people end up going back to their exes!]

Sori 4 all dat.I 2 hav had it rough wit girls.My story is dat i nid a girl i'll call my own.All d girls i've meant hav dumped me caus my rule is no sex.My dear u hav 2 move on wit ur life.For more talk u can reach me on 07060658136 omon.

Vicboya, u might wanna try lookin for a wifey in churches, preferable Deeper Life. There should be one or two virgins there. Good luck.

deductions
=> .he slept in my room one night it was cold nd we ended up having Bleep. oolala, what a cooollld nit THAT IS SEX B4 DEFINING THE RELATIONSHIP


=>we started an affair dat he always avoided disscussing HUUM OBVIOUSLY NO TRUE LUV.

=> he slept wit a frnd i was squating BOLD ESCAPADES. and u couldn't dump the guy u must be lovingly lenient

=> i cooked 4 him,gave him money nd did stuffs av neva done 4 anyone 4 him.i gave him my BEST.next he goes off with my frnd nd neighbour they were 2geda till d end of last year wen they brokeup.he comes bk nd i accept him nd now he's left me 4 anoda supposed frnd of mine.nd i know he'll soon be back, he knows i'llm always be there so he keeps going nd comming. eeeyaaa what an experience of wasted love
CONKLUSHION
4GET about the fake dude he dosent deserve u.

neva let any guy sleep wit u who is not ur husband or not committed nomata how COLD the nit is

plz be open minded. some times people with ur kind of experience are compensated with nice guys they really don't deserve when they are OPEN MINDED.

never rush into any relationship so u dont get it wrong a second time . peace

Hahahahahahahahahahaha "no matter how cold the night is", PREAACHHH!

'am sorry u allowed d guy to went throught cos he has read u emotionally and knew ur weakness. so he dat wear shoes know where its pinches, Beware he might come back again and pls u come out of this truma chi.

Poster, pleaseee. . . .


First step is the hardest but PLEASEE do this:

Move out and rent another place and start fresh
Change your number
Dont meet him or see him or talk to him!
Engage in more halthier activities

ha, love don't cost a thing

kellorah:

Hahahahahahahahahahaha "no matter how cold the night is", PREAACHHH!

cold nights could be dangerous u know see what this cold night has caused eh?

Kellorah dat was rude,i tel u say i dey find deeper life.Let me tel u,dat a girl is a virgin doesn't mean she's a virteous woman.Abi u get crush 4 me.I've got taste,i admire girls who are busty & nt lepacious.Am proud of myself caus i knw i can neva cheat on a girl.All kudos 2 my parents caus they trained me in d way i shud grow,i tink dats why i cant depart 4rm it.They made me who i am

Hahahaha, check u out, bigging urself up, hehehe, Good for u man.

And Duhhhh, I wasn't really expecting u to go to to Deeper Life church in order to find a wifey. Don't u knw what they say bout Deeper Life members acting "holier than thou"?? I guess ur not in 9ja. . .or a Nigerian. And my post was in no way rude. But if u see it as rude, then that's ur prob.

U don't want a sexual relationship, so ur better off going with a "church girl" anyway. Good luck, still.

Kellorah!U dnt hav 2 be a church girl b4 u abstain 4rm pre-marital sex.4 those who are xtians yes,dnt tel me u're nt 1.Abi u wan leav heaven go hell.U can be wateva u want 2 be if work it out dats wat i believ,practise dat maks perfect.4 dose who are nt xtians i tink HIV/AIDS shud caution dem.Wat do u tink?

U don't have to catch the virus or other STDs just because ur having pre-marital sex. Besides, not everyone wants to get married! And even if some people do want to get married, they may not be in a rush. They wouldn't mind getting married in their 30s. Different strokes for diff folks. And I'm not here to discuss me.

I was only giving u an idea of where else to find such woman u desire. And duuhh, a Deeper Life chick can be "busty and not lepacious". (Now who was being rude?!)

U shouldn't have taken me seriously u know. :-

Haba kellorah,2 4ward,but u knw wat u interest me i lik ur open & friendly atitude.4 ur am in naija bcity.So tel me are getin maried in d 30s or do nt intend 2 get maried at all caus u shud fall in 1 of those folks.Anyway nice talkin 2 u.I've always believ in people & frndshp nt underminin d fact dat they've always betray my trus.Here's my no if u care 07060658136

nne piece of advice, pick better friends or pick better men.

Assu see watin you day cours ba.

Oh, I'm vry sorry to hear that,
Maybe that's what you want 'cuz the things you just brought about on their own conveys that the guy has no love for anyone.
He is simply desparate, maybe for sex or something else we dont know, however, if that's were you chose to posts your love, well, continue.
Who knows,maybe one day he'll love you, and maybe not.
If you really want love, hapiness, peace and joy, go look for someone else and quit in such rubbish immediately.

why do pple lie against love?
from ur post, u were just a cheap lay,
i dont see wat love has got 2 do with ur r/s,
if there was any, d dude just took advantage!

biola44:

why do pple lie against love?
from your post, u were just a cheap lay,
i dont see wat love has got 2 do with your r/s,
if there was any, d dude just took advantage!

Ouch!!

well sha, wonders shall never end. my dear "juliet" i suggest you do smthing fast abt ur self b4 its too late. sorry ooooooo

he dint take advantage mate, he simply was offered and he accepted.
and me thinks she was the only one feeling cold that night, she must have made the moves.

u r 2 gbaski!

Abeg ladies no dey love with all your heart. Na the mistake wey una dey always like to make. Don't be committed to avoid heartbreaks.
It's hard to see committed guys.
We love adventure.

He f**ks your friend not once or twice and you still accept him back?

Why do some of you ladies do this to yourselves?

me wonder

TheSeeker:


Love killed Romeo

Love killed Jack (Titanic)

God loved the world and he gave up His son for sacrifice

Jarule said, "Pain is love,"

According to the quote, no worries You are not there yet. Your love with become joy and happiness once you die.

What you have passed 2ru according to you is patetic, though we don't know the story from the other side.but i think that guy does not deserve you,try look away from him and be more careful.good luck.