I've been keeping this to myself for longtime, finally decided to share it with you for your candid advice. It goes, i dated this lady during our secondary school years, she was a virgin then i got her pregnant. She didnt tell me about it, she went and confided to her teenage girl frends. The friends advice her to abort it since am not aware and for fear of her parent reaction. Really i didn't know that she got pregnant, i only notice the changes in colour of her skin (How am i to know, a J.J.C). She took some traditional herbs to abort the pregnancy, the herbs started disturbing her and her parent got to know that she was pregnant. She called my name that i was responsible, and the parent sent for my parent on what has happened. When my parent called me over the issue i was shocked because the laddy didn't tell me about it. I accepted because i was her known boyfriend, we spend most of our times together both in their house and ours. If she had any hidden relationship, that one i can't tell. (Ladies for what they are). We went with my parent and accepted the prenancy. Three days after she had the abortion, 3months pregnancy. The issue brought problem7 between our families, at last we were warned to stay off each. We quited for 5year but whenever i came home she used to come. My dad is late and now i've married her despite his rejection, but there is no child 4 2 yrs. I feel like marrying another lady to born children. Pls advice me, !

it is just 4 2 years there still hope. just ask her whether she is havin problem with her womb. if she has, guy no remedy and it is not ur fault

guy pls buy a ram and take it 2 ur dads grave 2 appease the gods/him, do it and come bak and let me know

or u both shud go 2 his grave and cry 6 to 6pm, do this and he wud 4giv u both


ur father was a strong man

Marriage is a convenant, and should be for life. When making decisions that have such great consequences on your life, you should always take your SWEET SWEET time to evaluate all the reasons, consequences and other things that could come into the picture once married.

It is obvious that you do not love her, I'm not even sure you married her becase you genuinely believed that it was the right thing to do. It seems that you have not yet managed to convince yourself that you're doing the right thing, hence I'm not convinced either.

Right now, within marriage it is not advisable to do anything else but to honour your marriage. After two years you are thinking of quitting things with her, I mean have you seen a doctor about this, a professional and not a herbalist. They should check the state of both of your reproductive systems. There is technology, she didn't use it the first time, don't both be fooled twice.

I hope there is at least some understanding and honesty between the two of you, because if you didn't think about your marriage beforehand that's one thing, but then bringing children into such a relationship is another, try not to make selfish decisions.

Just go and commit suicide

ahaaaa ahaaaaaaaa is that an advice?

Yes it is

lol motigbo ooooooooooo

@daduke2k, y didn't u commit sucide when u discovered that you are an adopted child of a non entity,, !!

Tanx @others, for u candid advice, that is what good friends are known for. I really appreciate!

Poster,

I seriously feel that you are a ()*!#&(!&#$()!&@#$)&@#!)$7!


let me breathe. . .


Ok here goes.

So because she cannot get pregnant thats why u want another wife right? Wonders shall never end. . . Men are mostly selfish! Why do women have to suffer for their sake anyways? We should just end up single instead of tolerating with men like u. I told my bf that if he cannot accept that I cannot get pregnant one day (if it happens), he can sit and rot in hell for all I CARE! na by force? If God has destined us to not get pregnant, what can we do? Is it our fault that we cannot get pregnant? Sorry! I mean is it her fault that she cannot pregnant?

have you ever thought maybe the reason why she cannot get pregnant because your sperm is no use? Not everything has to be with the women. . . Its the man at times. . . But in this world, I hardly hear a woman complaining about her husband with unproductive sperm. . . They would usually go through this problem with their husbands instead of bragging about it to us here. . . Go and check yourself. . . U will see. Now we all know that men gossips more than women! NA WAA!

The next thing you know, after she gives birth for you, you would let her do all the taking care, the feeding, the schooling, the wiping, the cleaning and than you will still have the GUTS to brag about to your friends and family that you have no more attraction for your wife cause after she gave birth for u, she has stretch marks, she gain weight, she look more wowo and her vagina is LOOSE!

ont say I beef you, this is your kind of attitude with other men!


My advise finally to you:
1) DO NOT COMMIT ADULTERY!
2) SHE IS YOUR WIFE, STAY FAITHFUL TO HER AND GOD SHALL REWARD YOU
3) YOU BOTH CAN GO DO A CHECK UP WITH A PROFESSIONAL DOCTOR AND SEE BOTH OF YOUR SYSTEMS AND SEEK ADVICE AND PROFESSIONAL HELP FROM YOUR DOCTOR, NOT FROM NAIRALAND. WHAT CAN NAIRALAND GIVE YOU?
4) GO FOR ADOPTION. ITS NOT THAT BAD TO GO FOR ADOPTION. ABANDON CHILDREN NEEDS LOVE AND SUPPORT AFTER ALL. U ARE DOING THEM A FAVOUR BY CONTRIBUTING TO THE WORLD.

daduke2k, sometimes i just wander if pigs like you still exist

@Gabry, thbnk God i went offline. No guy will accept you as his wife if you are really impotent. (Save me the blind love stuff) What am i marrying you for if you cant produce! O, guosh, seach yourself b4 you marry as for me am alright ok!

Luvties:

@Gabry, thbnk God i went offline. No guy will accept you as his wife if you are really impotent. (Save me the blind love stuff) What am i marrying you for if you cant produce! O, guosh, seach yourself b4 you marry as for me am alright ok!

Seems to me u aint marrying her for her but you are marrying her more for the babies.

Go to adoption centre and get 5000 of those and stop torturing and tormenting your wife's life.! 


By the way, my bf thinks that to look for another women is the most wrong thing to do and it will never solve your problem. He told u to pray and fast for God and GGod shall have his way for you. He also said that adoption is not a bad thing and u might want to consider that if after 10 years your wife is still not pregnant. He say nothing is impossible if you believe it will work and if you are patient.

@Gabry, did i hear u say 10yrs, ? Adoption? hee! heeee! Even your bf will not accept you knowing the fact that you are impotent.

@Gabry, did i hear u say 10yrs, ? Adoption? hee! heeee! Even your bf will not accept you knowing the fact that you are impotent.

ok, thats just his advice, If you dont want to hear it, than u do your own thing. 

@Gabry, i forgot when i told yov that am cheating on my wife. She is my wife, by the way what did you know about family? you that didnt know your final destination. (Oh please, save me ur teenage advice) I need advice from matured minds not a spinter like you, !

Well, if that is the case, than you can change your title to I NEED YOUR CANDID ADVICE FROM CHEATERS MATURED PEOPLE

@Gabry, Thanks for your advice ok!