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| PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by reel14: 4:35pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
[b]HI people, i dont want to bother you with long story that touches, so im gonna go straight to the point i had a very terrible break up with my ex, which left me shattered and battered for several month(though still nursing the wound here). i couldnt concentrate on my future because i invested my life, time, resources,love and emotions into the relationship of 3 years. everything went bad went when she left for national service(NYSC), however, i summon courage and started what i wasnt used to, like picking girls and dump them at will, watching pornography, heartlessly dealing with the women folk, taking call girls, in short runs girls are my fav for now. my christian like shrinks in a geometric proportion(shedding tears as i type) few months i met a a girl in my elder brother's neighbourhood named Mary. mary is such a wonderful and descent girl any serious minded guy mshould be with. she is truthful and committed to me, loves me, cares about us and godly. but me i want her cookies jar and take the next available flight, but the more i try to have her cookies, the more it becomes difficult. she want love and affection but me want her kitty catshe's no way related to any gold digging tendency. now, here lies the problem, i want to break up and let her go because theres no iota of affection for any woman anymore(becauseJennifa) took it all away, breaking up with my enstrange gf, Mary is a bit difficult and its as good as a tough battle for me to fight. i dont want to break an innocent heart and constitute another heartless folk like me to the society. Though i believe in love but its complicated. romancelander, how do i kill a stubborn rat without shedding blood? thanks your guy, REEL14 |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by jashar(f): 4:37pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
What about setting the 'rat' free? You know you have no good intentions t'wards her, why must you destroy her life, ehn, why? Don't take out the frustrations and hurt from your past on an innocent. You berra re-dedicate your life to God, cuz in Him you'll get real healing and cleansing of your soul. Jesus love you too much for you to continue living in sinful pleasures. |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by reel14: 4:40pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
jashar: thats what i dont know how to do |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by jashar(f): 4:45pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
reel14: I'm going to type something crazy now. Sit her down(in a public place  ) and tell her the truth. Tell her you need space to get your life straight so, you'll have to desist from communication for awhile.Make your way right with God. Get yourself to a Bible believing, living and preaching church. Be submitted to godly authority and stay accountable. Shalom. |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by wilybebsy(m): 4:46pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Got no advice for you bro..  Lets wait for the elders  |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by vicky6855(f): 4:47pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Haha... You dont have any good intentions towards... The easiet thing to do is just to tell her straight to her face and break her heart and tell her why you are breaking with her (if you guts will allow)... I believe this will help her learn how to avoid guys like you in the future and be able to judge guys she sees approaching (so in the end you will teach her something meaningful). I would have advised you to stay with her and let her teach you how to love and trust again. but it seems like you mind is made up.... but still it would have been best if you had stayed with her..... You don't know if a disease awaits you with another runs girl.... Stay Healthy , Stay Wise |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by reel14: 4:59pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
vicky6855: good advice my sister, but whats their, all this girls are just complicated. who knows what would become of her tomorrow? me and my ex started very well, even when i didnt have. things went sour when she left for service as i stated earlier. cant risk putting my eggs in a basket again. all i need is for mary to stay out of this. but others will feel the heat i've come to realize that being a good guy doesnt bpay off. players eat the best of the fish while they leave the kanda for us. NEVER AGAIN will this happen |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by vicky6855(f): 5:06pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
reel14: Seriously you didnt tell me you were a good guy... Well I totally advise against that.... Good guys are only important for marriage .... while the bad boys that make our hearts feel alright... But if you are both then there is no way you girlfriend or wife can ever cheat on you. The thing is that Nigerian guys think that being a bad guy means having 10 girlfriends.. or only caring about the girl kitty cat (as you said).... but there is more to being a bad guy that we ladies just love... I can't teach you... that you have to understand and find out yourself... Remember to change your personality (I mean to perfect it).... Stay Healthy, Stay Wise |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by schumastic(m): 5:16pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
since you said she is a nice person and doesn't deserve to be hurt I think you should let her go she has earned it with her decency..though I know how u feel cus have been there but there r som nice people who shouldn't pay for the mistakes of others.. |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
jashar:
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| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by UyiIredia(m): 5:29pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
@ reel14 It's wrong of you to unduly take advantage of girls just because of one heartbreak. That's so not fair. Remember the Golden rule, do unto others what u want to be done to you. |
| Re: PLEASE HELP; SHE'S JUST TOO WONDERFUL TO BE TREATED BAD by reel14: 5:29pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
schumastic: thats true bro. i concur.god bless you real good |
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