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Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Ademat7(m): 2:48am On Jun 15, 2016 |
@shitshappen u know what I get ur point, u need d guys details to offer him something yet d guy never send Acc details. by d way I need job if u can help,currently supervising a block moulding venture to avoid idleness however I'm flexible and can adjust to change of environment,I study soil science and land mgt which is environmental n agriculture lastly I reside in ayobo-ipaja axis 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by swaggprofessor(m): 4:07am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard:then go and look for teaching job atleast that is a job u cud easily get. When u are dressed every morning to go out to work believe me the respect will resurface. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Fime2000: 4:12am On Jun 15, 2016 |
u ar a monkey and stupid boy, can't u go out and fetch money or u ask them money to enstablish something dt will give u money. wait untill they put feeder on yr mouth, u ar still calling yrself a baby. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by anyicash(m): 4:22am On Jun 15, 2016 |
madridguy:You have said it all..Op is one of the luckiest boy on earth and he has one of the best Mum on earth..Op all Mum wanted is for you to grow up, and stop falling ya hand..AS A GRADUATE, YOUR PARENTS HAVE SETTLED YOU IN A BIGGER WAY...common make them proud by taking a decision as a graduate. stop comparing yaself with ur little sibling...#growup. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by chara019: 4:24am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Geez!,don't tell me you gonna be depending on your folks for tips even after graduation? go hustle jor. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by onunwa21(m): 4:37am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Bro; Go for DNA test to ascertain if she is truly ur biological mother. If yes is the answer. Bro go look for Buhari police or teaching job. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by cruz419(m): 4:40am On Jun 15, 2016 |
My broda It happens some parent are lyk Dat,, I see no reason y dey can't give u small stipend if dey can afford it,, I went true d same thing after graduation I got no dime from my parent I even had to use my small saving to do my clearance in school b4 nysc and now am don with service year I survive with d little I saved after one year in bauchi state and no job yet,, d thing is don't let it led u to hateing ur mum,, try and find something to do, if u can't just be positive with life,,people are Blaming u but u know if only dey could walk a mile in ur shoes den may be dey would understand!!! Just be positive and let go of hard feeling keeping trying ur best to get do something to do? !!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by DedeNkem: 4:50am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard: You're an ingrate! Your parents raised you and sponsored you through school and you're there complaining like a dumb secondary school kid at the back of the class! Do you expect your parents to spoon-feed you all your life? You should thank them everyday you wake your dumb as*s up, for being great parents to you! Many people are orphans and yet they still succeed in life! Get your lazy as*s off the couch and hussle for once in your pathetic life! You pi*issed me off! If I wete your dad I would shove my foot up your dumb as*s for being ungrateful! |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by DLIVINGMASTER(m): 5:01am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Your parents love you.never dislike them. They are indirectly telling you to work hard and be a man. For the small born this is his turn. I will help you to be successful employ to any establishment of your choice with my spell when cast .or make you to be famous and Rich. Contact me now . |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 5:45am On Jun 15, 2016 |
That is normal. D want u to become a man. Stop being mummy's pet. Wise up, day don break. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Anglovel: 5:50am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Firstly, your parens don't hate you. You just have a different understanding from theirs and none of them discussed their reality with you but acted it out, hence your confusion. And majority of those who gave you 'tough' advice up here don't hate you either, they have just told you the Blunt n Bare truth in a nice tone. I DO believe you're lazy. You haven't just started to come to terms with the "survival of the fittest" race you automatically signed up for upon graduation. So here's what you must do: 1) Stop hating your mom. Show her love because it's a privilege you have a mother under whose roof you live and eat. 2) Convert your hate (towards your mother) into passion for what you have interest in and to learn a skill (or get a temp job) that can fetch monetary gains. This will help you a lot as you go for service in the coming months and even beyond. 3) DO NOT EXPECT HELP FROM ANYONE. Don't get me wrong. You can accept help, but never expect it's someone's job to give it. This will give you a sense of responsibility that will give you the edge you need in this competitive world of ours. Don't leave home now. NYSC will evict you anyway. Just get busy in your current environment and make yourself relevant. Things will get tougher for you from now but see it as a learning process and make the best of it. The best advice for you isn't 'grow up,' it is 'rise up.'. If u were my Son I would have thrown u out of d house by now! My 20 year old son studying mechanical engineering in ghana opened a tailoring shop with part of his next year's sch fees,he works for himself,helps out at his school's mech workshop n never relies on his single parent! Call me for counselling or better still come n work on my farm in lugbe abuja with no pay for one year n u will start praying for ur mother nite n day I bet u! Wake up boy n smell d coffee in Naija "U don't know what God has done for u n still doing" I laugh in Pidgin way! |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 5:53am On Jun 15, 2016 |
spafu:Amen. I belive God wil do is own part as we do our own. My people shal not Labour in vain. My people shal eat from the fruit of dia Labour. His word cant go back void. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by bellabello(m): 6:09am On Jun 15, 2016 |
If you begin hate them u r begin to enter hell fire, definitely they r telling u to start ur own life. For example : pretend that u faint u will c the love they had 4 u |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Holywizard: 6:13am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Ademat7:no one has asked me 4 my bank account details |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by justmuhd(m): 6:17am On Jun 15, 2016 |
in the OP's defence,its not like he doesnt want to hustle..he never said or implied anything of the sort..he intends to stand up and do something he wanted to even go all the way to PH to manage his friend's business..isnt that standing up to hustle?lets nt look at it from just one angle..owk fine the mum wants him to hustle then why refuse him the opportunity to hustle in PH?? i feel it wuf be unfair to say je doesnt wantu hustle..besides,as parents you put your child through school and now he's done and you just be looking at him or her at home..your job as a parent is not done! a child with no job yet and you say your hands are of him financially? dats not a responsible thing to do.of how does he or she get to buy basic tjings dats needed?if you dnt provide for your child and he steals wah will be said of you?? if the boy wants to go hustle,allow him! its that simple..someone wants to use his hands to work and make some money and become useful to himself amd the family and you dnt let him yet you say you want him to hustle??thats ironic dont you think? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by InvertedHammer: 6:25am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard:/ What are you still doing at home after graduation? They spent money to train you in school. It is time for you to go out there and become a man. You need to move out to create room for your younger ones to be trained as well. You can even assist in training your siblings. At what point are you going to grow up? You are just an ingrate. \ |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by laikas: 6:29am On Jun 15, 2016 |
presently, am nt on talking terms with my mother, she told me sumtin that really touched me lst friday, throughout the nite i cried thinkin abt the whole thing, one thing i came to realise is that she is pushing me to be better person, she knows my weak point n hw to trigger me. buh i stil love her so dearly. she is my number 1. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by uzolexis(f): 6:37am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Godmother:that's not true, not all parents do that at least my parents dont do that. That does not mean it's wrong, every parent have their own parenting method but I don't think it's ok for a parent not to support your child anymore if the parent still has the means even though the child has graduated from school. That should not stop the child from hustling too, it keeps the child from trouble actually cos when you don't have money even for your basic needs you can be tempted into doing illegal things. I know how many times, I was being lured into illegal runs after school before I got a job but I didnt fall for it and now I have a good job and my parents are enjoying too. Raising a child never ends, until you or the child is dead, you will always be a parent. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by sinceraconcept(m): 6:40am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard:what a good mother your mum is,if she keeps giving you money,you wont find something to do. She wants you to be a man and go and to strive rather than wasting your time looking for job |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by KissCODE(m): 7:04am On Jun 15, 2016 |
madridguy:did u read the part where she didnt allow him to go work in PH? If you really read that part you wouldnt have responded like this. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by paix(m): 7:14am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Your parents have given you the net by sending you to school. Go and start fishing. Your mothern wants you to fend for yourself as a man, at least that will assure them that you can take care of yourself even if they die today. They don't want you to be a liability to anyone. Your mum is a real mother. Good luck. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by amicable09(f): 7:17am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Amicable24:Hi dear ![]() |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Nobody: 7:18am On Jun 15, 2016 |
![]() You are a spoilt irresponsible brat! Get off your lazy behind and go get a J.O.B! ![]() You could sell peanuts in traffic if you can't get a better job instead of dishing out crap to your mum! She feeds your ungrateful behind , sent your lazy behind to school and now you want her to Bresst feed your lazy behind?!! The nerve!!! ![]() You are as useful as wet paint on a bench! If I were your mum I would kick you outta the house so you won't just have picket money on your mind but also accommodation and feeding! Spoilt lil brat! |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Ademat7(m): 7:21am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard:check his post again |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Holywizard: 7:30am On Jun 15, 2016 |
shitshappen:sir, pls I am still waiting. Should in case u'd be needing my account details... ACC name--Ndukwe Wisdom ACC No. 6170634284 Fidelity bank God bless |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by lebienconnu: 7:30am On Jun 15, 2016 |
The op cannot hate his mum. He only said that just for the saying sake or he was being over emotional. @p, I believe you have colleagues that did not have any parent by the graduated. Your parents will live very long and shall continue to be blessed by the grace of God. But for your own good just assume they do not have money and in fact, need your financial assistance. Think very well. There is always a way out. Cut the bridge. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by mbz101(m): 7:30am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Don't worry every soon you will see her in your dream that she has my bewitching you and you will soon meet a prophet that will tell if you don't kill your mother your problem won't be resolve wink ): . Make her smile and rob her of money rethink boy !!! Ingrate pinkin they sponsored you education to university . Guys like you could bite the hand that feed u . Find you way that's my 2cent have got for you . |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by Holywizard: 7:31am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Ademat7:but I still see notin but pls u can still help me quote his comment |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by gustav25: 7:53am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Holywizard:Hahahhahah...is this not Holywizard d owerri boy that brags everywhere that he wants to Bleep every girl in Nigeria ? The notorious ashawo fuckery industry ...MR FUCKER d okpontu ....after wasting all your energy on ashawo you now expect your mom to replenish it ? Sorry dullard life works not in such a manner ....its simply the law of retributive justice ....all the ashawos you forked are now forking you in their own ways (lol...destiny..lol) shebi money to fork ashawo don cease to show now abi ?olodo And if you guys think am speaking with my left tongue ,go throw his posts ...agbaya |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by general1970: 7:55am On Jun 15, 2016 |
Mommy's boy, you are even seeing food to eat and you are lamenting, you suppose to be making 1000's of naira and can't even find a means to recharge your phone. #WastedBrainlessGraduate |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by nwaimoroseyaho: 8:08am On Jun 15, 2016 |
sorry dear. If you are a girl go and get a husband and if you are a boy start hustling. that's the message. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Mother!!! by NemzySeries(m): 8:16am On Jun 15, 2016 |
oga ur own na joke.......mumcy wake me 4 hot afternoon sleep say make I go cut & wash bitter leave 4rm back....i nearly wan die & mind u datz d normal reach frm parents dis transitional stage but i'll advice u go out of ur way to get sumfin doing no mata aw small bkos dat wat I'm equally searching for ......av bin in dis hauz wit ma badfone & e no concern anybody butma kid bro shw frm law sch & due to hiz carelessness popcy is planning to gethim a new fone & ino get ryt to vex rada & I'm praying 4 a gud job so dat I can equally takia ofma sef & blow deir mind |
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