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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by kyrios: 10:09pm On Jun 13, 2016
As for No 1. Na girlfriend na so why should I involve her in everything na when you get money she go dey yarn say after all we went through abegi make she dey her lane make I dey mine

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by ideandy: 10:11pm On Jun 13, 2016
nice post guy. i love it they are real but i advuce ladies t open their eyes
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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Chimaritoponcho: 10:12pm On Jun 13, 2016
skarlett:





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Lol wetin kWansign u

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Yewandequeen(f): 10:18pm On Jun 13, 2016
Flashh:

You are not one of those fish brain girls who believes in any negative things they read or hear about men.

Nope am not.

I don't believe in all these yeye right ups.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Ezeego1(m): 10:27pm On Jun 13, 2016
Poorboy:
If you have a boyfriend of like 2 years ask him of your phone number, if he can't tell you your phone number off-hand dump him you're playing with fire! #FACT
.

Poor boy!
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jun 13, 2016
Shawntops:
It happens.People fall out of love and become disinterested. But how do you tell when your boyfriend isn't into you anymore or isn't taking the relationship seriously?


You could just ask, but he may pretend everything's okay and you won't get a real answer.So if you suspect your boyfriend has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it.


Seven Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship:
1.He Doesn't Involve You In His Life

You aren't invited to family events or to hang out with his friends.He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you're always guessing whether that's his nature.That's not his nature, he tired of your relationship and he's trying to keep you off little by little.

2.He Talks About Other Girls

If he's looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn't have eyes for you and that's an obvious sign of disinterest.He's actually finding other ladies more attractive than you were.

3.Doesn't Ask For Details

He doesn't ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn't ask for more.He's just going through the motions but wants the conversation to be over before it's even started..*lol*lmao*.

4.He Makes You Feel Like You Can't Say Anything Right

Is your boyfriend constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you're running around in circles and defending yourself even when you're being nice? Unless, you're spending in code, there's a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you.
5. He Constantly Say "Sorry" For The Same Thing

Sorry is just a word unless there's a real effort made to not make the same mistake again.He says sorry when he cheats, sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you caught him with another lady..He will start singing you the song "Sorry" by Justin Bieber.

6.It's All About Sex

Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting.It's good to cuddle, but when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end...Sister! Sorry! It's not Love, but Lust.

7.He Remember Nothing About You

You have full conversations that he cannot recollect.He heard you mention your April birthday five times but sill swears you were born in June.If the only thing he remembers is your address and his favourite bra-and-panty set, there's a problem with your relationship.


NOTE:
Knowing more about your relationship is important.If you're seeing these signs or part of it in him, you need to settle things out or you'd rather called it a Quit..


http://shawntops..com.ng/2016/06/7-signs-your-boyfriend-is-not-serious.html
girls want sex nowdays not the guys, if u turn them down, they will call u gay, here in my area, there is this girl that was playing hard she thought i was shy buh she heard i and one girl used to hug out, she started coming close to me, telling my friends i should bleep her, buh her ass is very flat, i like something my hand can hold and be doing her from behind, sex talk dey sweet some girls than any other thing, imagine bony ass is not for me
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by comradeson: 10:36pm On Jun 13, 2016
Cherishing:
A man that will marry you will still do more than these 7 and if arrested by the love god no demon can stop him from marrying you.

Just play your card well with him, if its not him it then means that someone else is there for you.

#UseUrHead

Your theory is a total lie.No man who has any other above traits cares about his woman especially number 1,3 and 7.I am a man so I know what I am saying.This goes for guys in relationships too.Any girl that doesn't remember the issues you discuss is not serious about you.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by chubbygal(f): 10:39pm On Jun 13, 2016
For where eeerr

Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Benblaq(m): 10:40pm On Jun 13, 2016
Cherishing:
A man that will marry you will still do more than these 7 and if arrested by the love god no demon can stop him from marrying you.

Just play your card well with him, if its not him it then means that someone else is there for you.

#UseUrHead
okunrin u knw d odour jare
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by mommaade(f): 10:41pm On Jun 13, 2016
Lobatan!

Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by tosyne2much(m): 10:43pm On Jun 13, 2016
Peacetemi:
Guys dont wanna be serious anymore. Do you copy?? We do not want to be serious anymore. Who has seriousness epp?? I repeat who the hell has seriousness epp?? Tosyne.2much I hail you 10 times o cool
Baba, so you sef follow feature for this nice thread cheesy
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Poorboy: 10:44pm On Jun 13, 2016
Ezeego1:
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Poor boy!
Yea Boss!
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by harsysky(m): 10:45pm On Jun 13, 2016
Let me tell you all why I resent these people with their rules/points-thingy. It makes one's mind to be wired in the way the points are made. Even if you never saw anything wrong in your relationship before, you would begin to see.

these points are just like the apple the serpent gave eve. It must make anyone see fault they wud wana repair other people's relationship while theirs are nothing to write home about.

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Orikinla(m): 10:46pm On Jun 13, 2016
Shawntops:
It happens.People fall out of love and become disinterested. But how do you tell when your boyfriend isn't into you anymore or isn't taking the relationship seriously?


You could just ask, but he may pretend everything's okay and you won't get a real answer.So if you suspect your boyfriend has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it.


Seven Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship:
1.He Doesn't Involve You In His Life

You aren't invited to family events or to hang out with his friends.He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you're always guessing whether that's his nature.That's not his nature, he tired of your relationship and he's trying to keep you off little by little.

2.He Talks About Other Girls

If he's looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn't have eyes for you and that's an obvious sign of disinterest.He's actually finding other ladies more attractive than you were.

3.Doesn't Ask For Details

He doesn't ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn't ask for more.He's just going through the motions but wants the conversation to be over before it's even started..*lol*lmao*.

4.He Makes You Feel Like You Can't Say Anything Right

Is your boyfriend constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you're running around in circles and defending yourself even when you're being nice? Unless, you're spending in code, there's a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you.
5. He Constantly Say "Sorry" For The Same Thing

Sorry is just a word unless there's a real effort made to not make the same mistake again.He says sorry when he cheats, sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you caught him with another lady..He will start singing you the song "Sorry" by Justin Bieber.

6.It's All About Sex

Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting.It's good to cuddle, but when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end...Sister! Sorry! It's not Love, but Lust.

7.He Remember Nothing About You

You have full conversations that he cannot recollect.He heard you mention your April birthday five times but sill swears you were born in June.If the only thing he remembers is your address and his favourite bra-and-panty set, there's a problem with your relationship.


NOTE:
Knowing more about your relationship is important.If you're seeing these signs or part of it in him, you need to settle things out or you'd rather called it a Quit..


http://shawntops..com.ng/2016/06/7-signs-your-boyfriend-is-not-serious.html

Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Peacetemi: 10:47pm On Jun 13, 2016
tosyne2much:
Baba, so you sef follow feature for this nice thread cheesy
I dey always follow all these 7 and 10 commandments threads na. cool
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by TheSunSon: 10:54pm On Jun 13, 2016
Cherishing:
A man that will marry you will still do more than these 7 and if arrested by the love god no demon can stop him from marrying you.

Just play your card well with him, if its not him it then means that someone else is there for you.

#UseUrHead
This our generation sef,so if you play your card and he marries you cos of "your game",how long will your game keep him?
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by egedege1(m): 10:55pm On Jun 13, 2016
Same thing applies to the female folks
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by 9Too: 10:58pm On Jun 13, 2016
Yewandequeen:
Na wa oooo

What is it Na? You people should let one rest Na oginni?

7 this,3 that and relationships and marriages are still crumbling angry That is to say it's not by all these write ups, it's only God that can keep a union.
yes! " It's only God that can keep a union". for thee that seekt his wisdom. I'm talking to u my sister.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Yewandequeen(f): 11:01pm On Jun 13, 2016
9Too:
yes! " It's only God that can keep a union". for thee that seekt his wisdom. I'm talking to u my sister.

Thank you my brother smiley
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by 9Too: 11:04pm On Jun 13, 2016
NegeduGrace:
Ok..good one,,we re learning
negedu grace na you be this?
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Cherishing(f): 11:05pm On Jun 13, 2016
TheSunSon:

This our generation sef,so if you play your card and he marries you cos of "your game",how long will your game keep him?
Life is all about games , you take your chances whenever you have it.
Remember I said its a game... it has a duration and one person must win, lose or its an even game.
goodnight dearie
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by alex81(m): 11:06pm On Jun 13, 2016
just here to read comments....





and.......





waiting for d counter thread
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jun 13, 2016
Cherishing:
A man that will marry you will still do more than these 7 and if arrested by the love god no demon can stop him from marrying you.

Just play your card well with him, if its not him it then means that someone else is there for you.

#UseUrHead

On your dp,you looking down;are you a babalawo grin
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Cherishing(f): 11:09pm On Jun 13, 2016
comradeson:


Your theory is a total lie.No man who has any other above traits cares about his woman especially number 1,3 and 7.I am a man so I know what I am saying.This goes for guys in relationships too.Any girl that doesn't remember the issues you discuss is not serious about you.
if I hear, you are just one man and not "no man". The same thing that chased Taiwo away From marrying Mary is the thing that brought Taye and Mary together .
Men got their individual differences

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Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by TheSunSon: 11:11pm On Jun 13, 2016
Cherishing:

Life is all about games , you take your chances whenever you have it.
Remember I said its a game... it has a duration and one person must win, lose or its an even game.
goodnight dearie
O kwa ya? nsogbu adiro,kachifo.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by stanliwise(m): 11:11pm On Jun 13, 2016
No one mentioned mind games
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Cherishing(f): 11:12pm On Jun 13, 2016
sauceny:

On your dp,you looking down;are you a babalawo grin
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jun 13, 2016
Mtcheeew *spews* on thread warris this everybody forming relationship doctor.
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by gbemoh: 11:22pm On Jun 13, 2016
Poorboy:
If you have a boyfriend of like 2 years ask him of your phone number, if he can't tell you your phone number off-hand dump him you're playing with fire! #FACT

Lol, how many of my numbers can I even remember.....in today's world, we make machines think better, y do I need to, I don't even know my mums number by heart.
Say something else
Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by MVLOX(m): 11:35pm On Jun 13, 2016
I totally disagree with number 3. most babes dont and cant have a very simple and casual chat. they would rather prefer guy who chats dirty and trashy. most case a good brings up fun interesting topics to chat abt yet he get reply like kk, wow and other annoying responses. some times having typed my Chronicles of how my day went, i expect my babe to do same so dat i will at least get a pic of her day went, but sometimes i get disappointed with very short uninspiring responses and most times i just read d annoying response and just drop my phone until she has sometin to say cuz i get tired of starting the conversation still be d 1 to put fire wood to make it continue to burn, as such in most cases i rather allow the fire die down.

Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Anusiemgood(m): 11:43pm On Jun 13, 2016
Vickyydera:
And yet some guys are just good actors.
hmmm

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