eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

akinsmyk:


we're the same on this. Like you stole my story. Mine is just a bit complex.

Can't count the no of times she had broken up coz of quarrels yet came back begging all times.

She say lotta tinz too which made me scared of ma future with her. She's got anger problems, I don't wanna masked with emotions. This is a lady I spend on even more than ma family members.

When we quarrels, she says there is no big deal in what I'v done and that she'll pay me back all I'v done in multiple folds. Its always hurting and funny when sh3 says this though she make up later that she said all that coz of anger.

No matter how angry I am, I watch what I say but she call me different unprintable names. Says she wished she had a gun and might shoot me for pissing her off.

The day she said that, I had began to doubt ma marriage to her. I love ma life

PaulkillermanAg:
you are a very big fool for not knowing this since..... women are only sex objects, meant to be forked and thrown out the windows when u done.... All u pusssy niggaz keep on deceiving yourselves and keep on learning the hard way ...

Instead of me to spend my money on a girl for nothing, I'll rather burn it to Ashes..... If I'm not paying you to fork your asss, then go for yourself ...

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

alexistaiwo:

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

eiBADAn:


No I'm not.

kelechi17:
d dude dey deny em babe

victorazy:

Ugly girls makes ugly statements and mistakes.

alexistaiwo:

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

queencalipso:


That's what the op said, that he's her benefactor, that doesn't mean its true, its his word against her's. Besides even if he's her benefactor that doesn't mean she should continue taking all his insults BC she's afraid to die. You forget that everything has its limit and maybe she reached hers. It gets to a point where you will choose to die than continue being at the mercy of someone who thinks he's your God, he subjects you to the cruelest of his will and expects you not to fight back and when you do, he tags you ungrateful.

Remember, he threw the first punch.

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

OMOTOWO:
so two of u come dey use one account..and if she post nonsense then u will be liable for that and besides,nairaland frowns at two people sharing one account.in their term,it is called impostor abi na impersonation...lalasticlala ban this ashewo boy.infact,u dey double date,u be cheat.tell me u never Bleep the girl ..u put another girl for ur nairaland picture n u com dey complain..if na d girl (ur gf) do d same for u wetin u go talk..u be ashewo

UIA04:

If all you said is the truth
I'm sorry to say but


YOU ARE A BIG FOOL

i if you marry such a lady you'll live your life spending on her and her family.

That girl must be lazy and shameless.


Do you really earn that much,a wise woman would take that money save and start a business of hers. What if you guys break up. She'll be left high and dry. I bet she already has a back up plan for her lazy lifestyle if you guys break up. But you aren't aware of it.

A girl like that can't depend on one guy, because of oju kokoro.


I laugh in spiritual powers. You even give her family and she's just a girlfriend.

If I was you younger sister I'll curse you.


Please wise up teach her to catch fish or you will marry a liability and suffer all your life.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

STFUareyouG0d:
still trying to figure how this is news

ziego:


Most a times ladies forget easily how good u have been to them, have been with this girl for 2years now. One day we had a little argument just because some bought her soro (china android ) she had the got to tell me to list all the things I have done for her since two years. This was a girl I do pay her lesson fees, give her cheques and cash via bank wire, bought cloths for, shoes, I was listing them and she was saying yes yes like it will stop on the way may be she will win. But the one that shocked her was her monthly subscription for 2years which amount to about 57, 000

That was when she shot up.

I was patient enough to list those things


Three good times I traveled from calabar to Lagos just to see her which cost me not less than 30k each.

Little things that matters so much they forget

Why do ladies forget the care of a man so easily


A man Will single handedly train a girl in Skul she pay him back with break up.

Its very very bad