tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.

Rocktation,lalasticlala help a sister out

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

philybuck:
Love forgives, since he got your pin from some1 it looks like you were just a bet and he had his way with you when you met up with him, don't flog the issue, just forget about him and move on, if you are sincere with yourself you would noticed a behavioral change after the time you guys met in person, if you really need to forget him delete his contacts and all his social media contact and avoid the temptation of checking him out on social media. you should be better over time. Enjoy

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

bitchcrafts:
Send the shirt to my mail box for confirmation , Right now!

BrideOfDracula:


Hehehe. I'm wearing it as a reminder for when I'm in a finger pointing mood, like the OP

tushgirl:
Thanks so much

megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.

Rocktation,lalasticlala help a sister out

bitchcrafts:
Nice nice Nice, so how do we know you're not lying through your teeth, making this claim up for your claims to carry weight?

megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)

Hey.....Be Nice..

BrideOfDracula:


LOL, you just have to take my word for it. In all honesty though, I can relate so much to the OP. I'm not aware (or don't care) when I'm doing it because the suspicions are just too strong & feel so real to me. Only afterwards (when I'm thinking more logically) do I realize what a mess I've made by going on a rampage without any tangible facts of the things I've accused people of. It's not easy though to not wanna lash out when you THINK or FEEL you're being made a fool of. I know it sounds insane, but it is what it is.

bitchcrafts:
It doesn't sound insane to me . It is your thing, #ladies. Happens when you know you're so loved up and you FEAR he's gonna take that (U) for granted . I find it stvpid, not insane.

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

BrideOfDracula:


Hahaha. Stùpid is the word then. Yeah, it only happens when there are deep feelings involved & the illogical side of the brain takes over

bitchcrafts:
You see, most of us niggas won't settle down wt ya when we know you got too bad bad security issues to settle. Trying to pacify (change) u guys is out of the question cos that's when you lots flare up and scream, "Fukin let me be! I'm just being me" and Were like well, "HeAl yourself first for us to continue" without having to say those words cos we ain't story tellers. You just see us Ignoring u 'viciously' then if no sign of improvement Gone like yesterday. Who's now at fault?

BrideOfDracula:


Sigh. I know exactly what you mean. Usually there's a painful past experience, but like you said, HEAL. Easier said than done though, but hey, we live to learn.