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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by schumastic(m): 10:54am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek: why not they can come is a free world can't stop anyone from coming since is a public place not like is my house or something, most important thing is that, i don't have any business with them just the person i planned taking out to have a good time with. 3 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by KAYD007(m): 10:54am On Jun 16, 2016 |
PassingShot: If na APC do this na , you will say otherwise |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 10:55am On Jun 16, 2016 |
That girl/lady is unknowingly wicked. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by histemple: 10:56am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek: Obviously you are a lady. Were you expecting the guy to tell her not to come with her friends? Why will the guy stop people that want to go and see a movie? Remember that she didn't tell the guy that her friends will depend on him to pay for their tickets and all. Then why can't she even buy tickets for everybody including the boy? Is it a taboo to do so? 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 10:56am On Jun 16, 2016 |
I love that. 3 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by donbenedict(m): 10:57am On Jun 16, 2016 |
koboko69:sha thank God I really am not a fan of visiting the cinema.. well if I were the guy and she asked me whether she would bring her friends along, I would simply tell her no.. it's a first date. It's dat simple, instead of leading her on to bring her friends with the though he will cover the bills.. though I agree with u at some point because I created a thread sometime in the past about this idea Nigerian ladies do hav of "the guy being the one to foot d bills" I stated that it's really not a shame for both parties to share the bills. Now in her case, I believe she must have had the notion of him agreeing to foot the bills following his agreement in allowing her friends join them.. If he knew that he wasn't gona sponsor dem, den he ought to have made dat clear. Ah mean what stops a man from telling a lady see, they can come buh I won't be able to pay their ticket fee.. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by veraiyke(m): 10:57am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Poster you're the weird one who acts gentle when you're not. The guy agreed your friends can join you guys see a movie. He didn't agree to pay their tickets. Dates are dates. They are meant to be with just two persons. By attaching your friends you've already made it an outing and no longer a date. Shikena. Kudos to the guy. He did no wrong 4 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by roymary: 10:57am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Better guy wey God go bless! Na me that guy revenge for!! 3 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by goodgate: 10:57am On Jun 16, 2016 |
clogogo:Are you a werey? Get out this thread you son of a pauper. 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by AkumahTalk(m): 10:57am On Jun 16, 2016 |
[size=14pt]Where did you guys learn this "Gentleman" thing from? Abi na Oyibo teach una. Don't worry, the day Oyibo man/woman invite you for a night out; go with an empty pocket and expect scholarship. You will not only end up being embarrassed but in debt as well. [/size] PassingShot: 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Pyno30: 10:58am On Jun 16, 2016 |
mayorkyzo:I have given him the 6bottles. It's 3k, i cum collect money biko no weste my time. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Kgdavid(m): 10:58am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek: of a truth he should have been open with her from the start but some girls too are not very sensible. Aside from the money aspect of it, come on mann it's a date, why should your friends come along?? If i wanted to hang out in a group, don't i have friends of my own to invite? Where else in the world is this done apart from Nigeria? Been to a lot of places mann including other African countries and i can tell you honestly no one thinks like this except for Nigerian girls, which shows that to them we men are merely tools at first sight. It can be disheartening. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 10:58am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Why are men angry with her na? Ambition in women is not encouraged in Nigeria. Money making and self sufficiency is not encouraged instead, women are raised to believe men should provide for them while they (the women) should focus on finding husbands and being good wives. If they spend time making money to buy things for themselves the men will start insulting her and calling her old cargo. Many will even shun her if she has money because she will not be 'submissive'. How will the girl not bring herself and her million friends and expect the man to pay? You men should gerrarahia with your unrealistic expectations jor. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Shaakay(m): 10:59am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Good for her. His saying cool might not mean he's taking up their bills. A date above two obviously is a crowd, maybe his saying cool means i don't worry about the crowd. It would have saved her the embarrassment if she had clarify herself. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by habsydiamond(m): 11:00am On Jun 16, 2016 |
The guy nice oooo. E for carry the lady and her friends to the cost restaurant to eat. When dem don chop about 20k finish he go find him way. Maybe after dem don watch plate tire dem do get sense. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Swagztv(m): 11:00am On Jun 16, 2016 |
mamachizzy:one bottle of non-alcholic Origin for u... 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by smtx(m): 11:00am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek: Sure say u be guy? |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 11:01am On Jun 16, 2016 |
This topic dey make cinema hungry me e don tey wey i wash film for cinema |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by PassingShot(m): 11:01am On Jun 16, 2016 |
AkumahTalk:Our culture is different from Oyinbos. The guy lacks respect for the opposite sex and to himself. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by NwaNimo1(m): 11:01am On Jun 16, 2016 |
The guy deserves an award for his boldness... [img]http://www.trbimg.com/img-56b6ba6b/turbine/bal-anquan-boldin-named-man-of-the-year-201602-001/750/750x422[/img] 3 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by oteneaaron(m): 11:01am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Feranchek: kai.....i just know what to call you sef.......... 3 Likes
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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by numericalguy(m): 11:01am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Hmm |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Bnladan(m): 11:02am On Jun 16, 2016 |
He paid for her. As it should be. But that she feels her friends are entitled to his money is testament to her unfortunate mentality. I am sure the guy in question can easily pay for her friends. But it's a good thing he did not. This entitlement mentality must be knocked. It's okay if a guy pays for you and your friends, but as far as he did not ask them to come, it is VERY OKAY for him not to pay. To all d ladies, Unless you feel unsafe, don't carry your friend(s) along to a first date. And if you feel unsafe, you shouldn't be meeting him. If you must carry your friend along for any reason, have the decency to insist on paying for them. Let him insist on not letting you. The moment you start feeling entitled to a guy's money, he would most likely start feeling entitled to your body. This is 2016. Evolve. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by goodheart02(m): 11:02am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Monalisa185: God bless you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by macaranta(m): 11:02am On Jun 16, 2016 |
That man deserves a medal. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Pyno30: 11:02am On Jun 16, 2016 |
henrydadon:Any guy that ran into those remaining two will be so lucky, because they will be very cheap at that moment. |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Jamean(f): 11:03am On Jun 16, 2016 |
People should learn effective communication. When she informed him she was coming with friends he should have added that he won't be financially responsible so that the girl won't be expectant. She sef for carry vex money. That aside, I don't support a lady coming with friends when a guy requests a date. A date is supposed to be a quality time to get along. If you are not comfortable going alone then don't go. This is how ladies pack friends that end up snatching their bf. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Maxvasia(m): 11:03am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Hahahahahahahaha.......for this comment, u urself deserve a crate! Infact am ur fan henceforth mayorkyzo: 1 Like |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by oglalasioux(m): 11:04am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Girls even order for what they don't need just to make sure a guy spends. And they will later have a good laugh over it. When same guy 'chops and clean mouth', they'll update their social media page about how guys are wicked. 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Boss13: 11:04am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Israel5: OMG who are you? I laughed so hard. Still laughing sef |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by bakynes(m): 11:05am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Many of those people supporting the girl did not decode her true intentions in the story. The girl wants to milk the guy, she wants him to pay for her friends . if truly her friends too had the intention of watching the movie on their own she didnt need to tell the guy, all they needed do was to show up, introduce her friends to him, they proceed to the ticket stand to get their own tickets and they all go in. Even better if they sit at a distance from their friend and her date. But she didnt do that, she called to confirm if the guy was loaded enough to care for her two friends. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by driand(m): 11:05am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Correct guy, 1 Like
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